Everything in life is a matter of proper framing. Easy to imagine, but not always easy to do.
In my experience, I hid this stuff for years, but over the last couple of years I have started to be more open about it with close friends, and I find a lot of my guy friends like this stuff. (not as much as me, but they certainly appreciate the sexuality of it all and wouldn't cringe watching it).
My confidence grew from that and I started telling more women from time to time. This is numerous women in nightclubs, mutual friends, close female friends, and so on. Would test it on girls not close to my social circle before I started telling those who were within. Not everyone in my circle knows exactly what I do, or knows about my sites specifically, but they know I'm involved "somehow". I'm vague and normally talk in generalities on purpose in the real world when discussing this stuff.
People do judge. If you want to get a high level job doing something you probably won't put on your resume that your line of work includes the female wrestling industry. (as one example of many)
The reaction is normally about 90 percent positive with the ladies. No joke. The worse thing you will get is a weird look and maybe a comment that it is "creepy" or something. You should never react to women, anyhow, and when they pull that crap you blow that shit off, reverse it on them, and take back control of the conversation.
Don't ever let a girl pull that crap with you and then let her get away with it.
Framing.
Again, it's a matter of framing, not everyone can do it the same, and it would take me all night to discuss the methods.
As to the subject of this posting.........I've started a serious relationship with a new girl and I have shared much of "what I do on the side" with her. I've showed her the Catfight Fantasy Girls videos, some interviews, and a few other things, but not a ton. I'm not yet at the point where I can say she "likes it", but I can say she certainly doesn't mind it, and she seems to talk about "kicking girls asses" a lot more since I told her which is always kind of appealing.
I would like to keep it to the realm of fantasy with her because she is a gorgeous little "powderpuff" as I call her. The psychology, of course, belies the point that she doesn't like being a "powderpuff" and wrestles really hard with me to try to prove me wrong. The label was purposeful and has brought me fruit many times.
So not only is she incredibly supportive, and tells me to do what will make me happy, but hell, maybe someday she will even wrestle for me.
Very little surprises me so you never know!
In any case, it's always better to start by testing things. For instance, in some cases, if I hear a girl I like talking about another girl she doesn't like..........I will say something akin to.........."well.....if you kick her ass.........make sure you youtube it for me babe".
(example conversation of mine from a few months ago)
ME: Well.....if you kick her ass.........make sure you youtube it for me.
HER: Oh really? You like that kind of thing huh?
ME: Babe...........You on top of another girl......asserting your dominance........showing everyone who is the better woman? You betcha.
HER: Interesting......
ME: But.....if you lose.......I would dump you like a bad habit.
HER: Oh really!
As long as you don't over-do it and do a little "push-pull" you can pick vibes up. However, the easiest way is to have a strong relationship where you trust each other early, work off a relationship foundation that requires honesty, and then just lay it out there.
If not..........throw bait..........but be wise about it.
However, just wait until you hear some of the fetishes that women have out there when you start getting intimate with them.
You won't feel so "out in the woods" afterall I can assure you.
