What got you into this?

[LarryZonker]

PS. LarryZ, certainly wasn't me who deleted your post 

Didn't think that it was.........I think it was because of the ages of the girls involved that touched a nerve and got the posts removed (even though I was about the same age at the time and I stressed that I didn't think about it in a sexual way back then)
Oh well.
I was asked what got me into this. I replied honestly.....I suppose that the admin have got to be very careful about certain things that are posted and I fully understand if they were removed for that reason.
Hey!....life goes on. 

[pollman]

I don't think any moderator has removed your post. I have had reports from numerous people that messages posted between specific times yesterday have all been lost. It's as if they were never even posted, must have been some kind of bug that lost them all.

[junglequeensman]

Thanks for clearing that one up Pollman.

[Holmeboy]

Really interesting post, and discussion this.

I think my journey into this is similar to most of yours, i first became aware of my interest in Catfights from reading comics, and i realised i was turned on, then seeing the occasional bit of Fem V Fem action on TV, then reading about Eric Stanton, wow he dreamed up some hot women!!  & WWE Divas.

Like some of you, it's something i have never discussed, not even with my mates, or wife, it is something that has always been deep inside me, and i guess thank god for the internet, as otherwise i would never have been able to express this!!

Funnily enough, i'm not into violence, and if 2 women where knocking the shit out of each other in front of me, i'd be repulsed and want to stop it, but the glamourous, fantasy side of catfighting and female wrestling is a whole different ball game.

Love this site, it's great fun.

[LarryZonker]

I don't think any moderator has removed your post. I have had reports from numerous people that messages posted between specific times yesterday have all been lost. It's as if they were never even posted, must have been some kind of bug that lost them all.

Thanks pollman.

I'll post it again (if I can remember what I said.....   )

[LarryZonker]

OK...It went something like this (it really is no big deal.... )

The first girl v girl fight that I can remember was waaaaay back in my first school. Two girls in my class, outside during 'playtime' (Sandra and Susan) suddenly started pulling each others hair and dragging each other around. They fell to the ground and rolled around for about 30 seconds or so.
I remember thinking that this was something special, but (other than the sight of their skirts lifting right up....this was the 60's, the skirts were short anyway) I didn't think of it as anything sexual. I don't think I was capable of sexual thoughts at that age (we were about 7).
This memory has only recently entered my consciousness again after talking with my wife about how old she was when she had her first 'girly' fight (she was 8 against a girl called Maria....she won after a couple of minutes). Previous to this I had thought that my earliest memories of girls fighting had been when my two cousins (Denise and Allison) started fighting at my Grandma's. This was a couple of years after the school incident and I do vaguely remember getting a different kind of 'buzz' whilst I watched them rolling around. Again the scrap did not last very long and the girls stopped without there being a winner.
As I have mentioned....I do talk about catfights with my wife and unlike some others on here she is VERY forthcoming with tales from her own past and she will make up stories concerning Girls / Women that we both know.
Trust me....I know that I am very, very lucky to have such a helpful partner. It's a pity that there are some women out there (a lot?) that will not talk about the fights that they've seen or been in....that's a hell of a lot of good stories going to waste!  

EDIT: So....what got me into it? The above probably was the start....When Dinosaurs Ruled The Earth and From Russia With Love just fuelled the fire.....

[Bear]

You're right about not growing out it.  When I was a teenager, I thought that, like most things, this would pass -- maybe after I get married.  Nope.  Then I thought, well after I gather a few gray hairs.  Nope. 

Still going.  The only difference for me is the ages of the women competing.  Now, they have to be (considerably) older.  Which, understandably, is getting harder and harder to find. 

[LarryZonker]

You're right about not growing out it.  When I was a teenager, I thought that, like most things, this would pass -- maybe after I get married.  Nope.  Then I thought, well after I gather a few gray hairs.  Nope.  

Still going.

Yep....I know what you mean.

When I was younger it was something that I thought was very strange as fetishes go (I don't even like violence in general)
I even went as far as to question my own morals because of it........it was just a weird thing to get turned on by.
As time has gone on, I've stopped questioning it and just accept that for some reason it is just a part of my biological make-up.
I've never got two girls to fight (well....my friend and I did get two girls to start by nudging them together in school once, but they were on the verge anyway....you know, face-off / stare down / name calling / daring each other to start....they just needed that 'contact' to start [and once they started...they were quite happy to continue!])....and even then I feel bad about being instrumental in them starting a physical confrontation.
No....these days I just accept my 'kink'....and anyway I've always preferred the fantasy side of it to the real side.
My Wife and one of her sisters may one day come to blows. It is a definite possibility....but they are both in their late 40's and it may not come about. However...I've thought about this.
Would I want to watch it?.....or would I prefer to hear about it later, knowing that I couldn't have done anything to stop it because I wasn't there?
I really don't know.
On one hand I would get a HUGE buzz from watching the fight as I know that they do want to fight if they ever get pushed far enough.....BUT, even though I think that my wife would win, I do also know that it would be far from a walk-over and both women would suffer quite a bit of damage.
Can I really stand there and watch my Wife in pain?......the simple answer is, probably not.

Yep......fantasy is definitely better.....nobody gets hurt and I can replay the fantasy of my Wife and her sister over and over again (and believe me I have..... )

[junglequeensman]

Eloquently put Larry. Have to agree, the fantasy side does have a great appeal, especially when it comes to your "better half".

[Bear]

What you say about the fantasy side vs. the real side (i.e. a real fight) rings true with me too.  I've always loved movie catfights, and the staged fights in Roller Derby.  Nowadays, we would call them "scenario fights."  Amateur wrestling and old professional wrestling (usually in black and white) are also titillating, but real fights are NOT sexy in the least.  As a high school teacher, I've been in the midst of many and have never enjoyed one second of any of them.  I must confess, however, that I do find some of the Crystal fights exciting -- mainly because of the intensity and the knowledge that these matches are somewhat supervised.

[luvgirlfites]

I agree with Bear and Larry about the fantasy of catfights being more exciting than the real thing in most cases.  I saw my first girl fight when I was about 8 and walked by a yard with two neighbor teens fighting it out.  The sight of seeing them fight made me afraid at the time but later I realized  that there was something exciting about it in a different way.  By the time I reached puberty I knew what it was and have been turned on to to catfights ever since. 
Being one of the lucky ones my wife knows about my fantasies and plays along at times with suggestions of her and other women we see in public.  It has to be her idea but when the timing is right we have some real fun talking about my fantasy and watching videos.
I hear a lot of stories about my wife and her younger sister getting into fights when they were teens and I have fantasized about a renewal of that feud for as long as we have been married but now at middle age it probably won't happen.  Like you I get more interested in seeing older women fight as I get older myself so if they ever slap or grab hair,  I plan to stand back and watch the action.

[DAN THE MAN]

How come you dont think that your wife and her didter would get into a catfight now? They are not too old. If they really would like to fight each other...why dont you push them into it. Probably it would be worth the effort, because proably once they would get the hands in each others hair...the fur would surely fly !! Let us know if it happens...good luck.

[femfitefan]

Nice forum and great question.  Like a lot of others, I've been into watching women wrestle and catfight for as long as i can remember.  My earliest memory is from when I was maybe 7 and was at a friend's house.  His neighbors were a large family and a couple of the boys were involved in a pretty intense wrestling match/fight in the back yard.  Their older sister (she was 16, I think) was in the front yard talking to someone and we went and told her what was going on.  Her response was "that's nothing.  You should see it when I fight."  Well, that sent my young mind reeling!   lol     I remember having fantasies about women and girls I knew wrestling from there.  And every time one of the news magazine shows had a segment on mud or jello wrestling, I was there.  I also watched for the Dynasty type catfights on tv. 

Before they closed down, I used to enjoy going to Gilley's in Las Vegas.  They did great mud wrestling contests there.  Girls from the crowd signed up to put on a bikini and wrestle for cash prizes.  Saw lots of great matches there.  I'm currently single, but have had a couple of past girlfriends who enjoyed watching wrestling videos with me.  Now I'm hoping to find that soul mate who will share my interest in this for a long time to come.  Some day.