why do you want to catfight?

[liverlad]

most female members on this forum are stunning joanne,vanessa etc sorry if i left your name out ive the attention capacity of a goldfish lol why would u want to potentially want to lose your good looks

[liverlad]

forum friends i cant believe you find a message inbox topic more interesting than mine ha ha ha i feel so dejected lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MaskedBunny]

Being a guy (and one who doesn't wrestle himself), I can't give a definite answer.  Though I can venture a guess.

Not all women are into brutal fist fights and stuff, so their looks really aren't in danger.  I figure they're into wrestling/rules catfighting for the sport/exercise, because their bf/gf want them too (and they like it or don't), they get an erotic charge out of it, or enjoy being in control.  Plus it seems to be a natural thing with girls.  I constantly have seen girls that are friends wrestling around for fun (guys do the same thing when younger, though guys are rougher and girls seem hotter when doing it haha).

As for girls into fist fights, I'd say it could be any of the above as well or also include their upbringing/neighborhood or that they enjoy the adrenaline rush they get.  Some also do it because they feel they're 'protecting/fighting for their man.'

Of course, I could be completely wrong.  These are just my guesses based on observation and such.

[DAN THE MAN]

Bunny....me being a guy also, I agree wth you on this. Now, I hope we hear from the girls with their views.

[Brit_brat]

Not all women are into brutal fist fights and stuff, so their looks really aren't in danger.  I figure they're into wrestling/rules catfighting for the sport/exercise, because their bf/gf want them too (and they like it or don't), they get an erotic charge out of it, or enjoy being in control.  Plus it seems to be a natural thing with girls.  I constantly have seen girls that are friends wrestling around for fun (guys do the same thing when younger, though guys are rougher and girls seem hotter when doing it haha).

Views of a female who wouldnt dream of fighting irl:_
1. Looks - someone has said something already on this topic, be it under a different thread/topic - no way would a model fight in real life, their livelihood would be finished. Its completely absurd to think of some of the "stunning" women mentioned would be fighting irl........... well realistically its impossible isnt it? 

2. Every woman, that I trust, who I have spoken to, that has fought irl, has only done it once for their partner/husband and has been left with a permanent injury - not visual so much as internal. This makes me sick to my stomach.

3. Its an activity much like the people who perform stunts for films, that specially trained women will participate in for filming. They are the models. They are trained to do it in a way that is safe

4. There are of course I am sure, although I am not terribly into this, professional female wrestlers. They would not be "stunning" as they like men would be building their bodies up for the purpose of wrestling, this being their hobby.

5. Anyone with an ounce of sense wouldnt be putting their real pictures on a site of this nature.  Its quite amusing when in a chat room, you see two profiles with the same model.

6. Anyone who has a partner who they truly love would not wish to risk their health or phsychological well being by putting them in a situation where they can get hurt physically or emotionally. I remember being given a link to watch two girls sitting on mens shoulders and fighting in a pool on yourtube.  That sounds like a fun event. However this video was completely natural and you could see the one who lost was very distressed and embarrassed and had actual tears. Her only injury was getting her top taken off in public, the fight stopped at that point. Ask yourself this - is that something you want for your loved one?

7. Sorry that ive responded to this in a negative way, but i am a realist - this is cyberland and the activity needs to be contained within this which is why i am at this site. I enjoy the cyber side of it which is safe fun and secure and injuries heal within seconds........... magic!

Brit

[DAN THE MAN]

Dont apologize Brit.You made some very good points. As I already knew...you have very good thoughts and opinions, and expess them clearly  for all to understand. Well done, my friend.. 

[liverlad]

totally agree with dan the man you made excellent points brit

[MaskedBunny]

Brit, you seem to be very negative to this topic of irl wrestling/catfighting as well as fist fighting.  While I agree about fist fighting being disturbing (any unsanctioned fist fighting is unnecessary imo.  If you want to do it, go join a club with rules and stuff), wrestling/catfighting can be perfectly ok and no different than other sports.  You mention about the embarrassment of losing, but I'd say that goes with any sport.  Sure, it might be a little different due to the nature of the sport, but I'd like to point out that there is olympic wrestling as well as submission wrestling in martial arts that people don't get so upset over a loss.  Like any sport, it's part of the experience.  Though (and I might piss off a few people with this), if you can't handle the thought of losing, you shouldn't play the game.

And most women who do this irl know that.  Because a good player who engages in sports doesn't view a loss as a loss.  They study what they did and continue to learn from it.  However, you seem to hold this view that any guy that wants their girl to wrestle for them is some sick sadomasochist or something and that they want their woman hurt.  Perhaps its a fantasy they want their other to share, and amazingly there are women out there that like it.

I don't mean any disrespect.  I just felt the need to try and explain.

[Brit_brat]

Hi,

Ok this is my second attempt at responsing to the above, first one was deleted after I had spent five minutes responding!!!!!

Ok Hands up in the air, I am negative with any form of abuse against another human being in real life.  I am a pacafist and dont believe in violence towards another human being in any shape or form even if it is a sport. Your quite right if you cant handle the thought of losing you shouldnt play the game.  However, in my experience, some women do play the game out of love for their partners in real life. No its not something they want to do or enjoy ......... just want to please their partners. This is what I am against.  Having enjoyed what I have done so far in cyber I can even understand how some women would enjoy/like to fight in real life ......... but please beware, before you walk down this road ladies, real life is miles apart from cyber and might not be as enjoyable as you would imagine. Think very carefully ........ especially catfighting....... something erotic might well turn into something with lasting damage.

I stand by what I say.......... No real man who truly loves his partner would wish to put her in a position where she could get hurt or maimed but would treasure her body and his paramount desire would be to please her not himself.  Of course if there are, and I am sure this is the case, females out there that wish to participate in this activity irl thats their choice and good luck to them...... we all have our fettishes which we yearn to experience irl. Just want it to be their choice and not something they have been persuaded into.

Brit

And most women who do this irl know that.  Because a good player who engages in sports doesn't view a loss as a loss.  They study what they did and continue to learn from it.  However, you seem to hold this view that any guy that wants their girl to wrestle for them is some sick sadomasochist or something and that they want their woman hurt.  Perhaps its a fantasy they want their other to share, and amazingly there are women out there that like it.

I don't mean any disrespect.  I just felt the need to try and explain.
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[hondab07]

hahaha

[Brit_brat]

Hi,

Nothing I have read above has changed my mind and when I ask myself the question that I often do when I am challenged in this way:-
"what would it take to change my mind" I realise there is absolutely nothing.  Its a waste of time arguing with me on this one and I think we just have to agree to disagree. 
"A man who truly loves his wife partner wont want to share her with anyone. Sex/foreplay is between two people" , what I despise most about the above is the "persuading" the wives to participate.  Everyone has choices and people should be free and able to make their own choices, the partners do not have the God given right to put their loved ones in a position where their health is jeopardised or at risk.  The men dont have to live with the consequences the women do. 

My final comment - what goes around comes around and one day the writer above will have a price to pay. 

Brit

[atomicplayboy3000]

you dislike this subculture/fetish yet you have 17 posts...maybe its time to stick to your principals and move on...nobody wants to be lectured

[Brit_brat]

Maybe it is!

However I do and have never said I did not, like cyber catfighting, like most real women in the room and I dont think its your call to tell me to move on.  I always have, always will do as I PLEASE and no MAN has ever, or will ever get me to do something I do not want to do so dont even bother trying, im simply not worth it

Brit

[hondab07]

hahaha

[hondab07]

I would have thought someone like you would believe in "a woman's right to choose" !!