Spontaneous fight or arranged?

[Warrior Mom]

when the fight is arranged there are rules then the fight can be more clear to watch, also there is a winner, an spontaneous fight can be more disorderly and unfinished, however sometimes an spontaneous fight can be better

I am not too surprised to see that from you, given your profile lol.

lol

[Dianetiger]

    Having had both kinds,I must vote for arranged.This is especially true because an arranged fight has much more erotocism for me and my husband.Also, I feel more comfortable having apparently discussed the match with my opponent.I pretty much know what I can expect under these circumstances.The before talks and the meeting before the fight with trash talking and usually a photo session is unbeatable for the fighters and their spouses or boyfriends.From my experiences I have to say that spontaneous fights are almost always more brutal and vicious.If this is what you enjoy,go for it if you have the desire.
  Di

[fightfanatic]

It would make sense, cause in a spontaneous emotions are frayed, tempers are hot, and it's not exactly a controlled fight. Not to say this can't happen in an arranged fight, depending on circumstances but that a spontaneous fight would be generally more vicious would make sense.

[Charlene_CDM]

For me it's arranged.  The current man in my life is trying to get me to wrestle one of his friends.  She's my size, a little younger, and we match up well, and I have to say I'm considering it.  We talk about it a lot, and everytime I want a little more attention, I whisper in his ear and say in my sexiest voice "would you mind if it got a little rough?".  Best foreplay in the world!!!!!

[martha]

arranged fight be better, both women know whither go, and both fight for his honour, especially, when their husbands is watch, but no intervene.

[simon1]

Must say I'd probably prefer arranged, perhaps more of a chance of seeing a winner.

Spontaneous tend to happen in clubs, nightclubs and are broken up quickly by the bouncers/security.

Arranged can be done in private, though then the combatants can choose clothing, with arranged both know its happening, whearas spontaneous one maybe doesn't. So arranged appeals more to the level playing field and both knowing what they are getting  into. (nb I'd like to pick the clothing though....short skirts, blouses, high heels.....none of this starting off in bra or bikinis....lets give us a show as we go!!!)

Mind you a couple of places I've worked I would have been all for the spontaneous, afterwork, provided everyone else had left the building and i could see the two good lookers go at it uninterrupted. (mind you might have cost all of us our jobs !!)

[mgcars2]

For me it's arranged.  The current man in my life is trying to get me to wrestle one of his friends.  She's my size, a little younger, and we match up well, and I have to say I'm considering it.  We talk about it a lot, and everytime I want a little more attention, I whisper in his ear and say in my sexiest voice "would you mind if it got a little rough?".  Best foreplay in the world!!!!!

Awesome. My wife does the same thing to me. Works every time.

[njcatfan]

For me it's arranged.  The current man in my life is trying to get me to wrestle one of his friends.  She's my size, a little younger, and we match up well, and I have to say I'm considering it.  We talk about it a lot, and everytime I want a little more attention, I whisper in his ear and say in my sexiest voice "would you mind if it got a little rough?".  Best foreplay in the world!!!!!

you're as flirty as my wife charlene, and yes this is the best foreplay in the world !!! what would it take to get you move from just fantasy roleplay to doing it?

[Jenny]

It is totally true that most fights are spontaneous, we are emotional beings and when our emotions reach "fever pitch" so to speak we tend to act first and think later.  I would estimate that well over 90% of fights between us are spontaneous, and the vast majority of those never reach any real conclusion.  They are either broken up or one of the combatants' friends jumps in to help her and at that point it ceases to be a fight.

Arranged fights, if they are given a little forethought usually DO reach a conclusion.  In most cases there is a clear winner. That is one of the main reasons I prefer arranged fights, whether I am a spectator or participant.  If there are few witnesses present, generally speaking, there is much less likely to be any interference.  And whatever issue brought on the fight gets settled. 

Fights with no witnesses present are extremely rare for many obvious reasons but they are less rare than most people might think.  IF both parties are sure their opponent can be trusted to fight fairly, or if both want at each other so badly they throw caution to the wind,those invariably do end with a winner and loser, and of course it is the winner who determines when the fight is finished, when she has "proved her point" to her own satisfaction, which means that the fight does not necessarily end when the loser admits defeat.  Given the opportunity we do tend to be merciless under those circumstances.

Jenny

[lexman3xl]

I am guilty of enjoying the hundreds of fights on YouTube between school age girls, and among those, my favorites are the arranged fights...Especially when the camera follows on girl as she walks with her hair all tied up, her friends in tow, toward a pre-arranged meeting place, where the camera picks up the other girl as she walks from the other direction, her hair tied up, and they separate from the crowd and explode into each other.

My other favorties is the white girl fights where the girls meet in a grassy, secluded area, with very few witnesses, and are both barefoot, and they fight each other in silence. 

If there are any girls out there who would be so kind as to share a girlfight experience with me, I'd appreciate it....I'm not out to prey on anyone or meet them or even know anything personal about them...I would love to hear what they think about their fights appearing on youtube.....

thank you

[Blogger348]

I definitely think that an arranged fight is the best.  A real fight is over in about 5 minutes while an arranged fight can go on for much longer.  I say this because, in my experience, there has to be good chemistry with the other couple and, this only happens, if you meet before the fight and agree to the 'rules'.  Even in a 'rules' catfight, there can be a lot of action. With the objective of wanting it to be a good fight, one still does not want to see the women injured. So, we usually set rules such as no biting, scratching, choking, eye gouging, punching in the face or kicking below to or below the knee. Otherwise, it is NHB and anywhere between the neck and the knee is considered fair territory. Basically, it becomes a fight where there is a lot of wrestling around with plenty of hairpulling and slapping and an occasional punch in the back, belly or leg. Believe me, it provides plenty of action. Pre-arranged fights also have some other benefits: the women can participate in 'preliminaries' - whether this is trash talk, some pushing and shoving, some public displays of hostility, or acting out some pre-set scenario. The preliminaries can be just as stimulating as the actual fight if done correctly and both women are in the fright frame of mind.  The other great benefit of a pre-arranged fight is that you can keep it relatively private. There usually is a very limited number of people there if there are more people other than just your boyfriend or husband. This prevents the woman getting the best of the other from getting jumped by friends of the potential loser which is pretty much par for the course in a unarranged fight. Also, it prevents law enforcement from getting involved because no one is going to call the police; no one is going to complain and no one is going to file charges.  It is two adult willing going to fight to determine who is best. I enjoy it most when the wives 'dress up' for the fight and then proceed to strip each other piece by piece during the course of the fight.  The 'rules catfights' that I am familiar with typically last about 45 minutes with the gal getting the most submissions declared the winner. The fight time is also defined by the intensity of the fight. Sounds like a lot of time, and it is, but breaks are given throughout the match and a long break is given after a submission. The break time, however, is not included in the 45  minutes. Elapsed time is usually over two hours. From a practical viewpoint, One doesn't want to travel 6-7 hours and have a fight over in 20 minutes.

[fanofcatfighting]

I agree with the spontaniously arranged fight.  You get the heat of the moment frantic exchange which generally get's broken up followed by a generally good fight when they later get together to settle their differences.

[fightfanatic]

arranged fights in terms of meet me later bitch are the best way to settle things. It's usually after a spontaneous fight that an arrangement is made but never alone, always with people there to make sure it ends somehow. Best fight I ever had was an arranged one after an earlier spat at a cook out, whole party saw me take out my sister in law

Ooh that sounds intense, can you tell about that fight in more detail?

[tarrant999]

I think that spontaneus fights are usually more wild and more hotblooded arranged are too cold

[Dalton14]

Ooh that sounds intense, can you tell about that fight in more detail?

in detail too long but maybe we will chat about it, in short my brother in laws wife and i had been arguing for years, coming close to blows many times, coup,e of slaps had been exchanged but it never went further, then our sons got ina  fight at a soccer game and as they both got sent off the two of us had a wild argument about who was to blame and there and then we both went at it in the crowd till it was stopped. that weekend at the family cookout we both had a few drinks and the argument started again but this time we agreed to fight it out, both went to the grass kicked our shoes off and started brawling, fight went to the ground quickly and we both pouned each other, lasted about 20 mins and we were both on top at times, once she had me on my front hair in left hand and kept smacking me with her right but i held on and reversed it and then when i got her down and pounded her hard she begged me to stop which i did after slamming her head in the grass a few times.. god I hate her

Wow! That sounds like an amazing fight. You are quickly becoming one of my favorite members. I would love to hear more details of this fight or any other fights you have been in if you are able to chat about it sometime.