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General Category => General Discussion about Catfights => Topic started by: Jessica189 on July 20, 2011, 08:57:50 AM
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Hi guys!
I'm Jess and I recently learned about my boyfriends interest in catfighting. At first I thought it was a bit weird, but I've decided I want to make the effort to explore his fantasies. Not to mention the more stories I read on this site the more exciting the whole thing seems! I think I could really get into it!
So to get to the point my boyfriends birthday is this Friday and I really wanted to provide some special entertainment for him this year! I actually brought up the idea of me catfighting for his birthday a few weeks ago when I first learned of his interest in this. As you would expect he was thrilled about the idea.
Since then we've found another girl that we think matches up nicely with me and have made plans for the weekend. I decided to go all out and make it like a legitimate as possible so we're basically going to be doing a best of 3 fights with a fight each day of the weekend, that way we have time to recover in between the fights. (Fridat/Sat and possibly one sunday if needed)
The main thing issue now is that we're just not sure exactly what the rules should be.
My boyfriend is really into catfighting, not sexfighting or wrestling so we're not trying to restrict the rules too much.
So far we've basically want each fight to be a best of 3 rounds. At the end of the fight whoever has won the most rounds wins that fight for the day (my boyfriend judges the rounds, but he promised us both to be as impartial as possible. We're just not comfortable including an additional person in the mix.) Obviously if anyone gives up at any point they forfeit the match, and if a knockout occurs in any the rounds the fight stops immediately and the fighter that is knocked out losses that fight.
Initially we were hesitant about including punches at all, but then we decided it would turn into more of a wrestling thing. So instead we've opted to get headgear and boxing gloves to lighten the impact of the blows to make sure no one gets seriously hurt (although some bruises and maybe a black eye or something would be fine, after all we don't want to completely water it down).
So that's pretty much all we have so far do you guys have any input on rules to add that you think would help make this an even more fun/safe experience?
Also, I'm kind of unsure what to expect since it's gonna be my first fight. If anyone wants to share anything they think I should know I'll be all ears! Any tips for a first time fighter? I really want to do my best to try and win because my boyfriend is the type that really gets off to the dominant fighter. I want to do him proud and I definitely think I can take my opponent. I'd even go as far as saying I'm kind of looking forward to knocking her around a bit, haha! ; )
Of course I'll fill you guys in on all the details after the fights go down!
If you guys have any questions about me, my opponent, the fights, or anything at all really feel free to post them here. I'll be checking this thread often so I can take into account your suggestions and absorb any advice/tips anyone has for me, and to also answer questions. I'll post the finals rules we've decided upon Friday morning, and I should have the results of fight one on here Friday night!
Again, thanks for all the support/suggestions/tips! : )
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If you decide to go gloves off, make sure you both trim your nails. THis sounds like a friendly competition and neither of you wants serious scratches. I'll echo the other folks in saying you have a lucky boyfriend.
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Hrmm, that's a really interesting idea to add some variety and it would probably be fair that way. That way if one girl isn't good at cat fighting she can redeem herself in the other events.
I guess we'll just do the best 2/3 for the three types of fights for that day and then that girl will be the winner of the day.
Also I really like the idea of removing the gloves/head gear for the catflght to allow for hairpulling, scratching, ect. We'll probably just save the headgear/gloves for boxing.
Still not entirely sure about the punching in the catfight. I'd hate to ban punching/kicking entirely because then it would probably devolve more into a wrestling match with slaps and hair pulling. I'm actually starting to think it will be fine since both of us will have the option to give if things get too intense. Not to mention if a knockout does occur the fight stops so it's not like someone is getting assaulted while they're unconscious.
We'll definitely clip the nails as well, we probably wouldn't have thought of that, so thanks for the reminder! : ) Sorry that I'm responding in one post, I've taken all your thoughts into consideration. Keep the advice, suggestions, and questions coming! : )
I myself can't wait for Friday, I'm just itching to fight! haha : )
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THis sounds like a friendly competition
I wouldn't exactly say that, haha. ; )
But I do agree we wouldn't want anyone being scratched beyond recognition. Thanks for the suggestion about the nails!
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Great thread! Your guy is one lucky dude.
One important thing to consider, and it may seem obvious but easily overlooked, is just ask. Ask your boyfriend what turns him on about fighting. And why are you doing it? Why is the other girl interested. Perhaps knowing all the interests will result in the format, judging, rules, winner, etc. and you'll all be happy.
Also, to echo 'fightfanatic' make sure you are both comfortable with the process. I'd suggest starting off a little tamer and if you want to get more wild (i.e., physical) then you can always modify the rules or have another match.
Good luck and have fun. If you want to post a picture or two of you and the other gal we won't mind ;)
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No one has said anything about clothing. Have you discussed it with the other woman? I know you started thinking of this for your boyfriend but you and she are a lot more important to the success of the experiment than he is. How well do you know her? Do you feel she will keep to the rules or will they go out the window? I get the impression you are fairly young but if you are older you might want to be concerned about falling. It's a hell of a lot less fun at 40 than 20! Do you have mats or pads for the floor or is that too much like wrestling? Where are you planning on doing all this? In a garden or a living room or ???
At any rate, best of luck to all three of you. Let us know how it goes.
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Check this out: http://sites.google.com/site/combativewomen/therules
This gal was fighting a long time ago & has tons of experience and sound suggestions.
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Wish you the best of luck Jess.
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THis sounds like a friendly competition
I wouldn't exactly say that, haha. ; )
But I do agree we wouldn't want anyone being scratched beyond recognition. Thanks for the suggestion about the nails!
So not necessarily friendly, but not pissed to the point of permanent injury. You're welcome for the suggestion. I've seen too many gals forget to clip or even forget to remove fake nails and some nasty scratches be the result. I hope you do well this weekend and I can't wait to hear the results.
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Wow, so many replies! Where to start?
As for the multiple falls I think we're just going to keep it to 1 fall for each type of fighting on each day like we mentioned earlier. My boyfriend isn't so much into tit fights / slap fights as he is for just the fighting itself. It's a great idea, but it would be exhausting to carry out all those fights in a day after day for a possible 3 days. Not to mention my boyfriend just isn't as in to the other types of fighting. So as for now we're sticking with boxing/catfighting/wrestling 1 on each day.
As for my previous fight experience I'm a complete newbie, which is why this all sounded a little strange to me at first, lol. I've never been in a fight at all, but I have wanted to fight at certain points over the years. I just never had the guts/gall to go let myself go and go at it. I was pretty much the quite/reserved girl for much of my life, lol.
As for what my boyfriend finds attractive about catfight? He said what attracts him most is the competitiveness of it all. He really loves how primal it is and how much pride is involved. He loves a girl that can get down and dirty and handle herself when necessary against another girl. The thought of his girl knocking out/defeating another girl just drives him wild.
As for why the other girl wants to fight I'm not exactly sure. She said she's been in one fight fight in high school, so many she enjoyed the experience?
As for how we found the other girl and the tension between us it actually started back in high school. I've been with my current boyfriend since high school and for a brief period we had broken up. She had always been into him and used that as an opportunity to move in on him. She and my boyfriend then dated briefly before he broke up with her to go back with me. We definitely don't "wish death" on each other, but I've always been pretty upset she even got with him to begin with so quickly after we had broken up. I'm also not sure to what extent the relationship went when they were dating and that bothers me a bit. My boyfriend has always been pretty reserved about telling me what went on with him and Jenn back then. I'm sure she must have been upset he got back with me after dumping her as well, maybe that's some possible motivation for her? I'm not sure. We've been pretty civil with each other since everything happened in high school as all 3 of us even attended the same college as each other, so we've seen quite a bit of one another. I still wouldn't put us as "friends" as their is always that "uneasy" feeling we get around each other. Tension as you said would be a good word. Jenn currently works on campus with my boyfriend. They don't work together directly, but they do see each other from time to time, which is when he spoke to her about everything and made the arrangements. We actually all just met earlier today to go over everything and we'll be doing that again the morning of the fight.
As for the mats/padding question we're basically removing all the furniture out of a room in my boyfriends house and padding the floors with mats/pads and using some pillows to buffer the edges of the walls.
We're both really excited and want this to go well so we're going all out for this one!
The clothing thing is something we do need more input on. I'm thinking either lingerie or bathing suits to start and whatever happens, happens. What do you guys think?
As far as the pictures go we're both not really comfortable disclosing pictures right now, but I could provide you with a description of what we both look like and our measurements if anyone is interested.
Thanks for all the support, suggestions, and questions guys! Keep them coming! : )
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Good luck and have fun. If you want to post a picture or two of you and the other gal we won't mind ;)
On that topic, feel free to start a short poll if you and the other girl are ok with that to get some opinions on an outcome if you like.
That would be fine with me, but since we're not posting pictures I'd guess everyone would have to go by a description? Also, can I start the poll in this thread or do I need to make a separate one?
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As for how we found the other girl and the tension between us it actually started back in high school. I've been with my current boyfriend since high school and for a brief period we had broken up. She had always been into him and used that as an opportunity to move in on him. She and my boyfriend then dated briefly before he broke up with her to go back with me. We definitely don't "wish death" on each other, but I've always been pretty upset she even got with him to begin with so quickly after we had broken up. I'm also not sure to what extent the relationship went when they were dating and that bothers me a bit. My boyfriend has always been pretty reserved about telling me what went on with him and Jenn back then. I'm sure she must have been upset he got back with me after dumping her as well, maybe that's some possible motivation for her? I'm not sure. We've been pretty civil with each other since everything happened in high school as all 3 of us even attended the same college as each other, so we've seen quite a bit of one another. I still wouldn't put us as "friends" as their is always that "uneasy" feeling we get around each other. Tension as you said would be a good word. Jenn currently works on campus with my boyfriend. They don't work together directly, but they do see each other from time to time, which is when he spoke to her about everything and made the arrangements. We actually all just met earlier today to go over everything and we'll be doing that again the morning of the fight.
Ah I see so there is a little history there. I think it could play a role in her choosing to do this, but only she knows. How did things go between the two of you when you met up this morning?
Do you think you will be able to stay within the rules for this given your past? How do you think it may impact the fight?
The meeting was very tense although we just the details of the fight and so far we're in agreement with everything. I don't think we'll have a problem keeping tot he few rules we have in place as they're just to ensure safety.
As for as how the past will impact the fight? I'm not sure. It's definitely gonna give me that little extra motivation to beat her. I want her to KNOW my boyfriend made the right description years ago, you know what I mean? I'm sure it's motivation for her as well to try to "prove her worth" so to speak and make him desire what could have been.
Is that what you meant?
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Here is the link to the poll! http://www.freecatfights.com/forums/index.php/topic,16241.0.html
If you guys would like any additional information let me know!
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As for how we found the other girl and the tension between us it actually started back in high school. I've been with my current boyfriend since high school and for a brief period we had broken up. She had always been into him and used that as an opportunity to move in on him. She and my boyfriend then dated briefly before he broke up with her to go back with me. We definitely don't "wish death" on each other, but I've always been pretty upset she even got with him to begin with so quickly after we had broken up. I'm also not sure to what extent the relationship went when they were dating and that bothers me a bit. My boyfriend has always been pretty reserved about telling me what went on with him and Jenn back then. I'm sure she must have been upset he got back with me after dumping her as well, maybe that's some possible motivation for her? I'm not sure. We've been pretty civil with each other since everything happened in high school as all 3 of us even attended the same college as each other, so we've seen quite a bit of one another. I still wouldn't put us as "friends" as their is always that "uneasy" feeling we get around each other. Tension as you said would be a good word. Jenn currently works on campus with my boyfriend. They don't work together directly, but they do see each other from time to time, which is when he spoke to her about everything and made the arrangements. We actually all just met earlier today to go over everything and we'll be doing that again the morning of the fight.
Ah I see so there is a little history there. I think it could play a role in her choosing to do this, but only she knows. How did things go between the two of you when you met up this morning?
Do you think you will be able to stay within the rules for this given your past? How do you think it may impact the fight?
The meeting was very tense although we just the details of the fight and so far we're in agreement with everything. I don't think we'll have a problem keeping tot he few rules we have in place as they're just to ensure safety.
As for as how the past will impact the fight? I'm not sure. It's definitely gonna give me that little extra motivation to beat her. I want her to KNOW my boyfriend made the right description years ago, you know what I mean? I'm sure it's motivation for her as well to try to "prove her worth" so to speak and make him desire what could have been.
Is that what you meant?
So you could feel the animosity huh, any pointed type comments towards the other from either one of you? What rules have you decided on so far?
Yeah, just seems like it's gonna give the fight an extra edge. Be careful not to go too crazy with it though, sometimes when you get two people who have a past such as you two have, even if you don't totally hate each other per se, it could be easy to get out of hand where one or both of you could get hurt badly. Keep that in mind, try to keep as level a head as you can.
How long has it been since all that was going on?
No pointed comments, just heavy tension.
So far we've decided on the format 3 fights each day for 3 days (If necessary) with the winner of the best 2/3 winning the day. The wrestling and boxing rules are pretty standard. As for the catfighting we've leaving it pretty open, but no hitting the other person after they give or if they can't fight back, like in the case of a knockout.
I'll definitely keep your advice in mind as I understand what your saying and I'll try to keep as level a head as possible.
If you mean how long since it's been since the who dating incident in high school, it's been around 6-8 years I'd have to guess. Since the dating thing happened in our sophomore year in high school and we're now nearing the end of our studies in college. I was around 16 then and I'm 24 now.
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Oh wow, you're doing 2 of 3 each day? I didn't realize that was what you intended. At first I thought it was 2 of 3 falls for a given match type, than just 1 fall and 1 match type per day. 3 different types a day may be a bit tiring, sure you'll be able to handle that? Least it guarantees all 3 types will take place though, as opposed to possibly just 2 of the 3.
Yeah, I was concerned about that at first, but I figured it will just be a true test of endurance, which should factor into a fight, right?
We're also going to be rotating the first type of fight each day so that even if we don't end up doing all 3 fights for all 3 days the full spectrum of fights will still be covered.
It does worry me a bit though about how often we'll be able to go all the way, if boxing is first a someone scores a knockout is the person that got knocked out going to be able to participate in the rest of the activities? I'll have to discuss things again with Jenn and my boyfriend tomorrow, you may be right in us being over ambitious. We'll see/
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As for how we found the other girl and the tension between us it actually started back in high school. I've been with my current boyfriend since high school and for a brief period we had broken up. She had always been into him and used that as an opportunity to move in on him. She and my boyfriend then dated briefly before he broke up with her to go back with me. We definitely don't "wish death" on each other, but I've always been pretty upset she even got with him to begin with so quickly after we had broken up. I'm also not sure to what extent the relationship went when they were dating and that bothers me a bit. My boyfriend has always been pretty reserved about telling me what went on with him and Jenn back then. I'm sure she must have been upset he got back with me after dumping her as well, maybe that's some possible motivation for her? I'm not sure. We've been pretty civil with each other since everything happened in high school as all 3 of us even attended the same college as each other, so we've seen quite a bit of one another. I still wouldn't put us as "friends" as their is always that "uneasy" feeling we get around each other. Tension as you said would be a good word. Jenn currently works on campus with my boyfriend. They don't work together directly, but they do see each other from time to time, which is when he spoke to her about everything and made the arrangements. We actually all just met earlier today to go over everything and we'll be doing that again the morning of the fight.
Ah I see so there is a little history there. I think it could play a role in her choosing to do this, but only she knows. How did things go between the two of you when you met up this morning?
Do you think you will be able to stay within the rules for this given your past? How do you think it may impact the fight?
The meeting was very tense although we just the details of the fight and so far we're in agreement with everything. I don't think we'll have a problem keeping tot he few rules we have in place as they're just to ensure safety.
As for as how the past will impact the fight? I'm not sure. It's definitely gonna give me that little extra motivation to beat her. I want her to KNOW my boyfriend made the right description years ago, you know what I mean? I'm sure it's motivation for her as well to try to "prove her worth" so to speak and make him desire what could have been.
Is that what you meant?
So you could feel the animosity huh, any pointed type comments towards the other from either one of you? What rules have you decided on so far?
Yeah, just seems like it's gonna give the fight an extra edge. Be careful not to go too crazy with it though, sometimes when you get two people who have a past such as you two have, even if you don't totally hate each other per se, it could be easy to get out of hand where one or both of you could get hurt badly. Keep that in mind, try to keep as level a head as you can.
How long has it been since all that was going on?
No pointed comments, just heavy tension.
So far we've decided on the format 3 fights each day for 3 days (If necessary) with the winner of the best 2/3 winning the day. The wrestling and boxing rules are pretty standard. As for the catfighting we've leaving it pretty open, but no hitting the other person after they give or if they can't fight back, like in the case of a knockout.
I'll definitely keep your advice in mind as I understand what your saying and I'll try to keep as level a head as possible.
If you mean how long since it's been since the who dating incident in high school, it's been around 6-8 years I'd have to guess. Since the dating thing happened in our sophomore year in high school and we're now nearing the end of our studies in college. I was around 16 then and I'm 24 now.
Probably best to leave the catfight part open, since rules could easily be broken anyway probably, even more so given the backstory here. Still keeping that level head is a good idea for both of you. Besides, if you're gonna do this all weekend, you don't wanna hurt each other so bad that the whole thing gets shortened or you have a bad experience you know? You could hypothetically have some restrictions in the 1st catfight maybe partly for that purpose as well give you a little chance to feel each other out, and then once you've done it once depending on how you like it, have less in the later ones. But that's just an idea, take it for what you will.
Ah so it's had some time to fester, did your past history with her play much a factor into her being chosen for this? Or was that just coincidence?
Well I let my boyfriend choose, but I'm sure it helped that he happens to see her occasionally at school. Not to mention he probably figured it would make for an exciting fight because he's picked up on the tension between us, especially from my end as he knows I get frustrated when he won't give me the details on the short time he spent with her. So yeah the past probably influenced his descision, but it was also a bit of coincidence as well. I'd imagine though this is probably his dream opponent for me given the way the relationships went down and tension it created.
I mean from a guys perspective, wouldn't want to see your ex get beaten in a cat fight by your current GF, right? ; )
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As for how we found the other girl and the tension between us it actually started back in high school. I've been with my current boyfriend since high school and for a brief period we had broken up. She had always been into him and used that as an opportunity to move in on him. She and my boyfriend then dated briefly before he broke up with her to go back with me. We definitely don't "wish death" on each other, but I've always been pretty upset she even got with him to begin with so quickly after we had broken up. I'm also not sure to what extent the relationship went when they were dating and that bothers me a bit. My boyfriend has always been pretty reserved about telling me what went on with him and Jenn back then. I'm sure she must have been upset he got back with me after dumping her as well, maybe that's some possible motivation for her? I'm not sure. We've been pretty civil with each other since everything happened in high school as all 3 of us even attended the same college as each other, so we've seen quite a bit of one another. I still wouldn't put us as "friends" as their is always that "uneasy" feeling we get around each other. Tension as you said would be a good word. Jenn currently works on campus with my boyfriend. They don't work together directly, but they do see each other from time to time, which is when he spoke to her about everything and made the arrangements. We actually all just met earlier today to go over everything and we'll be doing that again the morning of the fight.
Ah I see so there is a little history there. I think it could play a role in her choosing to do this, but only she knows. How did things go between the two of you when you met up this morning?
Do you think you will be able to stay within the rules for this given your past? How do you think it may impact the fight?
The meeting was very tense although we just the details of the fight and so far we're in agreement with everything. I don't think we'll have a problem keeping tot he few rules we have in place as they're just to ensure safety.
As for as how the past will impact the fight? I'm not sure. It's definitely gonna give me that little extra motivation to beat her. I want her to KNOW my boyfriend made the right description years ago, you know what I mean? I'm sure it's motivation for her as well to try to "prove her worth" so to speak and make him desire what could have been.
Is that what you meant?
So you could feel the animosity huh, any pointed type comments towards the other from either one of you? What rules have you decided on so far?
Yeah, just seems like it's gonna give the fight an extra edge. Be careful not to go too crazy with it though, sometimes when you get two people who have a past such as you two have, even if you don't totally hate each other per se, it could be easy to get out of hand where one or both of you could get hurt badly. Keep that in mind, try to keep as level a head as you can.
How long has it been since all that was going on?
No pointed comments, just heavy tension.
So far we've decided on the format 3 fights each day for 3 days (If necessary) with the winner of the best 2/3 winning the day. The wrestling and boxing rules are pretty standard. As for the catfighting we've leaving it pretty open, but no hitting the other person after they give or if they can't fight back, like in the case of a knockout.
I'll definitely keep your advice in mind as I understand what your saying and I'll try to keep as level a head as possible.
If you mean how long since it's been since the who dating incident in high school, it's been around 6-8 years I'd have to guess. Since the dating thing happened in our sophomore year in high school and we're now nearing the end of our studies in college. I was around 16 then and I'm 24 now.
Probably best to leave the catfight part open, since rules could easily be broken anyway probably, even more so given the backstory here. Still keeping that level head is a good idea for both of you. Besides, if you're gonna do this all weekend, you don't wanna hurt each other so bad that the whole thing gets shortened or you have a bad experience you know? You could hypothetically have some restrictions in the 1st catfight maybe partly for that purpose as well give you a little chance to feel each other out, and then once you've done it once depending on how you like it, have less in the later ones. But that's just an idea, take it for what you will.
Ah so it's had some time to fester, did your past history with her play much a factor into her being chosen for this? Or was that just coincidence?
Well I let my boyfriend choose, but I'm sure it helped that he happens to see her occasionally at school. Not to mention he probably figured it would make for an exciting fight because he's picked up on the tension between us, especially from my end as he knows I get frustrated when he won't give me the details on the short time he spent with her. So yeah the past probably influenced his descision, but it was also a bit of coincidence as well. I'd imagine though this is probably his dream opponent for me given the way the relationships went down and tension it created.
I mean from a guys perspective, wouldn't want to see your ex get beaten in a cat fight by your current GF, right? ; )
lol maybe, but in a case like that it'd almost be more about the fight lol, and if it could be a good fight as one like that surely would and will be, it sure might peak my interest lol. ;) If it can settle a score, all the better lol, sort of a way to gain a form of closure you might say. If the tension was so strong, it may have eventually happened anyway so probably best it goes down like this as opposed to other ways which may have been worse.
Had you ever had an inkling he would have liked to see you two go at it in the past?
Haha, yeah I know, whatever the outcome I want the fights to be good, but I do really want to win to prove to him I can handle myself in a scrap, and I want her to see that I'm clearly the better woman. I know he's going to be excited just seeing the fight, but I'd at least hope my boyfriend is, in my corner, so to speak. Know what I mean?
As for him hinting at this in the past, he definitely has a little bit. I was pressuring him to tell me if he had slept with Jenn, because I was a virgin at the time, and I said I'd beat her ass if he did. Then he said something to the effect of "Well, in that case I definitely did." With a sarcastic / half serious tone in his voice. I guess that was his way of saying he'd like to see us fight, huh?
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As for how we found the other girl and the tension between us it actually started back in high school. I've been with my current boyfriend since high school and for a brief period we had broken up. She had always been into him and used that as an opportunity to move in on him. She and my boyfriend then dated briefly before he broke up with her to go back with me. We definitely don't "wish death" on each other, but I've always been pretty upset she even got with him to begin with so quickly after we had broken up. I'm also not sure to what extent the relationship went when they were dating and that bothers me a bit. My boyfriend has always been pretty reserved about telling me what went on with him and Jenn back then. I'm sure she must have been upset he got back with me after dumping her as well, maybe that's some possible motivation for her? I'm not sure. We've been pretty civil with each other since everything happened in high school as all 3 of us even attended the same college as each other, so we've seen quite a bit of one another. I still wouldn't put us as "friends" as their is always that "uneasy" feeling we get around each other. Tension as you said would be a good word. Jenn currently works on campus with my boyfriend. They don't work together directly, but they do see each other from time to time, which is when he spoke to her about everything and made the arrangements. We actually all just met earlier today to go over everything and we'll be doing that again the morning of the fight.
Ah I see so there is a little history there. I think it could play a role in her choosing to do this, but only she knows. How did things go between the two of you when you met up this morning?
Do you think you will be able to stay within the rules for this given your past? How do you think it may impact the fight?
The meeting was very tense although we just the details of the fight and so far we're in agreement with everything. I don't think we'll have a problem keeping tot he few rules we have in place as they're just to ensure safety.
As for as how the past will impact the fight? I'm not sure. It's definitely gonna give me that little extra motivation to beat her. I want her to KNOW my boyfriend made the right description years ago, you know what I mean? I'm sure it's motivation for her as well to try to "prove her worth" so to speak and make him desire what could have been.
Is that what you meant?
So you could feel the animosity huh, any pointed type comments towards the other from either one of you? What rules have you decided on so far?
Yeah, just seems like it's gonna give the fight an extra edge. Be careful not to go too crazy with it though, sometimes when you get two people who have a past such as you two have, even if you don't totally hate each other per se, it could be easy to get out of hand where one or both of you could get hurt badly. Keep that in mind, try to keep as level a head as you can.
How long has it been since all that was going on?
No pointed comments, just heavy tension.
So far we've decided on the format 3 fights each day for 3 days (If necessary) with the winner of the best 2/3 winning the day. The wrestling and boxing rules are pretty standard. As for the catfighting we've leaving it pretty open, but no hitting the other person after they give or if they can't fight back, like in the case of a knockout.
I'll definitely keep your advice in mind as I understand what your saying and I'll try to keep as level a head as possible.
If you mean how long since it's been since the who dating incident in high school, it's been around 6-8 years I'd have to guess. Since the dating thing happened in our sophomore year in high school and we're now nearing the end of our studies in college. I was around 16 then and I'm 24 now.
Probably best to leave the catfight part open, since rules could easily be broken anyway probably, even more so given the backstory here. Still keeping that level head is a good idea for both of you. Besides, if you're gonna do this all weekend, you don't wanna hurt each other so bad that the whole thing gets shortened or you have a bad experience you know? You could hypothetically have some restrictions in the 1st catfight maybe partly for that purpose as well give you a little chance to feel each other out, and then once you've done it once depending on how you like it, have less in the later ones. But that's just an idea, take it for what you will.
Ah so it's had some time to fester, did your past history with her play much a factor into her being chosen for this? Or was that just coincidence?
Well I let my boyfriend choose, but I'm sure it helped that he happens to see her occasionally at school. Not to mention he probably figured it would make for an exciting fight because he's picked up on the tension between us, especially from my end as he knows I get frustrated when he won't give me the details on the short time he spent with her. So yeah the past probably influenced his descision, but it was also a bit of coincidence as well. I'd imagine though this is probably his dream opponent for me given the way the relationships went down and tension it created.
I mean from a guys perspective, wouldn't want to see your ex get beaten in a cat fight by your current GF, right? ; )
lol maybe, but in a case like that it'd almost be more about the fight lol, and if it could be a good fight as one like that surely would and will be, it sure might peak my interest lol. ;) If it can settle a score, all the better lol, sort of a way to gain a form of closure you might say. If the tension was so strong, it may have eventually happened anyway so probably best it goes down like this as opposed to other ways which may have been worse.
Had you ever had an inkling he would have liked to see you two go at it in the past?
Haha, yeah I know, whatever the outcome I want the fights to be good, but I do really want to win to prove to him I can handle myself in a scrap, and I want her to see that I'm clearly the better woman. I know he's going to be excited just seeing the fight, but I'd at least hope my boyfriend is, in my corner, so to speak. Know what I mean?
As for him hinting at this in the past, he definitely has a little bit. I was pressuring him to tell me if he had slept with Jenn, because I was a virgin at the time, and I said I'd beat her ass if he did. Then he said something to the effect of "Well, in that case I definitely did." With a sarcastic / half serious tone in his voice. I guess that was his way of saying he'd like to see us fight, huh?
Yeah, probably even moreso actually given the fact that he was with her I'd imagine.
Yeah I'd say so, maybe you should use that for motivation if you really need it lol. Imagine that she did sleep with him, if that doesn't get you ready for this, not sure much would lol.
Well to be honest that's the question that's been driving me crazy. Basically what had happened was that we didn't have sex before we broke up the first time. We we're both virgins, he wanted to, but I wasn't ready. Then he dated Jenn for a while before we started talking again and he broke up with her soon after. Soon after we got back together we had sex for the first time and I was under the impression we were both virgins. Before that rumors were going around at school that he dumped me to sleep with Jenn. Of course I took my boyfriends word over the rumors and I still do, but sometimes the doubts creep into my head. It's just the way he talks about the whole Jenn incident when I bring it up. He goes into that half sarcastic/half serious tone of voice, we're it seems like he's trying to laugh everything off, instead of actually answer the question. I mean if I did really find out he slept with her I'd be completely devastated. We had been dating for a year prior so it would hurt if he left me just to sleep with Jenn. I'd probably be a complete mess, more than angry, at least at first.
At that point I'd really have to question if he's truly in "my corner" you know what I mean?
But I guess you're right if I try to imagine he did sleep with her and get angry it should definitely give me and edge in the fight!
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What do you think of the idea of having long breaks between the individual bouts BTW? I think it'd be a good idea, as you don't wanna overwork yourselves especially since as I said neither of you have any background in this much less are trained to be able to handle an event where much endurance may be required of you.
Course suppose it could go the other way too, where too much downtime between fights could cause injuries from just the quick starts and stops, or in effect having to rewarm up yourselves for each match. But I might consider it, maybe at the least a half hour break between events or something?
Oh yea, definitely. I'm actually thinking at least an hour break at minimum in order to give time to replenish, recover, and dehydrate. I suspect no matter how we do the breaks the person who wins the first fight will definitely have the edge going into the second, not just mentally, but physically as well. I guess that's just part of the endurance test though.
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Yeah, probably even moreso actually given the fact that he was with her I'd imagine.
Yeah I'd say so, maybe you should use that for motivation if you really need it lol. Imagine that she did sleep with him, if that doesn't get you ready for this, not sure much would lol.
Well to be honest that's the question that's been driving me crazy. Basically what had happened was that we didn't have sex before we broke up the first time. We we're both virgins, he wanted to, but I wasn't ready. Then he dated Jenn for a while before we started talking again and he broke up with her soon after. Soon after we got back together we had sex for the first time and I was under the impression we were both virgins. Before that rumors were going around at school that he dumped me to sleep with Jenn. Of course I took my boyfriends word over the rumors and I still do, but sometimes the doubts creep into my head. It's just the way he talks about the whole Jenn incident when I bring it up. He goes into that half sarcastic/half serious tone of voice, we're it seems like he's trying to laugh everything off, instead of actually answer the question. I mean if I did really find out he slept with her I'd be completely devastated. We had been dating for a year prior so it would hurt if he left me just to sleep with Jenn. I'd probably be a complete mess, more than angry, at least at first.
At that point I'd really have to question if he's truly in "my corner" you know what I mean?
You know if I'm to be honest with you here, at some point you have to question I think is all of this really worth it if he isn't gonna be honest about this? He could be trying to protect your feelings, but.....I don't know. It's worse to have done it and lie or not answer, than to be honest about it from the start I think. How's he handling it suggests to me he did it but doesn't want to admit it.
Even the fight part itself could almost be a little selfish on his end if you think about it, particularly with her. It's like he doesn't really seem to care about your feelings on the situation, but just likes the idea of you two fighting it out with little else mattering. No disrespect intended of course.
That may be something you might wanna think about here. That is to say, do you love him more than he loves you?
Well I mean I hate to just start assuming things based on hunches? You know what I mean? He's been a really caring, loving, and supportive boyfriend ever since we've been together, so I really want to do this for him. I'd even hate to get angry over some mistake that was made years ago, but I have to admit it would upset me and make me sad. I mean it's possible he's just trying to get a rise out of me for fun whenever we talk about the issue. He's a funny guy and likes to joke a lot. I mean he did already tell me straight that he was a virgin before we had sex, so that pretty much answers the question I guess. Maybe he thinks he's already answered it, so now he doesn't really take me seriously when I bring the subject up now?
At the end of the day I'd hate to fault him for something he didn't so without any evidence, you know what I mean? It's just something that keeps entering into my mind for some reason.
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Yeah, probably even moreso actually given the fact that he was with her I'd imagine.
Yeah I'd say so, maybe you should use that for motivation if you really need it lol. Imagine that she did sleep with him, if that doesn't get you ready for this, not sure much would lol.
Well to be honest that's the question that's been driving me crazy. Basically what had happened was that we didn't have sex before we broke up the first time. We we're both virgins, he wanted to, but I wasn't ready. Then he dated Jenn for a while before we started talking again and he broke up with her soon after. Soon after we got back together we had sex for the first time and I was under the impression we were both virgins. Before that rumors were going around at school that he dumped me to sleep with Jenn. Of course I took my boyfriends word over the rumors and I still do, but sometimes the doubts creep into my head. It's just the way he talks about the whole Jenn incident when I bring it up. He goes into that half sarcastic/half serious tone of voice, we're it seems like he's trying to laugh everything off, instead of actually answer the question. I mean if I did really find out he slept with her I'd be completely devastated. We had been dating for a year prior so it would hurt if he left me just to sleep with Jenn. I'd probably be a complete mess, more than angry, at least at first.
At that point I'd really have to question if he's truly in "my corner" you know what I mean?
You know if I'm to be honest with you here, at some point you have to question I think is all of this really worth it if he isn't gonna be honest about this? He could be trying to protect your feelings, but.....I don't know. It's worse to have done it and lie or not answer, than to be honest about it from the start I think. How's he handling it suggests to me he did it but doesn't want to admit it.
Even the fight part itself could almost be a little selfish on his end if you think about it, particularly with her. It's like he doesn't really seem to care about your feelings on the situation, but just likes the idea of you two fighting it out with little else mattering. No disrespect intended of course.
That may be something you might wanna think about here. That is to say, do you love him more than he loves you?
Well I mean I hate to just start assuming things based on hunches? You know what I mean? He's been a really caring, loving, and supportive boyfriend ever since we've been together, so I really want to do this for him. I'd even hate to get angry over some mistake that was made years ago, but I have to admit it would upset me and make me sad. I mean it's possible he's just trying to get a rise out of me for fun whenever we talk about the issue. He's a funny guy and likes to joke a lot. I mean he did already tell me straight that he was a virgin before we had sex, so that pretty much answers the question I guess. Maybe he thinks he's already answered it, so now he doesn't really take me seriously when I bring the subject up now?
At the end of the day I'd hate to fault him for something he didn't so without any evidence, you know what I mean? It's just something that keeps entering into my mind for some reason.
Looking back at your earlier comment, I think the fact that when you were first together he wanted sex and you didn't, you broke up, and then all these rumors started about him and Jenn after is a little bit telling. That in itself might indicate he did it, because it very well could be with Jenn he could get something you weren't willing to give. Hence he went with her, got it, and when she wasn't useful to him anymore basically he came back to you. Does that make sense?
Yeah, I've thought of that before, the only thing that doesn't make sense is why would he come back to me? He didn't really know I was going to sleep with him soon after we got back together. You know what I mean? Although I do admit the rumors at the time definitely pressured me to take things to the next level when we started dating again. At the end of the day though I don't really think I have enough evidence to comfortably accuse him of something. You know what I mean?
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But I guess you're right if I try to imagine he did sleep with her and get angry it should definitely give me and edge in the fight!
I think that might, just as long as you don't let it get you so upset that you lose total control of yourself. Don't want things to become a total brawl or anything here, so be sure you keep calm though focused. Actually, that could give you a mental edge, if you don't show any intimidation or anything and sort of keep a poker face you know? It might throw her a little bit if you are hard to read.
Yeah I also don't wanna lose focus due to rage and have it act as a disadvantage.
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Yeah, probably even moreso actually given the fact that he was with her I'd imagine.
Yeah I'd say so, maybe you should use that for motivation if you really need it lol. Imagine that she did sleep with him, if that doesn't get you ready for this, not sure much would lol.
Well to be honest that's the question that's been driving me crazy. Basically what had happened was that we didn't have sex before we broke up the first time. We we're both virgins, he wanted to, but I wasn't ready. Then he dated Jenn for a while before we started talking again and he broke up with her soon after. Soon after we got back together we had sex for the first time and I was under the impression we were both virgins. Before that rumors were going around at school that he dumped me to sleep with Jenn. Of course I took my boyfriends word over the rumors and I still do, but sometimes the doubts creep into my head. It's just the way he talks about the whole Jenn incident when I bring it up. He goes into that half sarcastic/half serious tone of voice, we're it seems like he's trying to laugh everything off, instead of actually answer the question. I mean if I did really find out he slept with her I'd be completely devastated. We had been dating for a year prior so it would hurt if he left me just to sleep with Jenn. I'd probably be a complete mess, more than angry, at least at first.
At that point I'd really have to question if he's truly in "my corner" you know what I mean?
You know if I'm to be honest with you here, at some point you have to question I think is all of this really worth it if he isn't gonna be honest about this? He could be trying to protect your feelings, but.....I don't know. It's worse to have done it and lie or not answer, than to be honest about it from the start I think. How's he handling it suggests to me he did it but doesn't want to admit it.
Even the fight part itself could almost be a little selfish on his end if you think about it, particularly with her. It's like he doesn't really seem to care about your feelings on the situation, but just likes the idea of you two fighting it out with little else mattering. No disrespect intended of course.
That may be something you might wanna think about here. That is to say, do you love him more than he loves you?
Well I mean I hate to just start assuming things based on hunches? You know what I mean? He's been a really caring, loving, and supportive boyfriend ever since we've been together, so I really want to do this for him. I'd even hate to get angry over some mistake that was made years ago, but I have to admit it would upset me and make me sad. I mean it's possible he's just trying to get a rise out of me for fun whenever we talk about the issue. He's a funny guy and likes to joke a lot. I mean he did already tell me straight that he was a virgin before we had sex, so that pretty much answers the question I guess. Maybe he thinks he's already answered it, so now he doesn't really take me seriously when I bring the subject up now?
At the end of the day I'd hate to fault him for something he didn't so without any evidence, you know what I mean? It's just something that keeps entering into my mind for some reason.
Looking back at your earlier comment, I think the fact that when you were first together he wanted sex and you didn't, you broke up, and then all these rumors started about him and Jenn after is a little bit telling. That in itself might indicate he did it, because it very well could be with Jenn he could get something you weren't willing to give. Hence he went with her, got it, and when she wasn't useful to him anymore basically he came back to you. Does that make sense?
Yeah, I've thought of that before, the only thing that doesn't make sense is why would he come back to me? He didn't really know I was going to sleep with him soon after we got back together. You know what I mean? Although I do admit the rumors at the time definitely pressured me to take things to the next level when we started dating again. At the end of the day though I don't really think I have enough evidence to comfortably accuse him of something. You know what I mean?
I would think he would come back cause at that point he already got what he wanted basically, so it didn't matter as much that you weren't gonna give it to him neccessarily after.
It's true you don't, but just some things to consider here.
Yeah, I know what you mean. I think I'm just going to try to put these thoughts behind me for now though and focus on the fight itself.
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Heyy everyone!
Just got back from meeting Jenn and things got pretty heated to say the least.
She was definitely a little more vocal without my boyfriend around.
I was telling her about the 3 days of 3 falls each, when we interrupted me saying. "Don't you mean 2 days of 2 falls, each? I'm sure it will be over by then, we probably won't even get to do all of the fight types."
I just tried to brush it off laughingly and just moved on to how we're going to rotate the types of fights. She interrupted me again saying that I better put wrestling first on both days because if we do boxing or catfighting first I'm not going to be able to recover in time from the beating she's going to give me to do anymore fights for the day. Do you believe that arrogant bitch?
At that point I was getting pretty flustered, but I just had to tell myself to keep my cool and save everything for the fight.
We moved on to talking about the rules for each type of fight we decided on the following.
Wrestling: Chokes, holds, and typical wrestling moves can be applied. No punching, kicking. She insisted that we allow breast smothering and face sitting as types of submissions possible so that she could "sit on my face and smother with me her superior boobs" like that will happen, in her dreams. I have no idea where she gets her tits are "superior" to mine. As my boyfriend loves every bit of my 32B's. ; )
Boxing: Just punching, nothing below the waist. Standard boxing stuff.
Catfighting: We've established that we both want this to be an intense fight, so pretty much anything goes. We just can't use any props/objects just our bodies and you can hit someone that cant fight back (knocked out) or that has given up.
For clothing we decided to start off in good ole fashion lingerie for each fight and whatever happens, happens.
I was pretty sure we had covered everything and that when she mentioned something I hadn't even considered, stakes. At first I didn't understand I asked if she wanted money if she won? She said not to be silly and she knew what I meant. She said that this fight should be an opportunity for us each to get some closure on all that has happened, but in order to do that stakes needs to be put in place. Otherwise, it's all just pointless and no1 will get closure. At first I had thought "This isn't what I signed on for, I just wanted to show my boyfriend a good time", but I eventually realized I had been wanting closure with Jenn for a long time now, ever since she started going out with my boyfriend. I had wanted to settle this sooner, but I just never acting upon my desires, and neither had she.
So I asked what she had in mind and she said it was simple. My boyfriend was supposed to be her first time but then he left her to come back to me. She said she's never really gotten over that and has always wanted to sleep with him ever since. If she won she said she wanted to be able to sleep with my boyfriend. At first I said no adamantly, I told her I don't want her trying to steal my boyfriend. Then she called me out asking why I was afraid if I thought I was going to win. She said I must not be confident about the fight. I said it didn't have anything to do with that and how anything can happen in a fight, but she said she refused to fight unless her conditions were met. She then said that she didn't want to "take him" she only wanted a night with him, with me being forced to watch, and that was only if he consented to to. As soon as she mentioned that I wasn't worried at all! I know my boyfriend would never do anything like that, especially finding out that they hadn't slept together back when I thought they had. I didn't want to accept just then though, I told her something had to be in it for me. What did I get if I won? She said she'd be willing to get out of our life forever and admit defeat completely, she wouldn't even talk to my boyfriend again. Not only that, but she said that I could humiliate her in any way I wanted in front of him, as long as it wasn't permanently scarring/damaging to her body. She even said that I could force her to watch us sleeping together. Something she said she dreads whenever she thinks about it, so seeing it happen would be much worse and embarrassing.
This sealed the deal for me. It had never really occurred to me in the past how much this situation and Jenn bothered me, but when she presented me with the opportunity to humiliate her I just couldn't refuse. Besides, I had nothing to lose anyway, I know my boyfriend wouldn't betray me right in front of my own eyes! I just had to take this opportunity to get some closure and to get Jenn away from my man once and for all no matter what it takes. I really didn't want it to come to that, but it's true she's been like a constant shadow in the distance that wont go away ever since our relationship in high school. If she has to be humiliated in front of my boyfriend to leave us alone than so be it!
With everything pretty much finalized she left and now all that's left to do is wait till tomorrow night!
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Oh wow, well on the one hand now you can be comforted knowing he didn't sleep with her (sorry about the accusations BTW, was only going on the information given), but are you sure you really wanna do this? What will you do if you lose? I'm not sure it's the best idea to in effect put your boyfriend on the line here, though it helps I guess that it'd be his choice.
Sounds like it is gonna be a war now though in any case to say the very least. I wish you luck. Are you planning on having mouthpieces for the boxing BTW? Rounds?
Yeah, it was a relief to find out they hadn't slept together.
I've given this quite a bit of thought and yeah, I'm sure I want to do it. I know this started out as just a fun thing for my boyfriend, but like I said now that Jenn is my opponent I feel like this is my chance to stand up for myself and my relationship. It's true what Jenn said about the stakes, what good would it do if I beat her and everything went back to normal? She would just be all clingy with my boyfriend as usual. I want her out of our lives! This is the only way she will fight me because she wants to have something to gain for possibly never talking to my boyfriend again.
If I lose, no doubt I'll be devastated about losing to her, but at the same time I know my boyfriend wouldn't choose to sleep with her over me, especially not in front of me like that. He already had the chance to do it once and he passed it up, so why would he bother to now, with our relationship stronger than ever?
As for the mouth pieces, yes we will be using them. The boxing will be 3 rounds with the winner of 2 winning the match or my knockout.
Thank you for the luck wish. I'm a little nervous, but pretty confident I can win. I just need to channel all my emotions and focus on winning each fight!
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Also, don't worry about the accusations. I know you were just trying to make sure I wasn't being taken advantage of, and I appreciate that.
I'm really thankful for your support and the support of the others in the thread and that have messaged me! When I first looked at the poll I started to worry and was thinking I was a little in over my head. Quite a few people are expecting me to get destroyed by Jenn so that dropped my confidence a little, but with all the the positive thoughts here I really think I can do it, even if it's tough.
I have to ask though, do you really think I have a shot? You're not just saying that be nice, are you? You seem pretty concerned about me losing, but I guess you're just concerned about the consequences IF I lose. If that's the case than I appreciate the concern, but I must go through with this and finally stand up to Jenn for trying to ruin my relationship.
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ha ha
Nice story, should be in the story section though. You sure seem to know a lot about fighting, the pitfalls and pros and cons considering you have never fought before Jessica. Good research though.
Brit
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Well really from what you say, it seems as though the pressure should be squarely on her shoulders here. First she already ran her mouth about how she's gonna kick your ass in this, so it's on her now to back up those words, and second you really don't have anything to lose whereas she does. In order to be able to stay around you and your boyfriend's life, and possibly get what she wanted but didn't get before, she HAS to beat you. Nothing else will be good enough.
You on the other hand, even if you lost, you still stood up to a rival who basically for all intents and purposes has made your life and relationship with your bf hell or at least tried to for so long, not to mention the accusations that were flying around about him and her before on top of that even if it wasn't true. So win or lose, you will have gained some self confidence I think in that you can stand up for yourself and your relationship too when you have to.
Plus, your boyfriend as you said would never do anything with her much less in front of you, so even if you do lose, your relationship could come out of this even stronger just from this fact alone, added on to the fact that you'd have went through all of this for him.
Then of course if you win, you get her out of your life entirely, and get to have your way with her in any way you want. What would you do to her BTW if you did win?
So on the emotional side of this, I think you have the edge, because you have nothing to lose and everything to gain here. At the worst you finally get your hands on someone that has tormented you for a long time, and at the best you get her out of you and your boyfriend's lives for good. In sports it often is that those that have little more than pride to play for, tend to pull the biggest upsets. That could well be the case here.
On the physical side, her experience having had one catfight may play some factor, but.....bear in mind that that one fight was likely nothing like this, and not as long as the catfight(s) you will have will be. So that experience may not matter all that much given that. Plus, it's not gonna be all that anyway, so at best she'd only have the edge in one event and you could make up for it in the others in which you'd be more even since neither of you will have done anything like that before. Are you gonna start with wrestling each time like she suggested, or no? It might not be a bad idea to do actually, could serve as sort of a warmup to the other more intense fights.
I really think for the most part the physical part is gonna be more or less even though I might watch for her thighs in the wrestling part, but the emotional aspect to this gives you an advantage I think with all the build up and emotions festering inside of you for so long. That could make the difference in the fight.
I think it's good it's being settled by this though one way or the other. If it was gonna be inevitable may as well do it right to a definitive conclusion, rather than have it kick off somewhere at random and not be settled at all you know? What's your boyfriend think of all this now?
Yeah I guess now that you mention it the pressure really is on her to get what she wants. First she have to beat me in the fight like you said, and then she'd have to seduce my boyfriend into fucking her in front of me, which I think would be pretty hard for her to do. I'm just a little concerned because it's likely that my boyfriend will be really excited/hard as a result of the fights. So if I lose I'd be kind of afraid of his impulses taking over in the heat of the moment, you know what I mean? I guess I just have to trust him, as he hasn't let me down so far. : )
I do feel quite a bit of pressure on myself though for a number of reasons. First being I wanted to settle this with me being the victor, even if the worst that happens is a loss it's still pretty embarrassing to get beaten by the girl that's been after your boyfriend, you know what I mean. Second is I really think it would make the weekend for my boyfriend, as I mentioned before he really gets off to the dominant girl so I'm sure he'd be extra excited and the victory sex would be phenomenal. ; )
I can see what you're saying about having the mental edge, but also remember her 6-8 years of repressed sexual tension towards my boyfriend. I have a feeling she's going to be fierce and fight with her all until she either ends it or is knocked out herself. I could see the desperation in her eyes when I was talking to her, she looks hungry. I'm going to have to be on my A game and very alert.
I am a little nervous that she's had a catfight and I haven't, but as you said it's only one and this setting is going to be quite different. When she was talking shit about shortening the days and the boxing because we wouldn't need them she mention how she was going to lay me out as quick as she did Alex, the girl she fought. I actually remember seeing the fight during high school and she did utterly destroy poor Alex. I admit I may have been a bit intimidated by her after seeing that, at least at the time. However, like you said it's only one fight and that was high school.
As for the wrestling question we're still going to rotate so we won't always be starting with wrestling. I'm ok with that because after talking with others on the site I think wrestling might be the area she definitely has the edge in due to her weight and height advantages., not to mention her strong thighs as you mentioned. I'll certainly be trying to avoid those as I imagine if I get caught between them it's lights out, haha.
As for my boyfriend he's absolutely thrilled about it and super excited. He's a little nervous for me, especially after I brought up the stakes. He was questioning me as to why/how they ended up being made, but after I explained everything to him he agreed that we need some definitive closure, and this is probably the best way to go about it.
As for what I'm going to do to her if I win? We'' I'll definitely make her watch us fuck, so it will feel like she was so close to what she wanted, but just can't have it. Before that I'll probably dominate her sexually to get my boyfriend really going. It would be a win/win because she'll feel humiliated/embarrassed in front of him so I doubt she'd even desire to see him again, and then my boyfriend is seeing her defeated, on the floor at my mercy, so any attraction/desires he had for her (I have to concede, she is an incredibly hot girl) will disappear after he sees her as a desperate and defeated wreck on the ground. Not to mention all the excitement this will generate will make the victory sex even more enjoyable for us, and more painful for her, haha.
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Good luck to you!
Keep fighting. She might test you with somed nasty trick. Try to stick to your strategy. And wirh the boxing. Pick your punches. Dont wear yourself out by throwing a lot of haymakers. If you see an opening. Punchn hard and quickly. If you dont, keep moving around. If your punch came through, try to follow up. But still no opening meams a loss of energy.
Success!
Plz
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Jess when you two were in HS or now did she try to talk trash or compare herself to you trying to make you scared or show your bf or others she was better? did she ever grab you or mess with you pushing trying like she was joking around but trying to show you up. also did she know about your bf intrest in catfighting all along or just found out? if any of this did happen can you explain what when and how?
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I missed that part then. I read all the posts, but I'm sure I missed some things. Somewhere in there I got the impression they were going to fight until a knockout.
Another thing I was going to suggest was this. Go out & run 1 mile. If you don't have the endurance to run 1 mile, you shouldn't even consider boxing. Since the event looks like it'll start today, then I guess it's to late for that suggestion.
I'm not even sure this is totally real. If it is though, at least w/ the boxing I see this as an injury waiting to happen. It's also a lot of fighting for a couple of first timers.
I assure you this is definitely going down. We're probably not as completely out shape as you think, as we both did sports in high school. She a bit more athletic than me I'd guess, but I'm pretty confident we can both run a mile.
It will be a lot of fighting in a short amount of time, but the rounds won't be long. Probably 2 minutes for the boxing as you mentioned. And remember it's definately not knockout only, time can expire, or if someone is just not feeling it they can give. There is a bit of built up anonymity, but no1 really wants the other to get seriously hurt.
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Yeah I guess now that you mention it the pressure really is on her to get what she wants. First she have to beat me in the fight like you said, and then she'd have to seduce my boyfriend into fucking her in front of me, which I think would be pretty hard for her to do. I'm just a little concerned because it's likely that my boyfriend will be really excited/hard as a result of the fights. So if I lose I'd be kind of afraid of his impulses taking over in the heat of the moment, you know what I mean? I guess I just have to trust him, as he hasn't let me down so far. : )
I do feel quite a bit of pressure on myself though for a number of reasons. First being I wanted to settle this with me being the victor, even if the worst that happens is a loss it's still pretty embarrassing to get beaten by the girl that's been after your boyfriend, you know what I mean. Second is I really think it would make the weekend for my boyfriend, as I mentioned before he really gets off to the dominant girl so I'm sure he'd be extra excited and the victory sex would be phenomenal. ; )
I can see what you're saying about having the mental edge, but also remember her 6-8 years of repressed sexual tension towards my boyfriend. I have a feeling she's going to be fierce and fight with her all until she either ends it or is knocked out herself. I could see the desperation in her eyes when I was talking to her, she looks hungry. I'm going to have to be on my A game and very alert.
I am a little nervous that she's had a catfight and I haven't, but as you said it's only one and this setting is going to be quite different. When she was talking shit about shortening the days and the boxing because we wouldn't need them she mention how she was going to lay me out as quick as she did Alex, the girl she fought. I actually remember seeing the fight during high school and she did utterly destroy poor Alex. I admit I may have been a bit intimidated by her after seeing that, at least at the time. However, like you said it's only one fight and that was high school.
As for the wrestling question we're still going to rotate so we won't always be starting with wrestling. I'm ok with that because after talking with others on the site I think wrestling might be the area she definitely has the edge in due to her weight and height advantages., not to mention her strong thighs as you mentioned. I'll certainly be trying to avoid those as I imagine if I get caught between them it's lights out, haha.
As for my boyfriend he's absolutely thrilled about it and super excited. He's a little nervous for me, especially after I brought up the stakes. He was questioning me as to why/how they ended up being made, but after I explained everything to him he agreed that we need some definitive closure, and this is probably the best way to go about it.
As for what I'm going to do to her if I win? We'' I'll definitely make her watch us fuck, so it will feel like she was so close to what she wanted, but just can't have it. Before that I'll probably dominate her sexually to get my boyfriend really going. It would be a win/win because she'll feel humiliated/embarrassed in front of him so I doubt she'd even desire to see him again, and then my boyfriend is seeing her defeated, on the floor at my mercy, so any attraction/desires he had for her (I have to concede, she is an incredibly hot girl) will disappear after he sees her as a desperate and defeated wreck on the ground. Not to mention all the excitement this will generate will make the victory sex even more enjoyable for us, and more painful for her, haha.
You raise a good point about the boyfriend being aroused thing, the fact that he likes the dominant girl could go against you too there. If somehow you lost and he did do it with her, how would you be about it?
That's true about the loss being embarrassing, because then you'd still have to deal with her even if she didn't sleep with him in the end, and she'd be able to boast that she beat you and was the better woman. In fact the only way to truly end this may be to beat her really.
She could be hungry too that's right, she's gonna give all she has I would imagine with her shot to be with him being dangled in front of her in essence here after so long. I have little doubt that you'll give as much of yourself though too.
On the catfight part, I wonder if she might take you for granted. It could be she thinks she'll be able to beat you as easily as she beat Alex, that could work in your favor if that's the case and she is underestimating you.
Yeah you'll need to watch out for her there for sure, both in wrestling and maybe the catfight too. It might behoove you to keep the latter fight off the ground as much as you can, because with her legs you may well be at a disadvantage if you go down.
You're holding this at your home I assume BTW? Best of luck in any case, give it all you got!
Yeah, well like I said I'm definately a little worried. If I lost and then he slept with her on top of it I'd be pretty devastated, I won't lie, and like we both said even just a loss would be embarassing so I've gotta bring my A game.
Hopefully she does underestimate me, and I'll defiantly try to keep the catfight off the ground to avoid her legs.
and yeah, I think I mentioned we're having it at my boyfriends house.
Thanks for the luck, and I will!
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Jess when you two were in HS or now did she try to talk trash or compare herself to you trying to make you scared or show your bf or others she was better? did she ever grab you or mess with you pushing trying like she was joking around but trying to show you up. also did she know about your bf intrest in catfighting all along or just found out? if any of this did happen can you explain what when and how?
She never really attempted to intimidate me directly, no.
I assume she probably thought he would be interested in seeing us fight, as any guy probably would, but no I doubt he knew she was interested in catfighting specifically until recently when he told her what I was doing for his birthday.
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When she and Alex had thier fight how did Alex match up to her size wise? Exactly how did that fight start and last? It would be good to consider that stuff even though it has been a while. When you 2 spoke the other day could you sense any doubt in her? You said your bf told her about what you were doing for his birthday did she ask to be your opponent or did she have to be convinced to. Also was wondering what she said to him about fighting you and how she thought she would do against you? These things give an idea of her mind set which could help you to know what to expect from her.
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I also forgot to ask if since she and your bf work in the same area has she talked to him about the fight. Did she say anything to him about how she would do against you? If so, what did he say about it? I know you said she was trash talking to you the other day what all was said on your part? And her as well.
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When she and Alex had thier fight how did Alex match up to her size wise? Exactly how did that fight start and last? It would be good to consider that stuff even though it has been a while. When you 2 spoke the other day could you sense any doubt in her? You said your bf told her about what you were doing for his birthday did she ask to be your opponent or did she have to be convinced to. Also was wondering what she said to him about fighting you and how she thought she would do against you? These things give an idea of her mind set which could help you to know what to expect from her.
They we're actually pretty even matched in size/strength from what I thought. The fight started over positions on the on the softball team if I remember correctly, although I'm not 100% sure. The one thing I know for sure is that Jenn absolutely ate Alex alive, the fight didn't even last a couple of minutes before Alex was incapacitated.
I couldn't sense any doubt in her the other day, no. She seemed extremely confident. As for my boyfriend I'm pretty sure he picked her and it didn't take much convincing, barring the negations we discussed earlier.
I'd imagine she did say something to him about how she thinks it will go, but he hasn't revealed anything to me as of yet. Right now I'm just expecting her to try to come at me with everything she has.
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I also forgot to ask if since she and your bf work in the same area has she talked to him about the fight. Did she say anything to him about how she would do against you? If so, what did he say about it? I know you said she was trash talking to you the other day what all was said on your part? And her as well.
I didn't trash talk when we met the other day, I let her do all the talking so I could make her eat her words. : )
As for my boyfriend like I said before I'm sure she has probbaly bragged to him about how she's going to destroy me, but he hasn't said anything, probably because he wants me focused for the fight and not to be bogged down with that stuff. Right now I think he thinks I can win, and even if he thinks I'm going to lose after what she's been saying he obviously wouldn't want to tell me that and get my confidence down.
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Well guys, the fight is about to start soon. In a couple of hours that is. So wish me luck!
For tonight the order is going to be Boxing > Catfighting and then Wrestling if needed. So it looks like I've got a pretty favorable lineup, which is just what I wanted.
Thnxs for all the support and keep it up, no doubt I'm gonna need it. I'll post how things went down later tonight, hopefully I'll be back with a victory story for night 1! : )
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Hi jess,
Im going to sleep now. But will sleep with fingers crossed for you.
Remember that a tit attack is pretty intimidating,but she will return the favour. Stil youre bound to have someof that on the menu if i read your conversations with her well.
Plz
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Good luck Jess, can't wait to hear how it goes tonight. How you feel as the time approaches?
I'm feeling pretty nervous, the anticipation is building!
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Good luck! I hope your bf knows how lucky he is to have you. My ex gf would tell me stories about her fighting my ex at that time. Girls like you and her are few. She never did fight her though she was afraid she would lose and her stories usually ended with her winning but when I ask her how she really thought it would go she said based on a fight she saw my ex in and the fact my ex told her she would kick her ass she would most likely lose. I told her even if she did it would not change how I felt about her if she did lose. I have to admit though that ny ex at the time would call me and tell me when she had try to goad her in to a fight by pushing and trash talking to her it did turn me on. I in a way wanted to see her do it and thought about her dominating my gf at the time and would have been so excited afterwards I may have slept with my ex afterwards in the heat of the moment. So best of luck and be sure you want to go through with your stakes because it can take on a life of it's on.
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Hi Jessica,
I am really looking forward to hearing from you how you did.
I hope and trust you kicked ass.
Plz
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Heyy everyone
So I won't spoil any of the results for you guys. I'll just go right into the fights.
Unfortunately I only have time to post the one right now, as it's hard trying to recall everything that happened / recover at the same time, as I have to get ready for tommrows fights. So the postings might be a bit delayed overall, but I assure you guys everything will get posted. Also, sorry for spelling/grammer mistakes, I'm just trying to get the info out relatively quick so I can have time to prepare, ect.
Jenn showed up at my boyfriends house around 8 so that's around the time we began. I expected a ton of trash talking, but to my surprise she didn't even say a word to me, or much of anything to my boyfriend. I could tell she was incredibly focused and it was almost as the tension between us just amplified things.
We both stripped down and I was wearing a pink set or bra and panties from VS. She opted to go with a black bra/panties set that could bearly contain her breats. It was already clear she was trying to seduce my boyfriend, which angered me greatly.
Boxing was first so we both got on our gloves and headgear and walked into the padded living room to face each other. My boyfriend acted as the referee, he had us touch gloves and then each start in opposite corners of the living room. He then gave the signal and round 1 was underway!
I had assumed she would come out swinging with all of her pent up rage, but Jenn was more focused than I've ever seen her before. 30 seconds passed with nothing more than a few jabs. Getting impatient, I decided I would try to land some shots on her large breats, in order to drop her guard and expose her face. I let my right hand fly, but she dodged it easily countered with hard right of her own that smashed me in the head, causing me to stagger back and cry out in pain. It was the first punch of the match, but it hurt unlike anything I've ever experienced before. The blow was so forceful I couldn't believe I was still standing.
Jenn could see me reeling in pain and quickly attempted to capitalize as she backed me against the wall of the room. I could see another devestating right hand on the way so I braced myself and covered up my face. The blow glanced off my gloves and I used all my strength to shove her away from me back into the middle of the ring. I looked over at the clock and saw I only need to last for another minute to get to the round break to regain my composure.
But Jenn wouldn't have any of it, the ferocity was coming out now. She was stilled focused, but now it was clear her focus revolved around destroying me by any means neccesary. She lunged at me again, backing me into corner. I immediately covered my face to protect against the barrage of incoming punchs. I certainly wasn't doing much damage, but I wasn't taking much either. That was until she started hammering punches into my body.
The first one hit without warning and it was absolutely devestating, it crippled me, doubling me over, knocking the wind from me, and causing me to drop my guard. This left me vulnerable to a vicious uppercut that almost floored me, but somehow I was able to gather myself and get my hands up again to protect my head. This probbaly saved me from a humiliating first round knockout, but did little to protect my already damaged stomach from getting ravaaged further. Jenn pounded my body relentlessly with shot after shot, shredding my already beaten body. The pain was the worst thing I've experienced in my life and I felt like I was going to collapse as she savagely beat my body up against the wall. I could feel my legs just about to collapse when I heard my boyfriend call out "15 seconds left!".
After hearing the round was almost over I felt like I could last just long enough to catch a breather in between rounds. I knew I couldn't risk dropping my head guard and getting knocked out so I just clenched my teeth and endured the pounding my stomach was taking . 5 seconds, 4 seconds, 3, 2, 1 finally the round was over and my boyfriend pulled her from me. My legs were so weak they gave out as my body slid down the wall into a heap on the ground. It was a good thing for the that wall, or it would have ended in the first round.
In between rounds I attempted to compose myself, but I was in such much pain from being pounded on my focus was virtually gone. I could bearly think of what I need to do. I honestly never pictured I'd be in this situation after just the first round. Jenn was one tough bitch! That was the worst pain I've ever experienced, and here I am about to go down 0-1 to the persons who I've been dying to beat up for years! It was embarassing to think I was on the verge of losing this boxing match.
I knew what I felt though. My legs were shakey and weak. This was it I thought, I'm going to lose the first event to her, and I wasn't even able to put up a fight. It was then I realized I had to go all or nothing in round two. I needed to either knock her out or win convincingly to push a third round, and in the shape I was in I wasn't sure if I could go the distance.
My boyfriend called round two and I slowly rose up from the floor and hobbled over to the middle of the room to touch gloves. Jenn had practically ran to the middle. It was clear who had won the first round, Jenn had bearly taken any damage at all, I don't even think I was able to land a punch. She was in control and dominant the entire time. We went back to our corners and then went back to the mid to engage each other.
Jenn was running circles around me and my legs could bearly even move, let alone keep up with her. I was going with the haymaker, trying to trake her movements and unleash one devestating punch all at once. It took a few seconds but I found her pattern, I launched my right again with all my stength, but my legs gave a bit, severely weakening the impact of the punch. It caught Jenn in the mouth, but it wasn't even strong enough to draw blood. She burst into laughter as I sturggled to regain my footing....
The last sound I remeber hearing was her loud crackling laugh. I remember feeling embarassed and hopeless. According to my boyfriend she had responded to my right with another devestating right to the head, but this time she just dropped me with it. He said I was pretty much out when the punch hit, well before I had even hit the floor he seen my body go limp. The time he had for the knockout was 1:36, or 24 seconds into the second round.
When I came to I could see her standning over me with the worst kind of smirk going from ear to ear. I knew I had lost. Then she finally said something "Better luck in the catfight, tiny tits" as she walked out laughing. I was devestated at not only the loss, but the way I lost , especially in front of my boyfriend. I was so humliated/disappointed with mysel that I basically broke down in my boyfriends arms. He did his best to console me and rightly pointed out that it wasn't over yet, I could still beat her in the catfight and wrestling so I need to stay focused. He was right, but it was just hard to imagine beating her in anything after a loss like that. : (
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Thank you for sharing this account . I am sorry To hear this one did not end with you winning. Still you have fought bravely ! I look forward To hear how you do tonight. PerhAOne of THE girls have tips on winning à catfight..?
Plz
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The catfight was next and believe me I used up every minute of the hour break we were allotted, I needed it.
I definitely wasn't in top shape going into the catfight, but I knew I had to win to tie the score for the day up. I knew my legs and stomach were very weak from the boxing earlier so I was going to try and end it early using some sort of hold to make her give.
The catfight started and Jenn came out of the gates ready to put me down right away, knowing I was hurt from the previous beating she gave me. She charged at me grabbing two fist fulls oh hair and started yanking to no end. "Bitch, you'll be bald when I'm done with you". I immediately grabbed the only thing I could get my hands on, her huge breasts. I stated twisting the nipples as hard as I possibly could. This enrage Jenn causing her to let go of the hair to try and deal with my hands. While she was trying to do that I kneed her in the clit, causing her to double over, she then protected her face, which prompted me to strike her exposed tits. I clawed/scratched them up quite nicely before she broke free. I could tell she didn't expect that and she was quite angry.
Thought just when I thought I might have had some type of advantage the tables began to turn. I charged her hoping to wreck her tits some more. but I was met with a solid knee to the face, which dropped me to the mat. I was down, not out, but Jenn wasted no time climbing on my back, eager to avenge her swollen tits. She sat on my back while she grabbed my hair, using it to life my head of the ground. This was painful enough itself, but on top of that she would slam my head into the floor with each repetition. after about 5-6 head smashes I began to lose count and things were getting blurry. I knew I was on the verge of going out of day one 0-2 so I had to do something. I summoned all my strength and energy in an attempt to bring my legs around, all the way under her arms and hook them in order to try and reverse the hold. I knew I was capable of doing it because I'm an incredibly flexible girl and have done a similar thing with my legs before, just not in combat. Unfortunately, I just didn't have the leg/core strength required to even get close to hooking the arms. I kept trying and trying in vain, my legs where flailing around in all sorts of random positions trying in a last ditch effort to make it work. Due to the he struggle I was putting up underneath her Jenn was having a hard time continuing to pound my head against the ground, but the more I tried to resist the more tired I grew.
Finally, Jenn was able to get a good grasp of my hair again. She ripped it as hard as humanely possible , while I screamed and whimpered with tears running down my face. "Lights out bitch!" she whispered to me. That was the last thing I heard before everything went dark for the second time. My boyfriend said she knocked me out when she gave my head one final slam against the floor that was just too much for me to take. He knew I was out cold because my legs that were originally flailing suddenly dropped and went limp. From there he rushed in and remove Jenn from on top of me.
When I awoke I had hoped I was awaking to a bad dream, but instead it was just an unfortunate reality. I could see Jenn standing over me again, basking in her lopsided victory. What was worse though was seeing my boyfriends rock hard cock fully erect, just like after the last fight. It was apparent he was enjoying the fights, even with me being on the losing end. : (
I just wanted to break down and cry, but I knew I couldn't with Jenn still around. The only thing I could think of was how horribly wrong the last two fights had went. This was probably the worst way the weekend could have started. Not only did I lose, but I lost 2-0. Not only did I lose 2-0, the fights weren't even close and were completely humiliating defeats for me, in both cases. On top of that she won the two fights I thought, as well as everyone else rooting for me, I would need to win in order to beat her. Even most of my supporters conceded that it would be virtually impossible for me to beat her in a wrestling match. I can't help but think maybe the poll results were right and she's going to absolutely destroy me this weekend. : (
My boyfriend congratulated Jenn on winning the day and then she left. That's when I just completely broke down and started to cry. My boyfriend tried to comfort and console me, but it was no use I was crushed. He reminded me that I can get back in it tomorrow by winning the day, and I know that but how am I supposed to have any belief in myself after what happened tonight? If I couldn't even win the events I was "supposed" to win, how am I possibly going to be able to pull out a victory tomorrow?
I'm certainly not going to give up to this bitch, but honestly with the beating she gave me tonight she got in my head. I have no idea how I'm going to prepare for tommrow after what happened tonight. Do you guys think it's possible I can claw my way back into the series tommrow? Is it possible that tonight was just a fluke? I honestly have no idea what happened out there. It's like I didn't even have a chance to fight myself, she was just able to impose her will on me at every point in the fights. I did have a little momentum in the catfight, but then she was able to easily snatch it back, and me having had any momentum at all seems like it made her fight even fiercer!
Never in my wildest dreams did I expect to lose as bad as I did tonight. I apologize if the first fights weren't very long/excited as they were rather lopsided.
I'm a disgrace : (
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Thank you for sharing this account . I am sorry To hear this one did not end with you winning. Still you have fought bravely ! I look forward To hear how you do tonight. PerhAOne of THE girls have tips on winning à catfight..?
Plz
I wasn't able to redeem myself in the catfight.... she destroyed me in that too. : (
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Any person who was knocked unconscious for extended periods of time TWICE in one evening should be in the hospital right now, being observed for potentially deadly post-concussion syndrome (PCS). Brain injuries are cumulative. Being knocked out twice in one evening is a very, very serious matter. Any additional blows to the head (even light to moderate) can increase the potentially deadly effects of PCS exponentially.
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Sorry hear it went so bad for you. Did she or you talk much during the fights. Did she say anything to you or your bf after the fights. Also how long do you think you were out for? If she got cocky after the fights or let on how easy she beat you it may be you can try to use that to your advantage tonight if she is over confident. What did your bf say afterwards?
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Hi jess,
Perhaps its a good idea to give your head some rest and perhaps discuss the rules to a more body only thing.
Good thing you managed to give her some souvenirs on her nips :)
Plz
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How is btw your tummy after the boxing?
If you would consider some (re)match of some sort, you could consider body only boxing. The you can skip the headgard (would still recommend a mouthgard.
It sound you need some more experience. The combattitive attitude seems to be there ( especially in the cf) . To gain more experience and have some fun, i wpuld suggest some body-only boxing with your bf. Some time ago i boxed with my then-gf. We agreed that i could hit between neck and belt and she could go low.
At first i was reluctant to hit her chest. But after a few low ones from her i was game.
It was good fun. It tought both of us Always to keep our bellies tensed in a fight and she won quite a few (body only) matches with her experience. We have lost contact and we didnt fit well together as characters. Still i miss this sparring/matches from time to time.
Be careful with your head. Dont feel bothered to discuss some rules on that. Safety is always important. Pain is temporary. Pride is what stays.
Plz
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Yikes, sounds like you had a rough night Jess. One thing I would suggest in the boxing portion is to come out swinging from the start. Don't give her an opening or time to gain an advantage you know? That would be the best way to have a chance there I think.
How is your head feeling today? You should watch that I would agree after the damage it took yesterday, in being knocked out twice, and having your head take so much damage in both matches. I don't know that Jenn would take any mercy on you as far as rule changes go though, but could be wrong.
Hope tonight is better and you at the least give a better accounting of yourself.
Thnxs for the concern, my head seems fine. It's honestly my pride that's broken. : (
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Sorry hear it went so bad for you. Did she or you talk much during the fights. Did she say anything to you or your bf after the fights. Also how long do you think you were out for? If she got cocky after the fights or let on how easy she beat you it may be you can try to use that to your advantage tonight if she is over confident. What did your bf say afterwards?
Yeah, she was pretty much shit talking me the entire time she was dominating me, which only made it worse.
The knockouts didn't last extremely long, or anything, but I'm sure she tried to talk to my boyfriend/seduce him while I was unconscious. As I was coming to after the second knockout I heard something like "Come on now, you know you can't resist my breasts, and you know I'd be a better fuck than her" before Jenn left.
My boyfriend just asked me why I lost so badly and couldn't even put up a fight. I didn't really have an answer for him, I just told him that she was the better woman last night. Then he just spent most of his time trying to console me.
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Dang Jesse,
It sounds like she did everything but rip off your mustache. The good news is that your boyfriend loves you so much. You were knocked out twice & he's raring to see ya get in there & redeem yourself.
As for the advice on how to win next time, I can't think of a better place to learn the nuances of fighting than right here on this board. It's nice to see these folks encouraging ya almost as much as your boyfriend is.
There's a thread on here from Brenda, who more than likely actually did get in the fights she's described. She lost to someone she'd beaten a few times before because her opponent went & trained before their most recent fight. That would make perfect sense. As bad as "Jenn" beat ya, the fact that you're both so new at this, if either of ya's trained for a month the one that trained would smoke the other.
So use your brain here. In case it got rattled to much it's that part of your body that's just behind & a bit above your adams apple. Don't fight today. Like Steve said, there could be long term damage (though I don't think it'll damage your storytelling ability any). Start training for the rematch. Make sure you can do the most mundane things in training. You should at the very least be able to run a mile, 50 push ups, and 20 pull ups. That's a bare minimum.
You're not going to beat anyone who beat ya that bad the very next day. There's a reason that person beat ya so bad. They're that much better. That sort of deficit can't be made up in a day. There was another thread on here from Karl where 2 girls got in a fight. In that one the loser could possibly beat the winner in a rematch. That was a close fight though.
Take this into account as you continue your story.
If I don't fight today I forfeit and Jenn could possibly get to have her way with my man. I can't let that happen I've at least got to try and stop her.
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Yikes, sounds like you had a rough night Jess. One thing I would suggest in the boxing portion is to come out swinging from the start. Don't give her an opening or time to gain an advantage you know? That would be the best way to have a chance there I think.
How is your head feeling today? You should watch that I would agree after the damage it took yesterday, in being knocked out twice, and having your head take so much damage in both matches. I don't know that Jenn would take any mercy on you as far as rule changes go though, but could be wrong.
Hope tonight is better and you at the least give a better accounting of yourself.
Thnxs for the concern, my head seems fine. It's honestly my pride that's broken. : (
You have to find a way to put it behind you, you can't change what's been done. All you can do is try and even the stakes tonight or at least give a better fight. Give it all you have, you don't have much to lose at this point. It can't get much worse you know? If nothing else you have to gain some pride back. What is the lineup going to be this time?
Be sure to protect your head though this time, you don't want to be seriously hurt or worse here. Your health is more important here in the end of it.
The lineup is wrestling, boxing, and catfighting. In that order.
That's the problem, I gave it everything I had last night and still got crushed, which is why I'm scared to lose. I'll definitely try to protect my head though.
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Sorry hear it went so bad for you. Did she or you talk much during the fights. Did she say anything to you or your bf after the fights. Also how long do you think you were out for? If she got cocky after the fights or let on how easy she beat you it may be you can try to use that to your advantage tonight if she is over confident. What did your bf say afterwards?
Yeah, she was pretty much shit talking me the entire time she was dominating me, which only made it worse.
The knockouts didn't last extremely long, or anything, but I'm sure she tried to talk to my boyfriend/seduce him while I was unconscious. As I was coming to after the second knockout I heard something like "Come on now, you know you can't resist my breasts, and you know I'd be a better fuck than her" before Jenn left.
Oh yeah, hearing that made me definably want to lay her out even more, the problem is that I just feel powerless to be able to do that right now. : (
Maybe you should use that as some motivation? I'm sure you don't want to have to see/hear that again, or worse.
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Yikes, sounds like you had a rough night Jess. One thing I would suggest in the boxing portion is to come out swinging from the start. Don't give her an opening or time to gain an advantage you know? That would be the best way to have a chance there I think.
How is your head feeling today? You should watch that I would agree after the damage it took yesterday, in being knocked out twice, and having your head take so much damage in both matches. I don't know that Jenn would take any mercy on you as far as rule changes go though, but could be wrong.
Hope tonight is better and you at the least give a better accounting of yourself.
Thnxs for the concern, my head seems fine. It's honestly my pride that's broken. : (
You have to find a way to put it behind you, you can't change what's been done. All you can do is try and even the stakes tonight or at least give a better fight. Give it all you have, you don't have much to lose at this point. It can't get much worse you know? If nothing else you have to gain some pride back. What is the lineup going to be this time?
Be sure to protect your head though this time, you don't want to be seriously hurt or worse here. Your health is more important here in the end of it.
The lineup is wrestling, boxing, and catfighting. In that order.
That's the problem, I gave it everything I had last night and still got crushed, which is why I'm scared to lose. I'll definitely try to protect my head though.
If she senses fear you may be in trouble, don't let her have that emotional edge. Even if you're scared to death, you have to try and not show it. Try to keep your emotions level and focus on what needs to be done.
Yeah, I understand. I'll do my best to hide my fear.
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Some people will believe anything, lmfao. Who wants to guess how this story ends? I bet she wakes up from her last KO to find her boyfriend fucking Jenn right over her. And some of the morons on this site will actually console her and ask to be her boyfriend.
If you don't have anything constructive to add, just be quiet.
Still if it were just a fantasy. Wouldn t you agree its a great one?
Jess, give hell! Remember sun tsu...
Know the terrain and keep the initiative!
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Any word on last nights fight Jess? Hope you're ok.
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Hi jess,
Hope ur ok
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Hey everyone... I'm really sorry I didn't get around to posting the results to Saturday nights fight.
As some of you have figured out things didn't go especially well for me and I was defeated by Jenn 2-0 for the second night in a row. This means that she destroyed me over the course of the weekend like most of this site predicted, demolishing me in all 3 of the fighting types.
I will be posting what happened in the fights in the near future because I know you guys would probably like to hear how it went down, even though I lost. Everyone has been so supportive and I just want to thank you for all that you've contributed, so the least I can do is give you a report of what happened Saturday night. I'm sorry if I failed to give everyone the quality fights they were hoping for, but she was just too much for me and was clearly the better woman. It felt like their was absolutely nothing I could do, and like I was at her mercy the entire time. It was clear she was stronger and faster. I'm pretty sure any lack of technique didn't matter because neither of us had technique and I was outclassed in every other way.
Right now I'm just a complete wreck emotionally and still coming to terms with my devastating defeat. That's why I just can't recount to you exactly how it all happened yet. My wounds are too fresh in my mind to essentially relive how I was demolished on Saturday.
Overall, I'm really disappointed in my performance. I know I gave everything I had, but I'm just so embarrassed how in the end it wasn't even close to enough. I've been waiting to end this for a long time, to prove a point, that I was the better woman. Then to find yourself losing so badly, and then down and out so quickly, it's just embarrassing, you know? In your head you think you can put up a much better fight than what you did, but once you get out there and she's taking it to you and your hurt and beaten you come to realize that you're just moments away from being laid out on the floor. Losing becomes a question of when rather than if. That's when the shock sets in and the belief really begins to fade. It doesn't matter that you're the "good girl" and just trying to keep her away from your man. It doesn't matter how much you wanted to bear her. That doesn't count for anything, the only thing that matters is that you're being dominated by the same women that's tormented for years, and you know when she wins you won't be able to lie to yourself anymore. You'll know she's the better woman, even if you don't want to admit it.
I just feel completely defeated in every way. : (
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Jess,
Im still very proud of you. You went in against odds. It takes a brave fighter to do that.
I would love to hear how it went.
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Sometimes it happens Jess, you just have to pick up the pieces and move on. Perhaps you can use the whole ordeal as motivation to get stronger going forward.
If you don't mind me asking, if you are ok to say so, did he have sex with her?
Yes....
I pleaded with Jenn first to not fuck him. I was so pathetic... groveling at her feet, but she had no compassion. I then turned to my boyfriend begging him not to accept, as it would crush every fabric of my being to see the man I love fuck my nemesis in front of me. In the end Jenn's sex appeal was too much for him. He was already rock solid after seeing Jenn dismantled me in wrestling and then again in boxing. I think he wanted to resist, but her amazing chest was just too much and she easily seduced him. He had never had access to breasts like those before, as mine we're so small, at least that's what I thought.
Then Jenn revealed something too me that absolutely broke me. She had lied earlier in the week, she did fuck my boyfriend when he was with her in highschool. She said the sex was so amazing that she they've been fucking ever since on the side. That's why my boyfriend had selected her for the fight. I had unwilling led myself to my own demise when I decided to put on a show fighting for him. Since then my boyfriend and Jenn conspired to use the fight as way to end my relationship. My boyfriend even encouraged her to add the stakes she mentioned.
I was so devastated I couldn't understand, the only thing I could ask him was why. What did I do to make him want to leave.
"Maybe laying there like a dead fish in bed. Your tiny tits didn't help either, I could barely get hard looking at them, but at least if you knew how use them it would have been better. You're no better than one of those housewives that just waits around to get fucked all day."
I was just mortified finding out I was a "lousy lay".
It was clear from watching he wasn't lying either. It was apparent just from watching that Jenn was not only 10x the woman I was in a fight, but in bed as well. She was able to make my boyfriend do and say things I had never even dreamed of, and my boyfriend, well he fucking Jenn more passionately than he's ever fucked me... it was clear who he thought the better woman was, even if I didn't want to admit it...
Watching Jenn fuck my boyfriend was probably the worst pain I've ever experienced, even the brutality of the fights wasn't as bad for me. It was clear at that point that she had won, it ever way imaginable, as was clearly the better woman in his eyes. This devastated me to the core, but what could I do? It was the truth....
Jenn's hotter than me, sexier than me, stronger than me, faster than me, and much better in bed. I just can't compete with a girl like that I guess..... I was a fool to try. : (
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Oh Jess........I'm so sorry to hear that. (hugs)
I have to be honest, at one point it did sort of cross my mind that maybe you were being set up. I wasn't quite sure it would have played out this way (thought maybe she'd bring someone with her, and ambush you), but I sort of had an inkling.
You're better off without him though it seems to me if he was gonna do something like this to you. You deserve much better than that.
It's not really about him. I mean I understand now that he didn't care about me, which still hurts, but I can get over that.
I'm just really embarrassed that I'm so weak. Not to mention so terrible in bed.
Sure, you can say my boyfriend was a douche, which I agree he was, but at the end of the day he's human and he did have reasons for leaving me for Jenn.
She was able to satisfy him and bed and I wasn't. Then I can't even show him I'm tougher than her because she wipes the floor with me in the fights we had.
How can I even rationalize that I deserve "better" when I didn't even deserve him?
As I said Jenn's hotter than me, sexier than me, stronger than me, faster than me, and much better in bed, so how could I ever imagine competing with her for a man? I must have been out of my mind. I was completely out classed here.
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She may be hotter than, stronger than you, faster than you and better in bed than you are, but you're better at giving birthday presents, I'd say.
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Canusa, I believe I won our bet. You may remember I called the ending on this one right down to the consoling replies from some of the more trusting members lol.
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Lol now ppl are getting jealous
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Jess can you tell us what happened Sat night in the fights.? Just would like to know how everything played out. you do actually do a really good job of telling the story and that in itself is a talent. Believe it or not guys like the stories better sometimes than the real thing. You don't have to have anybody get hurt and you hear your fantasy told by the person you want in it. My ex gf told great stories and she would always try to tell how she thought it would go irl even if her opponent beat her and like you said out classed her in other ways. It gave me my fantasy without living it out and she knew that while she might be losing in the story it was her turning me on. I know that it might be hard to tell every detail about your fights but that turns guys on and they don't have to try and set someone up to see how it would play out and they are in to just you when your telling them. You get all their passion for yourself win or lose. For me atleast that was enough and my gf loved it. Not at first cause she would usually win and I asked if she really thought she would win all the time. She knew then I thought she would lose some. She didn't like it at first but she saw that it was a fantasy and she was in it even if she lost or got shown up and it was a way to give me my fantasy and it made our relationship better because for her to do that it showed me how much she wanted to make me happy and I could never have let her down after she put herself out there to me like that and assured her she was enough for me. Now 10 years of marriage and the stress of kids kinda took it's toll later but sex wise she was always enough and we never had an issue there. So if you can I and i'm sure others here would love to hear your story and for some guys that's enough. So don't let it get you down use it to make yourself more attractive and desierable .
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Sounds like it's going to be an awesome time. Your bf is a lucky guy for sure!
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Hi Jessica
How are you doing? After THE blows you took?
How are you doing with your bf? Does he understand that he really needs to support you better?
And how did you fights go?
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Guys should be more carefull when they find à great lady like Jessica !
Still i would love To hear more of what actually happened in THE fights. Still i understand if jess is not up To telling us. :(
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damn babes sorry to hear that next time dont concetrate on what she can do to you concentrate on what you can do to her... understand?
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ok im late... if you were my girl and you fought for me i would have made passionate love to u... just because u offerd it to me in the 1st place, 2nd you did it and 3rd if u lost and came cryin to me u would have gotten the best sex ever to let you i know i was proud of u.... if u were my girl... im just sayin..
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Heyy everyone....
Really sorry for the longtime absence and not posting how the fights from the second day went. Truth is I was just a mess and really embarrassed so I needed to get away from the whole thing for a while, so posting on the site wasn't going to help. I hope everyone understands.
I'm sorry to disappoint those who may be interested, but the fights on the second day were fairly lackluster.
The first fight of the day was wrestling where Jenn caught me off guard and pinned me about a minute or so into the fight. Once she got the pin on me I never even had a chance, she used her weight advantage to keep on top of me so I had no chance of getting free.
After that we took the normal break in between rounds and Jenn left to come back later for the boxing match. I was in tears after losing the wrestling match so easily. I was disspointed in myself for not only losing so badly, but also because the fights so far were really short and one sided so I feared my boyfriend hated them. My boyfriend consoled me and we actually ended up making love. I'm not sure if it was the best idea, but at the time I was so crushed and I needed something to re-inspire me. If only I had known it was basically just a chance for my boyfriend to "hit it" one last time...
I obviously didn't know that at the time though so I was reinvigorated/motivated for the second fight of the day. I was ready to take Jenn down in boxing and ride the momentum into the catfight.
Unfortunately though my newfound strength/motivation faded after Jenn landed the first hit in the boxing match. My guard was down and tagged me in the head with a hard right. It pretty much rocked my world and the strength / motivation I had faded as I remembered what it was like to be hit by her. I was filled with pure terror as a result of that painful punch and she just backed me into the corner of the room and let loose. I covered my face, but she was just destroying my belly, pummeling it over and over again. The pain was absolutely terrible. I could feel myself about to drop and I knew I had to do something because being on the defensive wasn't working. I let down my guard to throw a punch and that's the last thing I remember.....
She had knocked me out again.... when I woke up. My boyfriend told me she knocked me out 45 seconds into the first round, winning the fight and making it 2-0 for the day and 2-0 for the weekend. This is basically when the pleaded started for them not to fuck, but as I mentioned it feel on deaf ears and she took my man from me, right in front of my eyes....
I'm so sorry that I was such a disappointment... I started taking some self defense classes... although I'm not really sure why. I'm completely petrified of Jenn and I'd be scared to fight her again and get humiliated.... but a part of me genuinely hates her and not having things end the way I wanted really doesn't sit well with me. Part of me wants to challenge her again and defeat her to prove to myself that I can rise to the challenge and defeat the girl who's made my life a living hell since high school. Another part of me is scared of getting another beating though, which is I guess why I've started taking classes and working out more. I want strength and fitness of my side.
Idk though, I've got mixed feeling about the whole thing....
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Sorry things didn't go so well but you did try. Was there any trash talk before during or after the fights? Did either of you try in anyway to show your bf who was better or tell him what was going to happen? just trying to get an idea of how the mood was from both you and her before during and after sometimes that can play into how the fight actually goes. Thanks
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i forgot to ask you about when she pinned you did she let you up after you gave or did she say or do anything before she did? Also did she ever give you the idea she was trying to make it look easy to beat you by taunting you in anyway? iI was wondering if you got an idea at some point before the fight was over that your boyfriend wanted her to win. Try to use what happened to learn and you can use your story in the future to do for someone else what you wanted to do for your bf. The fact that you are able to tell your story says to others that although you didn't win you gave it a shot. Guys who like the fantasy of girls competing in any kind of fight can most times be fulfilled in a descipted account of a real or made up situation. I know it may not be easy at first but I for one and i'm sure there are others here that would love to hear that kind of detailed account of your weekend. If you decide you can do that i'll bet the response you would recieve if you were to post that type of story may make you feel better about yourself by being able to get the response you had been trying to get from your bf. Just a thought.
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Sorry things didn't go so well but you did try. Was there any trash talk before during or after the fights? Did either of you try in anyway to show your bf who was better or tell him what was going to happen? just trying to get an idea of how the mood was from both you and her before during and after sometimes that can play into how the fight actually goes. Thanks
Yes, she talked quite a bit of trash while she pummeled me and quite a bit after she defeated me in each fall, unless she had already left when I had come to.
I didn't really talk much shit at all, except the night before the first fight. My boyfriend and I had sex the night before the fight and I kept telling him about all the things I was gonna do to Jenn in the fight and how I was gonna destroy her and prove that I was the better woman. It made the sex really hot, at least from my perspective.
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i forgot to ask you about when she pinned you did she let you up after you gave or did she say or do anything before she did? Also did she ever give you the idea she was trying to make it look easy to beat you by taunting you in anyway? iI was wondering if you got an idea at some point before the fight was over that your boyfriend wanted her to win. Try to use what happened to learn and you can use your story in the future to do for someone else what you wanted to do for your bf. The fact that you are able to tell your story says to others that although you didn't win you gave it a shot. Guys who like the fantasy of girls competing in any kind of fight can most times be fulfilled in a descipted account of a real or made up situation. I know it may not be easy at first but I for one and i'm sure there are others here that would love to hear that kind of detailed account of your weekend. If you decide you can do that i'll bet the response you would recieve if you were to post that type of story may make you feel better about yourself by being able to get the response you had been trying to get from your bf. Just a thought.
Well when she had me pinned she actually tried to go for a breast smother on me, after I had already submitted. She got on top of me and started it, but I protested so my boyfriend pulled her off of me, telling her that it was over and that she already won.
As far as how she made it look I could tell she was really trying to draw out the boxing match to humiliate me as long as possible in front of him. I think she would have loved to tear into me for all 3 rounds, but I just couldn't take the punishment anymore and I went down easily in the second round. I'm pretty sure she could have ended it in the first round, like she did the following night, but she really wanted to toy with me and make it as humiliating an experience as possible for me... and it was. : (
Getting destroyed like that in front of a man that I loved with all my heart... was just devastating... and so embarrassing. It was 10x worse because I knew what the consequences of losing would be and I couldn't stand the thought of her fucking my man... that's where the feeling of helplessness comes in. You're already so badly beaten that you can't fight back, but losing isn't an option either... eventually you succumb to the brutal beating your being dealt and collapse like I did...
Do you have any idea how devastating it is to wake up to see your man, with his cock fully erect, checking out and flirting with the girl that just knocked you out? It's the most painful thing I've been through in my life thus far, physically and mentally. What's worse was when I caught a glimpse of him in between the rounds, eyes fixed on Jenn, masturbating... It just makes you feel.... deflated, defeated, and disgusted. : (.
I think I knew in my heart that he wanted Jenn to destroy me after watching his demeanor in the boxing match, but I didn't say anything and slept him him the following night trying to ignore it and convince myself that's not what it was. The reality was too painful, especially with having Jenn to focus on.
As far as trash talk, she called me every name in the book as she demolished and degraded me in front of him... slut, whore, cumguzzler, and tiny tits to name a few. They hurt, kind of like salt in the wounds since I was already getting dominated. : (
The name calling palled in comparison to actually losing the fight, as well as my man, to her though. Just thinking about him wanting her to win more than me destroyed me mentally. I mean why fight if my own boyfriend isn't even "in my corner" so to speak. You know what I mean? : (
The worst part though, by far, was groveling and begging her not to fuck my boyfriend. I begged, pleaded, trashed on myself, talked up her, and I even started to give her oral, hoping to appease her and prevent her from fucking my boyfriend. It didn't work though, she said I was terrible and couldn't get her off, and that she needed a "real man" which is when my boyfriend started fucking her....
It was completely horrifying I could tell how much he was enjoying it and how he was obviously having a better time fucking her than me. I think that was the straw that broke the camels back mentally, I still haven't been able to erase the image of them together in bed from my mind. : (
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Sounds pretty tough to go through. That's why it is much better for it to be fantasy than real. You get the arousal without anyone being hurt not so much physically but mentally. Did she ever say things to your bf while she was fighting you. Like watch this or what do you think about het now or anything along those lines. Did your bf say anything at all while the fight was going on and what was her reaction when she saw him watching her and masterbating? You had also said he was flirting in between falls what was he doing/saying and did you ask him about it? How long did you have to see them with each other and did either address you at all while they were doing each other? I know it had to be tough to go through but if he called and wanted you back I sure hope you would say no. Have you seen or talked to either of them since then? I do hate it hurt you not so much physical but the mental part but if you ever ddid try her again you might do better not worrying about the stakes. What do you think it was that allowed her to beat you so badly and easily? Sounds like her and your bf knew she was going to win what was the reason for that confidence?
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Sounds pretty tough to go through. That's why it is much better for it to be fantasy than real. You get the arousal without anyone being hurt not so much physically but mentally. Did she ever say things to your bf while she was fighting you. Like watch this or what do you think about het now or anything along those lines. Did your bf say anything at all while the fight was going on and what was her reaction when she saw him watching her and masturbating? You had also said he was flirting in between falls what was he doing/saying and did you ask him about it? How long did you have to see them with each other and did either address you at all while they were doing each other? I know it had to be tough to go through but if he called and wanted you back I sure hope you would say no. Have you seen or talked to either of them since then? I do hate it hurt you not so much physical but the mental part but if you ever ddid try her again you might do better not worrying about the stakes. What do you think it was that allowed her to beat you so badly and easily? Sounds like her and your bf knew she was going to win what was the reason for that confidence?
My BF didn't say anything throughout the fights. That would have been too obvious. I guess he just couldn't help himself with the masturbating. I talked to him about it and he said he was just masturbating to the fight in general. I seen the eye contact though. When she realized he was masturbating she started rubbing her tits together and tried to get him even more aroused. As for the flirting, upon getting my senses back I had noticed that she was really coming on to him and he wasn't really resisting much. They pretty much stopped shortly after I came around though.
As for how long I saw them having sex, that was brutal. I don't remember exactly how long, it felt like an eternity, probably at least 30 minutes. They did everything, oral, anal, doggystyle, guy on top, girl on top.... it was terrible. I wanted to leave, but I was holding out hope he'd stop and come back to me. At first I was pleading with him, but once she seduced him and had him naked it was like he couldn't hear me at all.... He never came around.. they finished everything they wanted to do and I was just too distraught mentally to do anything, I was just there crying my eyes out. They didn't personally address me during sex, but they were very loud and vocal about how amazing it was. Multiple times Jenn said something like "I bet your old whore could never fuck you like this" or "How do you like a real womens tits, compared to tiny tits?"
As for why she destroyed me so bad? : (
I have no idea... that's the worst part.
My only explanation is that she was much fitting and stronger than me. Their is a little bit of height/weight edge, but for the most part she just overpowered and pummeled me. I think she was just mentally and physically stronger than I was. After she destroyed me so badly in the first round of boxing I think she put the fear of her in me for the entire weekend. I could never really "get it back" after that. Everytime we fought that beating was on my mind and she just continued to punish me for thinking I even had a chance.
I was extremely confident going into the fight. I thought she was going to be weak, but she wasn't she was much stronger, faster than I was. I guess I just couldn't deal with that and the fact that I didn't expect her to be so strong made it even worse. All the belief I had faded after she dominated me in that first round.
I was in shock. I was scared of losing my pride and my man because I knew she was stronger than me. I could tell I was in over my head after she started beating me badly.
I was just thinking, how can this happen? You know?
How could I lose to her? I can't lose to her after all she's put me through, I can't let her have my boyfriend.
But the reality was that I was losing... losing badly.. and I was so scared and embarrassed.... she beat the fear into me.... she made sure I knew who the better woman was when the weekend ended both in the ring and in the bedroom. : (
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i forgot to ask you about when she pinned you did she let you up after you gave or did she say or do anything before she did? Also did she ever give you the idea she was trying to make it look easy to beat you by taunting you in anyway? iI was wondering if you got an idea at some point before the fight was over that your boyfriend wanted her to win. Try to use what happened to learn and you can use your story in the future to do for someone else what you wanted to do for your bf. The fact that you are able to tell your story says to others that although you didn't win you gave it a shot. Guys who like the fantasy of girls competing in any kind of fight can most times be fulfilled in a descipted account of a real or made up situation. I know it may not be easy at first but I for one and i'm sure there are others here that would love to hear that kind of detailed account of your weekend. If you decide you can do that i'll bet the response you would recieve if you were to post that type of story may make you feel better about yourself by being able to get the response you had been trying to get from your bf. Just a thought.
Well when she had me pinned she actually tried to go for a breast smother on me, after I had already submitted. She got on top of me and started it, but I protested so my boyfriend pulled her off of me, telling her that it was over and that she already won.
As far as how she made it look I could tell she was really trying to draw out the boxing match to humiliate me as long as possible in front of him. I think she would have loved to tear into me for all 3 rounds, but I just couldn't take the punishment anymore and I went down easily in the second round. I'm pretty sure she could have ended it in the first round, like she did the following night, but she really wanted to toy with me and make it as humiliating an experience as possible for me... and it was. : (
Getting destroyed like that in front of a man that I loved with all my heart... was just devastating... and so embarrassing. It was 10x worse because I knew what the consequences of losing would be and I couldn't stand the thought of her fucking my man... that's where the feeling of helplessness comes in. You're already so badly beaten that you can't fight back, but losing isn't an option either... eventually you succumb to the brutal beating your being dealt and collapse like I did...
Do you have any idea how devastating it is to wake up to see your man, with his cock fully erect, checking out and flirting with the girl that just knocked you out? It's the most painful thing I've been through in my life thus far, physically and mentally. What's worse was when I caught a glimpse of him in between the rounds, eyes fixed on Jenn, masturbating... It just makes you feel.... deflated, defeated, and disgusted. : (.
I think I knew in my heart that he wanted Jenn to destroy me after watching his demeanor in the boxing match, but I didn't say anything and slept him him the following night trying to ignore it and convince myself that's not what it was. The reality was too painful, especially with having Jenn to focus on.
As far as trash talk, she called me every name in the book as she demolished and degraded me in front of him... slut, whore, cumguzzler, and tiny tits to name a few. They hurt, kind of like salt in the wounds since I was already getting dominated. : (
The name calling palled in comparison to actually losing the fight, as well as my man, to her though. Just thinking about him wanting her to win more than me destroyed me mentally. I mean why fight if my own boyfriend isn't even "in my corner" so to speak. You know what I mean? : (
The worst part though, by far, was groveling and begging her not to fuck my boyfriend. I begged, pleaded, trashed on myself, talked up her, and I even started to give her oral, hoping to appease her and prevent her from fucking my boyfriend. It didn't work though, she said I was terrible and couldn't get her off, and that she needed a "real man" which is when my boyfriend started fucking her....
It was completely horrifying I could tell how much he was enjoying it and how he was obviously having a better time fucking her than me. I think that was the straw that broke the camels back mentally, I still haven't been able to erase the image of them together in bed from my mind. : (
I'm sorry jes, I don't mean to p pry, but you can't drop a bomb shell like you giving her oral without going into more detail. I mean how did it happen? What made you decide to do that? Had you ever done anything with a girl before? Was that more or less humiliating than the loss itself or watching what happened afterwards? do you think it might have worked had something been different? Sorry to ask so many questions about such a difficult subject.
On another note it is my opinion, and probably the opinion of most the bored, that although you may not see it now you are much better off without the two timing jerk! What happened was not your failure as a woman, but his failure as a man to not recognize just what an amazing and special woman you are.i know too many people who wouldn't lift a finger for a relationship let alone actually FIGHT for one. He did not deserve you
Not much to say about it really. : (
I did it because I was willing to do ANYTHING to stop her from fucking my boyfriend. She had already, humiliated me in the fight and took away my pride, he was the only thing left I had to lose... and I couldn't bare to lose him... but I did. She took him from me in the end, their was nothing I could have done to stop it.
So yeah, I certainly didn't want to do it. I just thought it might "appease" her and stop her from going after my man, but sadly... it didn't work. : (
It was definitely less humiliating than losing the fight, or having to watch her fuck my boyfriend though... losing the fight was just devastating for me and the aftermath... I don't even want to think of it anymore... : (