[Vicky_35]

I'd like to get other women's opinion on this situation:

If a guy you were newly dating got into a fight with another guy (that the other guy started) and gets his ass kicked, does it affect whether you keep dating him?

[Vicky_35]

I have a few questions,

Is the fight close?

If not, was he humiliated?

Is the other guy as cute or cuter?

Let's he got his ass kicked to the point he was laying there, quit fighting back, and was repeatedly asking the other guy to stop. As for as looks, I'll say they were equally cute in different ways.

[lauren_hall]

If you accept a date with someone and then some morally dysfunctional creep starts a fight that my guy did not start or want how would that change any perception of the guy I was going out with. Without any details given in the question lets face it bad things happen to good people. I would definitely go out with him another time and make sure I did everything possible to make my guy  forget the first.  Nuff said.

 ^ This.

[Jessica189]

I have a few questions,

Is the fight close?

If not, was he humiliated?

Is the other guy as cute or cuter?

Let's he got his ass kicked to the point he was laying there, quit fighting back, and was repeatedly asking the other guy to stop. As for as looks, I'll say they were equally cute in different ways.

Based on all that, I might have problems seeing him as very manly so yes it would. I might slip my number to the other guy if he wasnt a creep.
 

Thanks for an honest answer. I completely agree.

I want a strong man that can handle himself. Not a little wimp!

Seeing him get handled like that would kill the sex appeal for me.

I mean I can understand a loss. Not everyone can win all the time, but to lose that badly and then beg the other guy to stop? That's just pathetic.

[Jessica189]

I'd like to get other women's opinion on this situation:

If a guy you were newly dating got into a fight with another guy (that the other guy started) and gets his ass kicked, does it affect whether you keep dating him?

What would you do Vicky?

[Vicky_35]

Honestly, idk... This just happened to a friend of mine last night. She left him, well both of em, at the bar, walked down the street to Denny's and called me to come get her.

[Jessica189]

Honestly, idk... This just happened to a friend of mine last night. She left him, well both of em, at the bar, walked down the street to Denny's and called me to come get her.

Did she tell you why she left him?

[HB]

Wow.  There is just so much ...troubling... here.   

[Nutmeg]

I have a few questions,

Is the fight close?

If not, was he humiliated?

Is the other guy as cute or cuter?

Let's he got his ass kicked to the point he was laying there, quit fighting back, and was repeatedly asking the other guy to stop. As for as looks, I'll say they were equally cute in different ways.

Based on all that, I might have problems seeing him as very manly so yes it would. I might slip my number to the other guy if he wasnt a creep.
 

And maybe he would even rape you or call friends for a gang rape and you could soak in their manliness. LMAO

Seriously I would flirt with the winner to make him stop, get his name, address, photo, number..then be on my way..

and tell my brothers this clown tried to rape me and my date saved me. And send them all the info he just gave. Fellow won't be doing that shit again or much else. Some asshole starts a fight and tries to beat a guy to death I am not going to stand there and think he's cool or a tough guy. And have no problems seeing the guy I was with again.

[lauren_hall]

Girls do not get turned on from two guys duking it out- massive turn off. Last thing most people want to see when you go out on the town is two drunken, alpha males trying to beat the shit out of each for no reason.

It certainly does not prove how "manly" someone is. It, perhaps, does prove they lack a significant amount of braincells.

Bullying rampant in schools- maybe so, but turn the other cheek.

As for "mental rape" being worse than "physical rape", especially considerining the emotional and pyschological turmoil that occurs after rape, how about you sprout your idiocy around after you've been "physically raped",okay?

[Lauren]

This went from a simple question to this?  Now thats funny.

[Vicky_35]

As I said before if he went and started the fight then loses, she has every right to ditch him and would be stupid not to

but if he lost the fight because he was jumped or sucker punched, she should support him.  If she leaves him for the guy that sucker punched him - then anything happens to her after that she pretty much is asking for it, hopefully it doesn't happen that way.

Ok a little clarification, yes the other guy acted like an ass. But her date was not going out of his way to avoid the fight. And she did not leave with either of them.

[StarBear]

If you accept a date with someone and then some morally dysfunctional creep starts a fight that my guy did not start or want how would that change any perception of the guy I was going out with. Without any details given in the question lets face it bad things happen to good people. I would definitely go out with him another time and make sure I did everything possible to make my guy  forget the first.  Nuff said.

 ^ This.

Yep.  Couldn't have said it better. Ty Mandy.

[Sexy Sarah]

I'd like to get other women's opinion on this situation:

If a guy you were newly dating got into a fight with another guy (that the other guy started) and gets his ass kicked, does it affect whether you keep dating him?

Only thing that would affect my decision is whther he paid or not, and whether he let me steal his chips without moaning.

[Nutmeg]

it was first date as I suppose..

This girl was a trap for this beaten guy by the goons ( hired by guy's enemy)..Guy was lured by the girl to the place where fight was pre arranged by goons.. So always be careful while going on such dates..

So this thread has evolved from 'jerk starts fight with date' into 'this is a planned event'? Did this date take place on the grassy knoll too?