Standing or kneeling are both ok with me.
Crotch attacks in a catfight are like tickling in a wrestling match, it becomes a question of who is better able to put up with that particular tactic, rather than who is the better fighter/wrestler.
If you want to film women sexually molesting each other, rather than fighting, then fair enough, there is a market for that kind of stuff, I guess, but it isn't what I want to see.
Wedgies can be ok, when used as leverage or to distract and/or humiliate the opponent. But if a lady loses a fight simply because her knickers are made of a stronger fabric than her opponent's, which is what happened to Monica on at least one occasion, then that, to me, is a disappointing way for a catfight to end.