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General Category => General Discussion about Catfights => Topic started by: dvbfire87 on August 01, 2017, 04:16:50 PM
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Hi All,
Just wondered how many of you have told you wife about your wrestling fantasy of her against another women.
I have told mine over 3 years ago i get her to talk wrestling to me some nights and how another women would submit her or how a she would submit the other women.
She hates it and said she would never wrestle did your wife have the same reaction? if so what did you do to rectify this as i want her to embrace and maybe one day enjoy it as a fantasy.
Look forward to your response.
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I told her about a year ago, and she wasn't totally disgusted by the idea. Although she knew I always liked ladies wrestling, she didn't know I thought about her doing it!
I showed her site, we talked about wrestling and catfights and the difference, I explained about safe and sane and cyber and light non pro style wrestling. She had no interest in cyber (said it sounded like fetish DND) but was curious about real life. I have not pushed the issue, left it at that. She has on more than one occasion asked to look at the site with me, and I've been more than happy with that. She also suggested a joint profile for when we visit together. I keep my fingers crossed and hope for the best.
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dvbfire87....I've been married for over 40 years. I didn't tell my wife about my catfight fetish, but she found out about it by accident, a few years after we were married. She wasn't very happy about it, and couldn't understand why I liked it the way I did. In retrospect, it might have been better if I had told her about it right up front. She still wouldn't like it, but at least she wouldn't have had to find out about it the way she did.
Just my 2-cents.
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About 12 years ago I pushed for my wife to wrestle against my good friends wife. It was the first and last time that my wife wrestled. Nancy sat on my wife, after only a few minutes, grabbed her hands, and slowly smothered her face under her sweaty, smelly bare feet, for much longer than my wife could ever deal with. My wife could not believe this was happening. She got very upset and angry. She could not stop it. I thought that it was so humiliating, so embarrassing, but, the crazy thing was, I felt badly for my wife, yet it turned me on much more than I ever thought was possible!
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It may not be for everyone, but exposure over time may help. I wasn't that into the idea when my husband first told me about it, but now I find the thought of catfighting another woman to be really hot.
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It may not be for everyone, but exposure over time may help. I wasn't that into the idea when my husband first told me about it, but now I find the thought of catfighting another woman to be really hot.
Thats the long term goal right there!
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I told my wife and she accepted it and I don't have to hide anything form her. To me that is one of the benefits of being open and letting her know. On the down side if she 100% against it and you don't tell her and she finds out I feel it will end up much worst. So the question is can you keep it secret?
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I told her near 35years ago, about my interest to see her wrestling another women. She told me that I was sick in my head and she'd never try it. She add that only perverse persons had this idea thinking of women wrestling. So 15years ago, I try wrestling against other men and when she knew it, she menace me that she'd demand divorce if I continue. So I stopped wrestling.
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what about us women telling our husband/boyfriend about wanting to fighting other women i have and it is a great feeling some in real life have come true some have not so ladies do not be afraid to at least bring the subject up
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I told her near 35years ago, about my interest to see her wrestling another women. She told me that I was sick in my head and she'd never try it. She add that only perverse persons had this idea thinking of women wrestling. So 15years ago, I try wrestling against other men and when she knew it, she menace me that she'd demand divorce if I continue. So I stopped wrestling.
That is harsh! Even though my wife will probably never try anything in real life, I still consider myself lucky that she tolerates, and sometimes helps, with my interests.
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I told my wife about it 25 years ago. Yes, I had some explaining to do, but when I got her to understand that it was all about getting to watch her, and that it was to be real wrestling, but safe and sane...well, she kept an open mind.
It took a couple years, but since then I have now seen her do over 30 matches with a few other wives over the past 20 years. Sub wrestling, then rules catfights, and now at an older age, some sexy oil wrestling, too.
Oh yes, I am glad I was open and honest.
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Love the comments guys and really appreciate your feedback.
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I told my wife, while we were dating, that my fantasy was to see her wrestle another woman. She was fairly indifferent about it, to be honest. She said "what if I lose?" I told her that it would be ok if she lost. It wouldn't change anything. The subject has never come up again and I haven't pushed her on it.
I believe that, in the end, it's her decision and I respect that. If it never comes up again, I've accepted that and am ok with it. If she never did it, it doesn't change my love for her.
Here's to hoping that it works out for everyone!
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go on tell your wife your fantasy and make it a mutual fantasy.
Well, I can't come close to topping your story, but as far as it becoming a mutual fantasy; that won't happen in the Bear's lair. Mrs. Bear is OK with my interest in FvF, but she found out after over 3 decades of marriage. (Obviously, she's no Sherlock Holmes.) At first, she was taken aback, but rationalized that I was a red-blooded, virile guy and this was an outlet. After all, I had been a good husband, father and upstanding member of the community, so judged against that I stood up pretty well. When she asked me about it, I was prepared -- after all I had a long time to plan for the inevitable. The first thing was to reassure her. I explained that this interest didn't just pop up -- it pre-dated puberty. I also reminded her of several times in our lives when she had engaged, or nearly engaged, in physical competition with another girl / woman and how it excited me. She recalled everything, but was really surprised (and I think proud) of the effect that it had on me.
As time has gone by we've had other brief conversations on the matter, which involved me explaining my take on the proverbial "why?" question that gets posed a lot here, and challenging her that a similar competition involving me would have an erotic impact on her. So, we're at a point where she's comfortable with it. A few weeks back I told her, "I couldn't sleep last night, so I went downstairs and turned on the TV . Guess what was on -- my favorite episode of I Love Lucy." She replied, "Oh, the one in the grape vat. That's one of mine too."
Though far from being a mutual fantasy, I consider that progress.
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Don't worry. She will find out and might even get into the idea...My wife is keen on a rules match provided the aim is having fun...and winning also she doesn't admit she loves the joy of victory!
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Back when I was married I did tell my wife and she was into it. She would even tell me about a fantasy fight with a woman at work she didn't like. And I told a few girlfriends since then with various reactions. One just laughed and said she'd never been in a fight in her life. Another, much younger, said that a catfighting fetish was almost normal and she had no problem with it.
For a lot of reasons, I would not want my "significant other' to fight another woman in reality. But if they want to tell me about a ferocious fight with a rival while we're making love - I am down for it completely.
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I told my wife 18 years ago after we had been married 7 years. To be fair to her, I totally botched it. Just blurted it out one day. She freaked out. Damn near divorced me. Forced me into YEARS of counseling. Again, to be fair it was helpful and really did help me come to terms with a lot of this. Still her (and other womens) reaction to this really mystifies me. I can certainly understand them not wanting to brawl with other women, but your husband has just told you he fantasizes about you doing something and your reaction is horror, disgust, etc.? If our wives told their men something turned them on, pretty sure 90% of us would do their best to make it happen or at least to make it happen. My wife tells me that me working on the house gets her hot. I have finished the basement, landscaped everything, and remodeled the kitchen, replaced half the electrical in the house, painted, finished windows, etc. for her. I tell her that I fantasize about her wrestling another woman... any other woman... and it is a taboo subject to be avoided at all costs. I guess what I don't get about it is she tells me she loves me, tells me she wants to turn me on, I tell her exactly what drives me wild and she will have nothing to do with it. I know she is super competitive, has fought before, and not afraid of other women. Would it kill her to wrestle another woman? Or a bit of sparring? Or even just talk about it? But because it turns me on, she completely avoids the subject even if it is in a movie, beer commercial or TV. Leaving me completely vulnerable should some rival decide she wants to take me away. Makes no sense whatsoever. But if I understood women I'd be the richest guy on the planet. lol
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In response to Lumberjack: The fact that your wife is very competitive and has had a fight or two herself makes her loathing of your (our) fetish a bit intriguing, and seemingly inconsistent with her character. My only guess is that she's not comfortable with another woman being part your sexual fantasy. When you think about, it could be viewed as a bit of threat. After all, when you get turned on by watching two women fight or wrestle, neither of them is your wife. And if you fantasize about her fighting another women, that other woman is part of the fantasy and something that your wife may not be comfortable with. Take this for what it's wort -- absolutely nothing.
And by the way, about the bathroom..................
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I told my gf about this about one year ago. I doubt she'd ever try it irl, but sometimes she likes to talk about fighting or sexfighting a rival to get me excited or while making love.
I feel very lucky for that, even if I'm not gonna see her fighting in real. (of course, not as in my profile pics lol, something much safer)
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I finally got up the nerve to tell my gf about my interest in Women being catty with each other ,wrestling and fighting about 4 years ago. When I did tell her she looked at me and said, " I know , don"t most men?" And then she asked me " why is that ?" Who knew. I was so taken back by her reaction that I didn"t know what to say. Since that time it has surpirsed me how many times she brings up the subject in some way. I am so glad I mentioned it to her.
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Mine never liked my fantasy in years of marriage. I divorce her, she wanted me back so she offered to fight my gf totally nude!
I was shocked and delighted! She wanted me back in the worst way! But I was afraid to set it up because both wanted to hurt each other badly! It has been great to fantasize about!
Wow ! A golden opportunity missed. Bet it would have been an exciting battle.
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Not voluntary.... ;-)
At one evening, my gf was at yoga, I watching catfight-DVD. She come back earlier and saw me with a hard one in front of the tv. I told here that I love it to see girls fighting each other.
She asked me if it be also horny for me watching here fight? I stammered YES and here answer: "I will try it".
I was confused and don't believe she do it but in holiday with a friendly couple it done.
She and the other girl fighting over 20 minutes with no break.
Me and the other man watching the fight with open mouths and exploded...
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Ricsau, can you describe your ex and your girlfriend? Would it have been an even match?
I once broke up to start dating a new girl. The ex-girlfriend said she would fight the new girlfriend for me. I said no because I knew my new girlfriend was passive and would not fight back. If it had been an even match-up, I sure would have been tempted.
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Great topic and a fantastic read guys! I've always kept this away from friends and away from my wife. Before being married we lived together for few years and she came across my dww dvd stash. Surprisingly she was cool about it and was rather she knew then me hide it from her. She wont engage with me about it in anyway thougj, but she knows I am online with it and I get turned on when I see on TV. There was a time she almost came to blows with a young attractive work colleague of mine (samw physique as my wife but younger) after she was flirting with me at a staff function, before I intervened. I often fantasize about how that would have turned out if I hadnt got involved. She is over it now but for a while she spoke about kicking my colleagues ass, my colleague had asked if she needed to clear things up with her. For her safety I had advised her no.
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I told my wife I would like to watch her in catfights, some years ago, In fact, I dared to tell her that when I watch a hot woman, my first thought is to imagine her fighting with. She accepted it funny cos we were talking about our fantasies so we couldn't criticise each other. She told me that she would fight for me just in case if needed, but she wouldn't do just for erotic questions. Anyway, she uses this fantasy to turn me on on bed when we fucked. she likes to remind me when I look any hot woman and she realizes that I'm watching her. Even she describes to me how she would humiliate her. At the moment, it's enough for me.
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Ever since college, I have brought up this fantasy in almost every relationship I was in. I don't recall any of them leaving me over it, one did say that I was weird to want to see her in a catfight. About a third or so were interested in exploring it. Over the years though I have realized that this fantasy is core to who I am and is not something I want to hide from the person I'm with. So in the last couple of years I have brought it up very early in the relationship and have found quite a few women interested in exploring it with me. Maybe it makes it harder for me to find someone but it's not something I can live without and I feel better being open and honest with people about it up front.
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Wink and a little smile at Luckyoday 9 and we botth knoww what the 9 is for dont we Lucky
Yeah, the "9" means if your fat ass is still here by the time I count to 9, your ugly Twat is gonna get torn up.
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At the urging of my future mother-in-law (a wonderful lady) my wife-to-be asked me what my sexual fetishes were when we were dating in college. At first I said, "blow job!" and she said she already figured that one out, but asked again what "weird stuff" turned me on. I then told her about my catfighting fetish and she said she could live with that. The only two things she told me would've ended our relationship would've been if I'd said I was a pedophile or a cross dresser. I guess she didn't want anyone else wearing her clothes.
A couple of times she brought a girlfriend over and they wrestled (playfully) while I watched through a crack in the door. I didn't like it. It wasn't "real" and I was too fearful that her friends would find out about my fetish, so I told her to stop.
And then we got married and that's a story too long to tell (told in some of my posts).
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Your name says it all my friend. Mine found out BEFORE we were married and she said she could never do that or be involved. She still hates it and that's the way it is. Wish sometimes just had some one (female) who understood. Had one years ago but that ended badly.
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I guess what I don't get about most of our wives dismissing or disdain for our interest in this topic is that it is our interest. It is our Hot Button. And they want nothing to do with it. They love us. They want to turn us on. But not if it has anything to do with fighting another woman. And it isn't like for most of us they would even actually need to fight. Just come home at the end of the day and tell us how much they wanted to punch their coworker in the nose. Or tell us a sexy story. Or watch a video with us. But no... notta... nothing. Think about it... if the shoe were on the other foot and your wife told you her hot button... you'd be all over it. Maybe there are some things you couldn't bring yourself to do, but if it drives her wild pretty sure most of us would give it a shot anyway!!!
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I told my wife about my fantasy and she was amazing!!!!!! She, in her early 50s, has had a total of 9 arranged fights. And they have been incredible! She is an amazing woman.
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I think its easy to suffer unnecessarily. I had partners who discovered it and were quite harsh in their responses. Since I divorced my ex wife I have been open about my fetish and fantasies . I have found partners to be fine with it. If I don't give them cause for concern I guess they are happier. I haven't had more than two experiences in my life, but the ones I did have were because I was open about my wishes!
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I think its easy to suffer unnecessarily. I had partners who discovered it and were quite harsh in their responses. Since I divorced my ex wife I have been open about my fetish and fantasies . I have found partners to be fine with it. If I don't give them cause for concern I guess they are happier. I haven't had more than two experiences in my life, but the ones I did have were because I was open about my wishes!
Please, tell us about the experiences you mentioned you had.
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Sexist bastards! What about a wife or GF telling her man?
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Sexist bastards! What about a wife or GF telling her man?
No offense, but I believe that was already mentioned earlier in the thread or an earlier one similar to this one. :D
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Not yet. But I told one of my girl friend. She hesitated at first but then she was sporting too.
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Why is it only the guys telling the girls? Just wondering how the girls feel about telling their husbands/boyfriends...took me awhile to confess :)
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I told my wife a very little at a time,we sat playing "Truth Or Dare" when we were very first together. So very tactfully i said i was turned on by mud wrestling,she seemed not to mind at all,so i thought thats a relief, as i had told someone years ago and she dumped me there and then saying i was weird.Gradually over a bit of a time i expanded it,and still not a real bad reaction.Then one night we were out and she got in a full blown catfight.I was torn between very turned on and being frightened she would get hurt.Fortunately neither her or the woman hurt each other,it was all over in 2 or 3 minutes literally.
When we got home i was literally aching for her,but i just hugged her and she fell asleep with her head on my knee.Then she had a pre arranged fight with another nurse she worked with,and i wanted to be all over her while she was getting changed. nope she just wanted to get on with it .Ive a feeling even then she wasnt aware what it did for me.Since then she has been in 2 other spontaneous catfights,the last of which was really little more than GBH.
Link here https://www.freecatfights.com/forums/index.php?topic=58722.msg443236#msg443236
She does know im into catfights,though im not as much as some people.Indeed after the last one she had i lost a lot of interest,only some of which ive regained.The plus side of all this is she will playfight with me or very occasionally sexfight with me.She knows i come on here sometimes but not when shes here.
Compared to some ive done very well really.That said id do my damndest to drop the fantasy as much as i could rather than lose her,if it ever came to that
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My experience is he same as most of the responses on here. Wife wants nothing to do with my female catfight/wrestling fantasy life. She refuses to discuss it at all and never will. My arousal with female wrestling definitely started much earlier than my teen years. So I cruise the internet and most recently Facebook to find men or women willing to talk about it. Also have considered getting together with another guy to watch videos of fighting and jerk off while watching them. I still onto that option but even that is difficult to do because finding guys to do this is hard.
To simply state this, I love it and will continue to pursue it. I read stories about it and I am now starting to write a story. The story will be about a mom and son who get into fighting in order to make ends meet. Will probably also include grannies. Love mature women fighting in all forms.
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Nope you are not alone as you can tell from this thread. Still, nice to have a place to vent and explore with those who understand.
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My wife knows nothing. I'll never go there.
So it seems like there are many of you in the same boat..... needing/wanting to explore your innermost, hottest fantasies.
I'm right here if you dream of your wife or GF getting it on with another man's wife... a petite Asian hottie. LOL
alohano_1 on Skype. Safe and sane fantasy.
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I thought I was alone till I read this
My wife has caught me in this forum twice now and simply can?t understand what I find so fascinating about two girls fighting, thing is I don?t think I can put it into words myself
So, other than talking to the girls and guys here no one knows I have this feitish and I think that?s the way it will have to stay.
In reality we don?t see girl fights when we?re out and about, used to see a few but as we get older we go to different bars and clubs where women are more likely to say sorry than to slap someone or ask them to step outside
I accept now that my chances of seeing a real life fight are so low that I stand a better chance of winning the lottery.....hmmm wonder if the wife would notice my new business venture??
I think theres more catfights today myself,but you have got to be in the right place at the right time.Ive seen one this year and that was mainly just shouting,out in the high street in the middle of the day so they obviously already didnt like each other.Go around the town at chucking out time is probably the best place but as you get older you dont very often go in places where theres a lot of catfights
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Think im one of the luckier ones,cos though she doesnt like this board,so i dont go on it in her absence,she will play wrestle,got one for my birthday on Friday.apart from bit of a sore left shoulder i loved every second of it
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Why is it only the guys telling the girls? Just wondering how the girls feel about telling their husbands/boyfriends...took me awhile to confess :)
I think we would all love to hear about that, Debbie. How long did it take you to confess it to him? How did you confess? How did he react? I suspect most guys would love to hear that from their lady. But I am sure there are some that are appalled.
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Great Shout Debbie we would love to hear your side of things how did you tell your husband, how did you react when he told you how did you feel??
Might be another forum topic..... Which i can set up
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We'd not been together that long but one evening during a film, he seemed more than just 'interested' in a girl fight scene, I know the look! I asked him about it and got him to admit to his fetish, At this point I just came out with 'you would enjoy my sister and I then' and added 'when we go at each other'. Some hundred or so Questions later and I'd told him most of it.. lol
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Interesting views by everyone. Unfortunately for me although my wife knows of my fetish,never really got to the stage of taking things to the next level. During intercourse or roleplay scenarios I often tend to see the thrill of imagining my wife haripulling or catfighting another woman. I enjoy this more more than the sex we have ,embarassed to say. However the time will come eventually there is just hope for me that one day I would see an arranged catfight involving my wife.
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Because about half of my cat fight fantasies involve my wife losing to a female rival of her at work (a real woman), being beaten, stripped naked and completely humiliated in front of her male and female coworkers, I don't mention this fetish to her.
But she does know about a couple of my fetish interests, including my candaulism. And she plays along with my "needs", though if she had her way she would not when it comes to being nude in front of others. (A rule is they have to be strangers who live no where near where we live, so this is done a few hundred miles north of us at Laguna del Sol.)
But to know I imagine her totally nude before everyone she knows, some of whom hate her, and getting to see her be beaten in a fight with another woman, that fantasy I keep to myself.
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I told my first wife, we were very young and she was definitely an alpha female. Very attractive, athletic, and competitive. She was very willing to tell me scripted stories about her getting into catfights with other attractive women, tearing each other's clothes off, etc. while we were having sex.
This was about the time the mudwrestling craze hit California. She loved attention from men, to dance, and would have been excellent in mudwrestling but she wasn't interested.
Her stories were very good, too good in fact. It was like having your favorite desert always in front of you, you begin to want it more and more.
We eventually divorced. I decided not to bring it up in future relationships because I thought it would have a negative impact on our sex life.
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I regularly imagine my wife as a pro wrestler, wrestling other women or her clone ;)
Anyway, she's not interested in the fetish, apart from modeling the "ring gear", so I do not mention it in her presence.
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I told him I wanted to do it and I did!
Can you tell more about it?
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I know about my husbands fetish... because once I came home after corporate party with black eye, scrached breasts and ruined clothes;) I told him that it was "drunken argument with my collegue"... Well... At least tge sex was great after it haha
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are you separated by colleagues...?
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I know about my husbands fetish... because once I came home after corporate party with black eye, scrached breasts and ruined clothes;) I told him that it was "drunken argument with my collegue"... Well... At least tge sex was great after it haha
Please do tell us more.. :)
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I was in private room when my former boss was kissing me. Unfortunately he forgot to lock the door so his wife found him and me. Of Course she was blaming me and attack me instead of him? And he decided to separate us only when other people come to see what was the noise about? Lucky for me it was soon after she attacked me. Of Course I didn't told my hus all about it. Just told him that it was drunken clash.
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I was in private room when my former boss was kissing me. Unfortunately he forgot to lock the door so his wife found him and me. Of Course she was blaming me and attack me instead of him? And he decided to separate us only when other people come to see what was the noise about? Lucky for me it was soon after she attacked me. Of Course I didn't told my hus all about it. Just told him that it was drunken clash.
Thank you Sasha, much appreciated. You are right not to tell your husband, while kissing another man might be forgivable, getting into a fight over another man is a relationship ender.