I told my wife a very little at a time,we sat playing "Truth Or Dare" when we were very first together. So very tactfully i said i was turned on by mud wrestling,she seemed not to mind at all,so i thought thats a relief, as i had told someone years ago and she dumped me there and then saying i was weird.Gradually over a bit of a time i expanded it,and still not a real bad reaction.Then one night we were out and she got in a full blown catfight.I was torn between very turned on and being frightened she would get hurt.Fortunately neither her or the woman hurt each other,it was all over in 2 or 3 minutes literally.
When we got home i was literally aching for her,but i just hugged her and she fell asleep with her head on my knee.Then she had a pre arranged fight with another nurse she worked with,and i wanted to be all over her while she was getting changed. nope she just wanted to get on with it .Ive a feeling even then she wasnt aware what it did for me.Since then she has been in 2 other spontaneous catfights,the last of which was really little more than GBH.
Link here
https://www.freecatfights.com/forums/index.php?topic=58722.msg443236#msg443236She does know im into catfights,though im not as much as some people.Indeed after the last one she had i lost a lot of interest,only some of which ive regained.The plus side of all this is she will playfight with me or very occasionally sexfight with me.She knows i come on here sometimes but not when shes here.
Compared to some ive done very well really.That said id do my damndest to drop the fantasy as much as i could rather than lose her,if it ever came to that