In my real life matches, i have come across many many offers and styles as well, i have started matches with both agreeing on it naturally, both erotic to catty and rough to erotic. And despite the use of rules you have to keep in mind, personalities clash during a match as do tempers flare and once things get going we either take a break, or reschedule . The passion that goes along with a sex fight, titfight, hair fight and other, is taken very seriously and lets face it , it is very very hard to have to accept a woman beat you, or beat your breasts, or woman hood as your men watch or other women or just us two . Cause no matter the rules the winner gets her way and relishes the win while the loser sits and takes it. But to simply reply to that question, yes often than not it has happened both ways.