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General Category => General Discussion about Catfights => Topic started by: fighttime67 on September 28, 2012, 11:18:09 PM
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I've often wondered just how disturbed i am for wanting to see another woman dominate and beat my wife down. Its a fantasy that has certainly had its trials and tribulations within my relationship. When i told my wife of my fantasy she was understandably confused. "So you want to see another woman beat the shit out of me"?, she puzzled. I told her I knew how demented that sounded but affirmed it with a quick nod. Honestly, it would turn me on to no end. Here's the thing....I'm not trying to brag, but I get a lot of female attention. I'm an attractive guy. Genetics dealt me a lucky hand, that's all there is to it....in any case, I've told several women of my fantasy and many of them have said they would have no problem with kicking my wife's ass if I wanted. I love my wife. I don't want her to be hurt. She isnt into arranged wrestling set-ups or anything like that so that just isn't going to happen. Am I sick for having this fantasy??? What to do............................
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There's a HUGE difference between wanting to see your wife in a catfight, and wanting someone to "beat the shit out of her".
The former is OK but can be looked upon as off the path kinky of course. The latter is indeed something to worry about. That is not acceptable.
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no your not, in a fantasy your wife can take a hell of a beating. she can be dominated, humiliated, thrown, punched, kicked, destroyed and even bleed. in reality though you wouldnt enjoy watching her pain. the fantasy is her body being stretched into sexy positions, the reality is her curved into a ball. its a funny thing about this site. some people take it rather too seriously and spoil the fun for others.
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and she is still your wife?? i have seen Rachel fight at the high school,college and after but the college 1 was most important to both of us.
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I have fantasys about my girl being bent into all sorts of shapes, but in reality of another girl layed a finger on her I'd break it.
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As others have alluded to, there is a dramatic difference between your fantisies and reality. I've been a catfight fan since puberty and as my tastes have evolved, the rougher and bloodier the fight the better. There are three things important to get my fantisies going. First, the combatants must be beautiful, and there must be lots of skin showing. Second it must be a real fight, and third, it must have a decisive ending with one girl dominating and humiliating the other.
Luckily (see my nametag) I have a wife who doesn't mind my fetish although she doesn't really understand it. Recently my wife fought another girl (see my posts in "Basement Boxing") which should have fulfilled all my fantasies. I kick myself every day for not filming it, because as I think back on it I get aroused. However, when it was actually happening it wasn't sexy, it bordered on terrifying.
I wish I had filmed it so I could go back and enjoy the fight. When I was referee I had to constantly be putting my hands on both women to separate them or to get them back on their feet, and feeling their sweaty skin should've been a turn on. It wasn't when it was happening. Definitely having to remove my wife's clothing and watch as she was humiliated in exposing more than she wanted to in front of her opponent's husband, is very sexy to think about afterwards but not as it was happening.
Sometimes fantasy is better than reality.
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Thank you for all of the comments...it certainly makes me feel better to know there are others with the same concerns about their sexual fantasies. I can see where it might not be very sexy at all to actually watch another woman inflict pain on the love of my life; however, the thought of it is erotic. I guess I just wonder why. I'd like to know what about it turns others on.
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Actually inflicting pain is okay, at least with me. Watching two women struggle to dominate one another is sexy, and if the girl fighting your girl makes her cry out in pain (a good hair pull, a punch to a tender area, a painful hold), well that's just why we love to watch. I know before my wife's fight she kept telling me not to stop it just because she was down or even crying. Where the fun ends and the terror begins is when it's not a fair contest as mentioned above (overmatched), or when the rules are like "the winner determines when it's over," etc.
Submission wrestling (or boxing) is probably the safest way to go because the loser can quit when she's had enough.
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Well same here. Fantasizing can never be bad and living it out cautiously is even better. Yeah little pain is accepted(with my girl's consent though). I would love to see the other girl make my girl cry or scream. Especially if she puts her in different holds and put her on show. But yes the winner should never decide when it ends. There should be neutral referee and basic safety precautions should be taken. I have a wife who supports my fantasies and we are even searching for opponent. I personally would like it rough but NEVER blood & out of control.
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EJ that is fantastic, as I have the same fantasies as you! I too have a big female foot fetish. I got to see my fantasy come true on two different occassions. I got to see my wife wrestle my sexy friends wife. I wanted to see my wife lose, but not get hurt. A little humiliation, but no pain, no blood, no bruises even. The two women fought in bathing suits on a blue work out mat. I got to see my friends beautiful wife sit on my wife. Then she turned around and placed her butt on my wifes face, not hard, but gently, she would lift up, then place it on her face slowly. My wife had her butt sit on her face, I found that so wildly hot. She then turned around, and sat on my wifes stomache. She grabbed my wifes wrists, sat back, and placed a bare foot on my wifes face! Her feet are gorgeous, were painted a bright red. My wife hates feet! My friends wifes feet also smell, they get sweaty, and stink. She forced a foot on my wifes face, making her smell it. My wife struggled. Watching my friends wife control her, dominate her, force her sexy feet on her face, forcing her to smell them, and then lick and kiss them, was so, so hot to me! My wife hated it, screamed, bucked, kicked, but still had to smell and taste her sweaty, smelly feet. My wife wasn't hurt at all, but she did have my friends wifes foot smell all over her face, in her mouth, and up her nose! That was a fantasy come true for me, watching my wife get dominated and humiliated by sexy, beautiful female feet! SO HOT!!!!
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Royal, you are damn lucky :)
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Several years ago I had a girl friend, Karen, who wrestled and she was my introduction to fem fighting. At first I was quite appalled at the idea, not only of my g/f fighting but also by the fact that other men and women could watch her. Karens matches were all "apartment style" and she would wear a bikini or swim suit, but there was more money on offer to those women who wrestled wearing lingerie. Karen asked if I had any objections to her joining such a group and her next match saw her wearing bra, panties and stockings and she looked fabulous! How ever, in this group the girls had to earn their money and not only were the fights more intense but also the tearing off of an opponents clothing was encouraged. Karen won her first fight but next time she was beaten by a much bigger woman who overwhelmed her and, to add insult to injury, tore off her bra and left with it! I had seen Karen fight a handfull of times but this was the first time I had seen her lose, and I was horny as hell! The distress she was in, her discomfort and the way she suddenly turned to me for comfort were an incredible turn on and back home we made love like never before! After that I often hoped that Karens opponent would be bigger and stronger than her and that Karen would lose, something which Karen realized and was quite prepared to accept, even to the point of seeking out such women to fight. Mostly Karen won, but its the times she lost I remember best, especially when she fought a younger girl in a winner take all match near London. Karen, who was 29 by now, was proud of her body and fitness but her opponent this night simply destroyed her; as well as tossing poor Karen all over the room like a rag doll the younger girl slapped, punched and kicked her. Karens bra was ripped off within minutes of the start and her lovely breasts were targetted throughout. Finally Karen was left sobbing on the floor and, in a move I and most of the other watchers could not believe, the youngster removed Karens skimpy panties and stuffed them in her mouth! Then, dropping onto Karens breasts with her knees, the youngster pulled the panties from Karens mouth so everybody could hear Karen submit to her! We stayed over night with friends and, as Karen was sore and aching, she went straight to sleep. I only saw her fight once more, winning, and then, amicably, we went our seperate ways. Karen went on to make some videos with the British outfit Festelle before emigrating to Canada, I believe.
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I've followed this thread with considerable interest and must say that I was really blown away at the number of guys who would want to see their gf or wife get beaten in a match or fight. I'm not judging or looking for some subconscious reason as to why. After all, everyone here has their own "thing," so to speak. No doubt, others (such as my old buddy Sketche) find my fascination with thick to wide-bodied women a total mystery. So be it. To each his own.
That being said, I have to say that were my wife ever to engage in a wrestling match, or baking contest, or dance contest with another women, I'd root for her to win all the way down the line. (I have in two of those three scenarios. No doubt you can guess which of the three never happened.) Were she to lose, that's perfectly OK too. That's what competition is all about. And I know that she'd be in my corner in any competitive situation as well. That's just the way it is. We're both fierce competitors, each in our own way, and share a mutual appreciation of it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you don't. The charge is watching someone you love give it their all.
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I totally see your point, Bear, but thats what makes the world go round, vive la difference! lol! With Karen, it wasn't that I wanted to see her get beat up and/or hurt, just that in losing she was even more sexy and after the fight turned to me for comfort, and being the male shelffixing pig I am I found that very, very HOT! Only a couple of her fights were brutal, with punching, kicking etc and only once was Karen really hurt and, seeing she was getting hurt and that her opponent was liking it I pulled Karen out. When Karen fought the younger girl I mentioned, I think her name was Kelly or Kerry, Karen knew exactly the sort of fight she was in for; it was Kelly/Kerry who insisted on "winner takes all" submission only fight. Karen, who if memory serves me right, had never lost such a fight, her defeats being usually against bigger, stronger women where she lost on pins, was proud of her record and was sure she could handle it. Karen lost but it was her pride more than anything that was hurt; as far as I know, she never met Kelly/Kerry again. Karen knew her strengths and limitations, and she really enjoyed fighting....and I really enjoyed our "wrestling" sessions too, lol!
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The sexy point in a catfight is the humiliation of the loser. Everybody who's into catfight fetish knows it. So it's totaly normal to see our wifes or gf as jobbers. Meanwhile, I think it's strange to think about your gf winning! I don;t get it all. A winning wrestler is rather masculin...
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Mille, thats it in a nut shell!
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I think having a beautiful wife or gf who wins a fight over another pretty girl while her husband/bf watches is pretty damn sexy as well. Especially if the other man hates to see his woman lose. It's also pretty sexy afterwards in the bedroom as you celebrate her victory together.
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The sexy point in a catfight is the humiliation of the loser. Everybody who's into catfight fetish knows it. ...
That's not true. For me the whole humiliation thing is boring, like facesitting, which I find hilarious and not the least bit of a turn on. Everyone enjoys a different aspect of the scenario. There is no universal truth as to what is to be enjoyed.
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I'm pleased to see that i've touched on a topic that seems to have some bi-partisanship ;) With me I guess it really is the femininity/vulnerability of my fantasies wife when she loses. The realization that another female is stronger and tougher....Knowing that another woman has rendered her helpless is so intoxicating.....
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I think the sexiest thing about the whole catfight, wrestle stuff, is the total domination of one sexy woman over another. I love the idea, and reality of one woman exerting her will over another rival. That she then will use her body to humiliate the loser. She smothers the losing woman's face with her gorgeous breasts, her smelly crotch, butt and feet! The losing woman has to smell, lick and taste, all her feminine scents, and juices! That HUMILIATION, and DOMINATION is what is so wildly hot to me. I never want to see my wife hurt, but watching her lie under another woman's body, was so so amazing! The idea, and actuality of my wife kissing and smelling my friends wifes feet, is still one of my greatest and favorite turn-ons!
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I was wondering if anybody has a scenerio or story of something like this. Maybe even where ex gf or ex wife competed in like arm wrestling wrestling or where the ex tried to intimiadate the current wife or gf? This has also been a fantasy for me. Any input or thoughts about either real or imagined i would love to hear about. Thanks
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i forgot something i wanted to ask. i have had this same fantasy of ex gf beating current gf. When they are around each other my ex will always try to out do my gf whether it's a game or trying to get my eye. My ex and i still talk and they both are aware of my intrest in girls competing in one on one wrestling cat fights arm wrestling etc. My ex has always played to it and enjoyed talking about it my gf is not really the type and doesn't mind but is not very assertive. My ex is a inch taller has bigger breasst and is about 120 my gf is about the same weight with a cup size lower at a B. like i said my ex plays it up and tells me how and what she would do if they wrestled or fought and ask my gf to wrestle just for fun before and has arm wrestled her before which she won pretty easy and made a point to rub it in and tell me about it later. My gf just lets it go and i tell her it's alright but the truth is my ex is turning me on like crazy eging it on and she knows it. Has anyone else thought about or had this type thing happen at all. Thanks
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You are not sick!! A buxom blonde literally beat my wife's big black ass and I loved it!!! The end result in the bedroom have my wife ok with it now. The blonde yanked my wife's braids, stripped, taunted and spanked her!!!! My wife was crying and pleading with the blonde to stop. It was the most I have EVER been aroused!!!! So, if you enjoy it, you are not sick!!! I can't wait for another white girl to beat my wife's big black ass!!!!
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You are not sick!! A buxom blonde literally beat my wife's big black ass and I loved it!!! The end result in the bedroom have my wife ok with it now. The blonde yanked my wife's braids, stripped, taunted and spanked her!!!! My wife was crying and pleading with the blonde to stop. It was the most I have EVER been aroused!!!! So, if you enjoy it, you are not sick!!! I can't wait for another white girl to beat my wife's big black ass!!!!
Oh wow.. wish it happened with mine. Love stays if its with consent, both gets a kick out of it and have a lovely time in the bedroom after that(me n my wife off course). Its okay.. And man you are lucky.
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I agree with what seems to be the vast majority here, having a fantasy is fine but the reality is very different.
I don't blame anyone for their fantasies no matter how objectionable I might personally find them because I don't think anyone has control over what turns them on I know I certainly don't. There are things that I find sexy that I have no idea where they come from and from my experience that is the same with most and I would assume all people.
Take catfighting for example. When I was growing up I usually spent more time playing around with boys then I did girls of my age, most of the kids my age locally were boys who used to be in to stuff like WWF and I used to do lots of play fighting and stuff with them which I really loved. Since I have gotten older I have still had a few fights with others but nothing serious where anyone gets permanently injured, ok there is a bit of pain but its just friendly competition to see who wins rather than deliberately trying to inflict pain.
Now that said I enjoy the fantasy of more violent or mean fights and that is something I do partake in online with similar minded people, the internet allows me to experience and enjoy my fantasy in a safe setting since noone really gets hurt.
I can understand the appeal of seeing a partner in a fight and as a fantasy only I can see where people would enjoy that fight to be more extreme than something that would be safer or more restrained in reality. For me a fantasy is just that but in reality I would never ever want to see someone I loved get hurt.
If you want to know if you are struggling to keep fantasy and reality separate then I would probably ask yourself if you have ever seen someone get seriously hurt in real life (not necessarily as a result of a fight) and imagine your wife in that persons place, if that does still appeal to you then I would find that a bit concerning.
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I try to make sure pain, blood, and physical injuries, stay out of both my fantasies and reality. I like the idea, fantasy and reality, of my wife being dominated by another beautiful woman, and forced to smell and kiss her sexy bare feet. That really does it for me. Humiliation, and domination are present, but, I don't want to see violence, pain or physical hurt. There is some mental anguish, which for some reason turns me on and excites me. The fact that one woman is sexier, superior, and worthy of worship! The act of my wife smelling another womans feet, watching that, turns me on like crazy! I enjoy watching and thinking about any pretty woman dominating another female with her feet, but, if it is my wife being dominated, it is somehow even better and more exciting! Would any REAL ladies here enjoy dominating some guys wife in front of him, sitting on her face, and then forcing her to smell her pretty feet?
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Royals.... You are a true gentleman! I want to have your babies and marry you! If only more per*erts on here were like you!
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Royals.... You are a true gentleman! I want to have your babies and marry you! If only more per*erts on here were like you!
Yeah, some of the gals here are really awful...
::)
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I don't think your fantasy is any sicker than any other fantasy. According to Freud the only sexual fantasy that is "sick" is the absence of sexual desire. I guess they way I would look at it at least in my case is that this has been a lifelong fantasy for me. I am turned on by the idea of women fighting. In my case it is about the struggle so I don't care who wins or looses. In your case I would suspect you were always more turned on by the woman loosing the fight. It is entirely natural, therefore, that you would substitute your wife in that roll in your fantasies. It isn't that you want your wife beat up, you are simply including her in your fantasy in the roll that turns you on the most. Would she prefer that you had her in the roll that turned you on less? Or not include her at all in your fantasies?
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I’ve always found the loser in a catfight to be sexier than the winner. In my fantasies, my wife always gets pounded, stripped, and humiliated at the hands of an equally sexy woman. But if she got into a real fight, I’d break it up immediately!! That said I’d love to see her lose either a topless wrestling match or a controlled catfight with very strict rules. Another possibility might be a totally fake, scripted catfight where she loses badly. The most important thing is to keep everyone safe.
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Sounds normal to me, Norm, lol!
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I guess Ill be that guy and throw my two cents in too.
Everyone's fantasies are different, and that point was made pretty clear already. for me the whole winner and loser aspect isnt the key (although id rather see my girl come out on top) but its more of the competition, and the struggle. And i think to a point sometimes its ok for fantasy to become reality, as long as there arent any serious consequences. If your significant other is willing and its done properly, you could get what you wanted and in the end, everyone is alright.
I dated a few girls that i told my fantasies to, and some played in very well to them, like telling me stories of what would happen if her and another girl we knew would go at it. Other girls, didnt really mind it, but never pressed the issue. Ive personally seen two or three IRL and almost had an ex and at the time current gf fight, but its never included someone near and dear to me. To be honest im not sure how id feel about it in the heat of the moment. If your fantasies are that rough, its best to keep them as what they are, fantasies.
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Talking about catfights with REAL women, can be as exciting as watching them. My wife has many very cute friends. I have become close with many of them over the years. A few of them shared real secrets and fantasies with me, and I got brave enough to share some with them. A few of my wife's best friends found out about my leg and foot fetish, as well as my catfight fetish, from my wife, before I ever said anything to them as well. My wife at times, with special, selected closer friends, enjoys embarrassing me, with them. She will tell them that I like to look at, even smell and kiss female feet. These friends enjoy teasing me, using this information. Her friend Donna for instance, loves whispering in my ear that she would love to dominate my wife, she would sit on her, and rub her sweaty bare feet all over her face. She would slip a shoe off, and rub her wiggly, sexy bare toes up and down my leg while she does this. She will tell me how she would enjoy proving that she is the better, sexier woman. She would want my wife to worship her. She is a very pretty woman, sexy as hell, dates men, has a steady boyfriend now, but, she seems to like girls a little too. I would love to see my wife dominated by her, so, so badly. The idea turns me on so much. She is very close with my wife, so I know she wouldn't hurt her at all, just tease, and humiliate her a little.....and that drives me crazy with lust!
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This is a really interesting topic that I had to jump in and give my two cents....
I think that everyone has a right to their opinions/fantasies however, looking at it from a woman's perspective.... I think I would be ticked/jealous/upset if I knew or even suspected that my boyfriend wanted to see me lose or get beat up in a fight.
I'm sure it could be some kind of, "turn on" to see your wife/girlfriend get pinned or submit to another woman however, maybe that's something she doesn't need to know.
Hope everyone has a wonderful rest of the weekend!
-Issy
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I too have a foot fetish i think its very sexy how a one woman dominates another woman and stands above her with a foot on her face or chest, i also love to see 2 women in karate gis demonstrating this.
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I loved watching my friends sexy wife NANCY stand over, and pose her pretty bare feet on my wife's face, over her mouth and nose. The sexy dominant humiliation was so amazingly hot to see.
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When I was a bit younger, I got worried about exactly such fantasies of mine (about my gf being dominated physically, and humiliated, by another female), but by now I know that I'm not sick, and neither are you. My worries came because my fantasy world clashed so much with real life - in reality, I wanted my gf to be protected, happy and feeling fabulous at all times - far from even getting in a verbal argument, never mind a physical conflict. I understand your question in a way that fantasy and real life are two different things for you, too -? I just find it important to also respect an opinion which is put forward e.g. by Alyshaswrld here; if I know that it would hurt my lady's feelings I wouldn't need to tantalize her by confronting her with it. But I think our fantasies in themselves are a healthy outlet, not something to worry about.
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Your not sick. I have the same fetish. Another woman dominating my GF or wife. However, this has a wide definition. As with most fantasies, we wish they become reality. Explore this world together with your partner to see to what extent your both willing to go.
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Your not sick. I have the same fetish. Another woman dominating my GF or wife. However, this has a wide definition. As with most fantasies, we wish they become reality. Explore this world together with your partner to see to what extent your both willing to go.
My wife has been in a few fights, and lost one really badly, i finally told her how it made me feel, and she was ok with it, now she tells me all the time about how it would happen against this girl and that girl, and she is getting pretty good at it, I would never let her get hurt if i was there witnessing it, so she tries to stay out of fights and just tells me what happened to her if they did fight, and she always loses, lol
A girl telling me that would be pretty hot. It would be enough to get me going. Thanks for sharing
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I like to see two women have an erotic, fantasy, and/or sexual catfight. However, I find it very disturbing when two women have a real fight. That is NOT sexy to any stretch of the imagination. I do not want to ever see that and I hope I never will.