Having both had real and real rules arranged getting hair pulled is pretty basic, naturally length can play a role in it but short or long if fingers can sink in hair curl up hair and twist it then pull no amount of pain threshold an with stand, I know cause I enjoy my hair pulled and even with that there is a point it hurts, as far as who gets a grip first the advantage can be short in a street brawl with hands and feet flying who ever got hair first often results in a quick hold or throwing your rival down to get behind her, most cases within seconds both women are tearing tufts out, as for a stalemate again that tends to be brief, when locked in a timed hair grab there is a lot of shaking others head by hair, try to get each other off balance or even peel others head to make her look up or bend her at the waist, a good point to hair pulling for those who aren’t aware when gathering your rivals hair drag your nails on the scalp after obtains a solid fistful of her hair press your knuckles on the scalp and pry at the point your fist has her hair , it’s more painful and rips at her roots , this is more successful on women with shorter hair styles but rest assure any style will get a scream, shorter hair is harder to get a good amount of hair to control and the tighter strands make it tough to spin or whip her about , where as longer hair you get more to grab but length determines how far you stretch your grasp to really make her feel it basically you have to dig in to the scalp bringing you face to face, however if your rolling around or she is behind you longer hair allows a grip any angle to counter which is why we often pull it back or put it up, as braids go to ne you may as well put your hair in her hand and hold on, your head will be whipped around and you can be thrown like a rag doll, but in that it makes it tough to get a hold of, but once the other woman has it hold on, there are points of the scalp it hurts more no matter style of cut, temples, bangs, ears, and the very top and back of the head is a major control point, also nape of the neck , if you notice on these “real fight “ videos rarely are those points grabbed and pulled it is almost always the thickest general scalp area , models don’t like to get hit or hair ripped even at 100 an hour lol