Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:
How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?
I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.
Xoxo
Kate
Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.
This is an absolute given, as long as it’s one on one and both participants want to fight…then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?
When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe…
Let me try to explain. I could get into trouble when I was a schoolgirl. Back then, my friends and I would get into a fight with another group or something like that. I'm unlikely to get into a street fight right now. But even if that happens, it's important which of my friends is by my side. She may be a wonderful woman, but she's never been in a fight, and the very prospect of being beaten terrifies her. And although I trust her, she won't be able to help me in a fight. At best, she might call the police. And if, for example, Daria or Lenka are with me, then there is no doubt that they will definitely help me.