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Offline shairyw

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help me understand better
« on: September 19, 2025, 09:10:52 PM »
Hello everybody,
I’m new here and I’d like to introduce myself. I’m a 25-year-old woman, a photographer specializing in erotic and fetish themes. Besides my artistic work, I’m also a stripper and a part-time wrestler.
I first discovered wrestling when I was invited to take part in a fight for money. I really enjoyed the experience and became curious about different types of catfights. Before that, I had never even heard of this practice. Later, after doing a few BJJ lessons with guys, I started to understand the erotic dimension of fighting.
Now I’d like to start a new project around this theme:
I’d love to hear your stories:
How did you first get into catfights?
What do you particularly enjoy about them?
Is it only the erotic dimension for you?
also is there any fighters (girls) willing to tell me their point of view on this topic. I've heard a lot of people saying that's it's anti- feminist- what are your thoughts?
XX thanks to everyone who'll share with me their thoughts

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Offline mister4562004

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Re: help me understand better
« Reply #1 on: September 22, 2025, 12:13:42 AM »
As a man now in my late 60's, my interest in watching girl fights/catfights was something that started on its own. I did not seek it out. Even before puberty, I noticed that I felt a tingle in my pants whenever a girl fight or catfight popped up on the old black & white TV set. Let's be clear, there were very few girl fights back in the years of my youth, in the 1960's and 70's, but anytime I saw one, it was a turn-on. At puberty, the turn-on became an instant hard-on, and this was before I knew anything about sex. Note that there was no recording of TV in those years, so I had to watch everything when it came on. Movies like "One Million Years BC" and "From Russia With Love" were sexually engrossing because of their girl-fight scenes. I would check the TV istings to make sure I noted when they would be on so I wouldn't miss them. At the same time, I'd check the TV movie listings for any movie I didn't know about but seemed to have the potential for a girl fight, like women's prison movies, or girl-gang movies, anything of that sort, so great was my interest in girl fights/catfights. There was the British TV show "The Avengers" that would now and then feature a girl fight, so I'd watch this on a weekly basis in the hopes of catching one. Then, around 1973, a monthly wrestling magazine (Sports Review Wrestling) started featuring female battles with girls in 2-piece swimsuits in a standard living room setting. They called it apartment house wrestling. This, for me, was like hitting the jackpot, a new girl fight every month! I followed professional wrestling on TV back then so having wrestling magazines in my possession was not deemed unusual by my parents. Wrestling magazines also featured several ads for buying girl fight material. I purchased something only once whiie still living with my parents and was lucky enough to be the first at our mailbox when the material arrived giving me the opportuinity to hide it before anyone else saw it.
In the 1980's it was Triumph Studios among others that specialized in female fighting. I opened up a post-office box to be able to buy this stuff in secrecy.
It was about then that I met the woman that would go on to be my wife. We had 2 children together, a very healthy and normal sex life. Now and then, if there was a lull in our sex life, I would turn to my girl fight material to tide me over, so to speak. Today, all these years later, my wife's sex drive has greatly diminished, but mine has not. I masturbate to my girl-fight/catfight images and videos (I have a fairly large digital collection) and I actually feel fortunate that I still have this same, massive turn-on just as I did in my years of puberty. It  has never left me. Why has this been such a sexual turn-on for me? I don't know. It's how I'm wired, and I'm obviously not alone. I own up to it, and, as I said, I'm grateful to have this fetish as it truly provides me with sexual gratification in my senior years. Note that all the stuff I watch from my collection is staged fighting. I do not watch real fights, or MMA, or anything of that sort, and I don't like anything bloody. What I watch are images and videos of female actors pretending to fight in photoshoots or videos. They don't always do a good job, but this is where fantasy kicks in.
Girl fights/catfights have been an absolutely essential part of my sexuality since my earliest memories. My first ejaculation as a kid was while watching a girl fight on TV, and then fantasizing about it. As I said earlier, I have the catfight fetish and I own it.The erotic/sexual dimension of a catfight is all that matters to me. There is something absolutely all-engrossing about two gorgeous girls (scantily clad, preferably topless) fighting for physical supremacy. It gives me such an incredible rush. As I view photos and/or videos I can't wait to see who of the two girls will win the fight, even when I know it in advance from from having previously viewed and re-viewed the same images/videos. The victory of one girl over the other girl at the end is the true climax. A subsequent victory pose is icing on the cake.

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Offline Horny-Jew

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Re: help me understand better
« Reply #2 on: September 22, 2025, 02:18:06 AM »
Fetish somewhat similar as stated by mister4562004. The short version is as a straight male, I get sexually aroused watching catfights. I prefer the women both wearing long sleave buttoned down blouses/shirts, no bra, shorts or skirt, no pantyhose, no leggings, barefoot. And, I really enjoy each ripping their opponnent's blouses/shirts as part of the fight. I really don't like women to get hurt in a fight. A little redness maybe, light scratches possibly, maybe some light bruises, but nothing more.

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« Reply #3 on: September 26, 2025, 11:42:01 PM »
Love this origin story.

As a man now in my late 60's, my interest in watching girl fights/catfights was something that started on its own. I did not seek it out. Even before puberty, I noticed that I felt a tingle in my pants whenever a girl fight or catfight popped up on the old black & white TV set. Let's be clear, there were very few girl fights back in the years of my youth, in the 1960's and 70's, but anytime I saw one, it was a turn-on. At puberty, the turn-on became an instant hard-on, and this was before I knew anything about sex. Note that there was no recording of TV in those years, so I had to watch everything when it came on. Movies like "One Million Years BC" and "From Russia With Love" were sexually engrossing because of their girl-fight scenes. I would check the TV istings to make sure I noted when they would be on so I wouldn't miss them. At the same time, I'd check the TV movie listings for any movie I didn't know about but seemed to have the potential for a girl fight, like women's prison movies, or girl-gang movies, anything of that sort, so great was my interest in girl fights/catfights. There was the British TV show "The Avengers" that would now and then feature a girl fight, so I'd watch this on a weekly basis in the hopes of catching one. Then, around 1973, a monthly wrestling magazine (Sports Review Wrestling) started featuring female battles with girls in 2-piece swimsuits in a standard living room setting. They called it apartment house wrestling. This, for me, was like hitting the jackpot, a new girl fight every month! I followed professional wrestling on TV back then so having wrestling magazines in my possession was not deemed unusual by my parents. Wrestling magazines also featured several ads for buying girl fight material. I purchased something only once whiie still living with my parents and was lucky enough to be the first at our mailbox when the material arrived giving me the opportuinity to hide it before anyone else saw it.
In the 1980's it was Triumph Studios among others that specialized in female fighting. I opened up a post-office box to be able to buy this stuff in secrecy.
It was about then that I met the woman that would go on to be my wife. We had 2 children together, a very healthy and normal sex life. Now and then, if there was a lull in our sex life, I would turn to my girl fight material to tide me over, so to speak. Today, all these years later, my wife's sex drive has greatly diminished, but mine has not. I masturbate to my girl-fight/catfight images and videos (I have a fairly large digital collection) and I actually feel fortunate that I still have this same, massive turn-on just as I did in my years of puberty. It  has never left me. Why has this been such a sexual turn-on for me? I don't know. It's how I'm wired, and I'm obviously not alone. I own up to it, and, as I said, I'm grateful to have this fetish as it truly provides me with sexual gratification in my senior years. Note that all the stuff I watch from my collection is staged fighting. I do not watch real fights, or MMA, or anything of that sort, and I don't like anything bloody. What I watch are images and videos of female actors pretending to fight in photoshoots or videos. They don't always do a good job, but this is where fantasy kicks in.
Girl fights/catfights have been an absolutely essential part of my sexuality since my earliest memories. My first ejaculation as a kid was while watching a girl fight on TV, and then fantasizing about it. As I said earlier, I have the catfight fetish and I own it.The erotic/sexual dimension of a catfight is all that matters to me. There is something absolutely all-engrossing about two gorgeous girls (scantily clad, preferably topless) fighting for physical supremacy. It gives me such an incredible rush. As I view photos and/or videos I can't wait to see who of the two girls will win the fight, even when I know it in advance from from having previously viewed and re-viewed the same images/videos. The victory of one girl over the other girl at the end is the true climax. A subsequent victory pose is icing on the cake.
Barefoot girls pulling each other's hair gets me off every time

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Re: help me understand better
« Reply #4 on: September 27, 2025, 06:35:36 AM »
Hello everybody,
I’m new here and I’d like to introduce myself. I’m a 25-year-old woman, a photographer specializing in erotic and fetish themes. Besides my artistic work, I’m also a stripper and a part-time wrestler.
I first discovered wrestling when I was invited to take part in a fight for money. I really enjoyed the experience and became curious about different types of catfights. Before that, I had never even heard of this practice. Later, after doing a few BJJ lessons with guys, I started to understand the erotic dimension of fighting.
Now I’d like to start a new project around this theme:
I’d love to hear your stories:
How did you first get into catfights?
What do you particularly enjoy about them?
Is it only the erotic dimension for you?
also is there any fighters (girls) willing to tell me their point of view on this topic. I've heard a lot of people saying that's it's anti- feminist- what are your thoughts?
XX thanks to everyone who'll share with me their thoughts

It was watching the chips episode as 4 or 5 year old kid that had female mud wrestling on it.  From that point is where it all started for me.

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Offline cfsister

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Re: help me understand better
« Reply #5 on: September 30, 2025, 05:25:18 AM »
   From the time that I registered on here, there have been messages sent to me about my name "cfsister". It is not about me but my sister who's about 5 years older than me. Our father was gone quite a bit for his job so it was just me and my sis at home. Our mother worked as well because she just enjoyed her job and needed an outlet in life.
   Growing up, my sis's best friend spent a lot of time over at our place. Both of them were the plain jane type. Not fat. Not skinny. Almost identical in size. I really didn't understand lesbianism at the time, but I did know that those two loved to constantly playwrestle. During summer vacation, as soon as my mom would leave for work, my sis and "Liz" (not her real name, of course) would change into some of my sis's bike shorts sets (she had a ton of them.) that went to their knees. Then they would go into my mom's bedroom and I thought they would just kind of playwrestle. Not exactly. This one time they had left the door opened a little so I got to spy on them, and I'll never forget what I saw. Both of them were wearing some spandex crop tops and matching bike shorts that came to their knees. They had locked bodies into a tight catball, arms wrapped around each other and legs entwined. I stood there with my heart pounding as they enjoyed a marathon rollaround on the bed. I don't think they knew I was watching them. The rolling was slow as those two would start grinding together as they rolled back and forth. Eventually one of them would have an orgasm. They would lay there for a minute, whispering to each other then began the next round. Their rollaround went several rounds before they called it quits. I was only 12 at the time, she was 17.
   I don't think my mom knew everything. She may have figured they were just good friends that hit it off. Not really sure. This was the early 90s. All I cared about was getting a chance to watch them as often as I could. To this day I try to find videos that come close to my sis's matches with Liz. It's hard but I have been able torun across a few. Xingjuecatfight had a few that I purchased but sadly they disappeared.
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Offline sinclairfan

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Re: help me understand better
« Reply #6 on: September 30, 2025, 02:20:00 PM »
In 1970s New England, having an older sister, who went to the local Catholic school, in a love triangle with a boy and his ex, who went to the local public school, gave a girl a "ringside seat" to the social dimension of a rivalry building up to a catfight.
<1> Late night phone calls with friends interspersed with frequent, "That bitch better watch her step."
<2> Weekend party/shopping mall planning centering around whether the other woman would be there....
<3> ....and if there would be a confrontation....
<4> .....or a fight.....
<5> .....and what other girls would be there to watch.....
<6> .....or might interfere.
<7> Waiting anxiously when she hadn't arrived back yet as planned, wondering if the fight had finally happened.

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Re: help me understand better
« Reply #7 on: October 02, 2025, 09:37:39 AM »
I think wrestling for the entertainment of spectators and sorting out relationships between girls are completely different things.
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« Reply #8 on: October 03, 2025, 03:45:17 PM »
I’m in my early 60’s. The first time I got turned on by women wrestling/fighting I was about 11. I saw a match on TV and the brunette was working over a blonde pretty good. Shortly after that I witnessed my best friends mom get knocked around by one of her neighbors and that REALLY turned me on. I began fantasizing about her wrestling and being easily defeated by other women in the neighborhood, professional female wrestlers, celebrities, etc.   All these years later I STILL fantasize about it. Of course it’s her in her 40’s or 50’s, not her age today. 

I’m turned on by the eroticism and the dominance of it.

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Offline NekoKitsune

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« Reply #9 on: October 04, 2025, 08:33:23 PM »
My story has nothing to do with eroticism. There was this girl I didn't get along with. She was always trying to make me look like a fool. She especially enjoyed making fun of me in front of her friends. She thought I was stupid, she didn't like the way I dressed, she didn't like the music I listened to, and in general she didn't like me and she constantly told me about it. One day we were both on edge and a verbal altercation escalated into a fight. I defeated her. I sat on her chest and slapped her, she cried. I was happy. A week later she demanded a rematch. I beat her again. I really enjoyed it. I pinned her to the ground, covered her in mud, and made her cry again. It was an incomparable feeling. She had been ruining my life for so long, and now she was defeated and humbled. I liked the feeling, and I liked the fight.
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« Reply #10 on: October 07, 2025, 11:14:58 PM »
For me the fetish start when I was 9 or 10 years old.  I can trace it back to being interested in the Dynasty catfights.  But I still can't 100% say what was the first trigger.  I can clearly remember in elementary school being more interested if there was two girls fighting than two boys are a mix fight.  I'm 49 and grow up in the era of Mudfights on tv shows.

For 3 years now I've run a group on Reddit and Telegram covering all things catfights.  I was shock to find out how large this subculture was.  I can't explain why catfights turn me on.  But this fetish is a big part of my life. I've actually been tempted to talk to a psychologist about it.

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Offline Cali_fight

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« Reply #11 on: October 08, 2025, 06:41:54 PM »
My first ever introduction to girls fighting was watching my sister and stepsister tussle as kids, I never really enjoyed seeing it and found it annoying as a kid.  But then I remember seeing these 2 girls who had to be like 13 (I was like 8 mind you) fighting at the park and something kinda clicked in me.  A few years later I loved it when either of my sister's friend groups would come over cause they were all pretty tom boy-ish and were always wrestling. 

I didnt get into fetish catfights till I was about 14-15 when I searched up "topless wrestling" when just regular play fights didnt do it anymore.  I cannot find the vid anymore but it was of these 2 women play fighting on the bed while topless.  Super simple but it sparked something in me and I have never been able to let it go.

I have never really been into the incredibly violent fights but love super competitive/sexual wrestling matches

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Offline npom

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« Reply #12 on: October 08, 2025, 08:40:50 PM »
For me the fetish start when I was 9 or 10 years old.  I can trace it back to being interested in the Dynasty catfights.  But I still can't 100% say what was the first trigger.  I can clearly remember in elementary school being more interested if there was two girls fighting than two boys are a mix fight.  I'm 49 and grow up in the era of Mudfights on tv shows.

For 3 years now I've run a group on Reddit and Telegram covering all things catfights.  I was shock to find out how large this subculture was.  I can't explain why catfights turn me on.  But this fetish is a big part of my life. I've actually been tempted to talk to a psychologist about it.

I actually did talk to a psychologist about it around 10 years ago. She had some very interesting things to say about it.