Discussed with your significant other?

[Anthony__]

I brought it up a few years ago and it went SUPER well She's not into actually having a match at her age but we role play it and have lots of fun together with the subject even watching videos together time to time.

[panoskl2003]

She found out in our first time of our relationship about my fetish and her first reaction was "why are you looking at other women, I can do this too" but later I discovered that it was just a punchline.
But after our marriage and as I was keep looking at the internet about fem fights, I had the chabce to get her in a tournament that took place in marathon-greece and even though she didn't like catfights, she was impressed by some wrestlers there. So I persuaded her to try for me and she did. My avatar photo says it all...
That was about 10 years ago

[Cf_Jam]

t has never been a serious or direct discussion on this topic in my case and I fear that if I bring this up, first of all she may not relate to it and be dismissive or she might just force me to get away with this unusual kink.

My partner has seen me enjoy female wrestling matches but that was taken as more of a sports love coupled with manly lust for seeing female bodies with less clothing. While she has an aura that is competitive and she does feel tension around certain women, she is not at all aggressive and a gentle lady. Also she has very minimal social engagements and hardly there is anybody I could think of that can be a competitive rival for her. Perhaps I have jokingly brought up things about her losing her patience and getting physical with other women but she never reacts much to it. Infact I would never want her to get into any fight as well knowing that when it comes to physical strength required she is amongst the weakest. But even as a fantasy discussion she never seems to be responsive or thrilled and that's why I feel if I ever seriously bring this up I might end up complicating things between us.

[F4UCORSAIR]

I brought up the idea of female fighting years ago and the idea was well received. My wife did engage me in the fetish and even in some IRL matches, but it really was my fetish not hers. 

[supermoon]

Just curious...how many of you guys have actually discussed with your wife/GF your desire to see them in an arranged match?

I'm curious about this too. I have a feeling not many people are comfortable bringing up something like that with their partners.

[chrisstevens]

My first wife had no interest in fighting but did indulge me with stories. My 2nd wife would have fought if we could have found another woman around her stats and age, and was a novice like her, but it never happened. She is 74yo now and still looks quite fit but it would be hard at that age probably for 2 women to fight. If anyone would like to chat about matures catfighting or just catfighting in general, i am on trillian, i am on as 'chrisstevens60' and i am in the uk.

[lumberjack66]

I guess the part I have always struggled with in that so many guys spouses will have nothing to do with this is why?  Why are they so against this?  I mean many of them have fought before.  Many are athletic and competitive.  They say they love us and want to turn us on.  So then we tell them what turns us on and they refuse to have anything to do with it.  It makes no sense.  I mean I get that there are limits to anything, but most won't even use it as pillow talk.  The question I have is if the roles were reversed and your wife had a secret hot button that drove her wild, how bad would it have to be that you couldn't even use it to whisper in her ear to drive her wild?

[Txblonde]

A couple of thoughts....1) I think part of the issue is that many guys approach their significant other about having a "fight" or "Catfight" when they should treat it as a competition similar to having a tennis match, arm wrestling, or running a marathon...call it a wrestling match with whatever rules she would be comfortable with as opposed to a "fight"..hell, how many of of yall want to engage in a Fight or brawl?
2) primarily your significant other needs to want to engage in this as a competition of her own and not just to satisfy your ow "kink"...yes, I fully realize how much my husband enjoys my matches BUT I have the matches because I want to and chose to and to satisfy my own competitive drive. In this issue, my competitive desires come first and his fetish desires second...

[SamTheMan]

Yeah, thats a tricky one, isn't it. Some guys try to hide it but get caught. They should know better, really.

[Horny-Jew]

The guy should tell his partner that he would love to see her in a strip catfight. That way the women will not get hurt and it will satisfy the guy's fetish. The woman needs to ask the guy what clothing to start (dress, uniform, bikini, etc,...) that he prefers.

[xanderale99]

When I was younger, I would wait to bring it up until after the relationship turned physical. Like when we discussed turn ons.  Back then, most were accepting of my interest in catfights but not willing to try it.  A few were interested.  One said she'd kill a bitch who pulled her hair 😬

About 11 years ago I got the idea to be more up front about it.  I included it in a list of interests that I have when courting someone and while it was not a requirement, those who were interested or willing to try it were who I was more into seeing.  For the last several years I have only ever dated ladies interested in trying it.  I have even dated one lady who was featured on LFC.  None have ever done a real catfight for me but have gotten close a few times. 

[xanderale99]