STARBEAR, please show her how absolutely humiliating it can be to have another woman step on your face completely! I think she will fully understand what this FOOT thing is all about, when the reality of not being able to breathe, and feeling helpless, and then thinking about another woman using your face as if it was a flip flop.....will drive this point home! You posing your foot on her face, looking down at her, smiling, with complete victory!