Well this actually happened to me with my husband one night. My husband and I got together with his bestfriend and his wife one night and went out drinking and dancing. My husband's best friend is name Ronnie and his wife is Joanna. Ronnie and my husband were friends since little boys and so they have been through this type of situation in the past or similarly. Anyway at the niteclub Ronnie had asked me to dance with my husband's permission of course, we danced and Ronnie was getting a little close. We had a few more drinks and Joanna started making sarcastic remarks towards me through her husband. Something to the effect that she was going to the ladies' room and didn't want to come back and see me sitting on Ronnie's lap, I responded to her "I'm sure I have my own didn't need hers", she then responded that it didn't seem enough for me, I told her I would let her know if and when I needed more "maybe". My husband knew how I was and started laughing. He then asked me, "are you going to fight"? I told him no, only if she takes it further, but you know I don't fight in public. He said "you probably could kick her ass", fight her. I told him that's your best friend's wife? He said, I think Ronnie would like to see you guys fight, I'm in the mood- fight over me, he said- I had fought over my husband a few times in the past; I said if she pushes it.
We then went back to their house, put the t.v. on and were having a few more shots of tequila. At that point we were all sitting on the couch, it was my husband on the corner, I'm next to him, Joanna is seated by me and then Ronnie on the other end. As we are watching tv we started playing cards, at that point Joanna soft elbowed me, I continued on watching t.v. and watching them play cards, I bent over for another shot and found the opportunity to elbow her back, she then elbowed and hit my foot with her foot, I then elbowed her again and we started shoving each other little by little with our arms, the guys at that point asked if we had a problem or did we want to fight or what? We stood quiet on the couch, then when our husbands went into the kitchen, we started having words and calling each other bitch and who could kick whose ass. By the time our husbands walked back in, we were pinching each other and hair pulling our husbands broke it up and made us have a fair fight. My husband coached me for a minute and her husband coached her. They broke us up every 2 minutes. We fought each other with all the fight we had, this continued over the years at least 1 a month until her husband passed on and then my husband passed on. It was apparent we did not like each other and we enjoyed fighting one another. She moved to another State and we did not communicate, but if I would see her again again I would kick her ass. Most of our fights ended up in draws. I kicked her ass a few times.