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Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?

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Offline Jillsbelly

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Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?
« on: December 11, 2012, 09:35:38 PM »
Am I alone? or do other women get so turned on when losing a fight. I know I am submissive mostly but why does being scared and losing, getting hurt and beat up make me so excited? Hair pulling and choking excite me so much, being punched also hurts but why does it feel good?  If you hurt me and scare me, punch me, beat me up guys like it. but I kinda like it too...  weird..

any others feel that way?  also big question is:  Do some girls lose on purpose?  Or submit and rather lose a fight?

Jill
« Last Edit: December 12, 2012, 09:10:13 PM by BigDevil- »

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Offline RedEnforcer

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Re: Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?
« Reply #1 on: December 12, 2012, 09:40:46 PM »
Here's hoping someone answers you.
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Offline caryn1

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Re: Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?
« Reply #2 on: December 13, 2012, 04:29:39 PM »
geting turned on while fighting is one thing but looking forward to being beaten is another story   i have heard some women get really turned on that way be it from husband or boy friend or another woman  i have lost my share never liked being beaten up or looked forward to it at all  but to each his/her own  if you need someone to help you feel good about being beaten let me know
to my regrets i have had to give up real fights because of injury

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Re: Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?
« Reply #3 on: December 16, 2012, 06:20:28 AM »
Different strokes for different folks. I had two girlfriends, and incidentally they were both nurses, who enjoyed the same thing as you describe, though one was more inclined just to want to get slapped and thrown around, the other one was really into the darker side of getting beaten up and worked over which it did turn her on, and I will attest to that for sure, though I don't pretend to fully understand the dynamics that make that work for her. She always worried me a little bit, though now, I wouldn't mind see her taking a brutalizing for the team. Both of them were into having other women beat them up.

On the flip side of that I have had girlfriends who would have found wanting to get beaten up seriously warped and not like the idea of getting scratch on their bodies let alone a fist.

I believe it may come down to how one is brought up, and the experiences that one has had that would make one feel sexually aroused by being beaten up... I would say that some people like you definitely find arousal with getting beaten up, or truly wanting to and probably a lot of women do not readily admit it, because they are maybe too worried, as usual, of what other people may think, or even in consideration of their safety? My question back to you is why certain women who are into being beaten want other women to beat them up? The only thing I can guess is that it is more humiliating for them and they like that? Maybe there is no one answer, or it is different for everyone. We do hear you how ever it works!     


 

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Re: Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?
« Reply #4 on: December 19, 2012, 05:32:55 PM »
I agree with moaner.  Being submissive is a matter of personnality;  Are you comfortable with it or not, that is something you must ask..and if you can't answer, maybe you should clear it out.
What i think is, every fantasy is acceptable as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.
Now, I also know for being a Domme during a few years, that fantasies can change and even the one who claims to be a strict Domme can have a submissive part. 
And I saw patented jobbers who won fights  and dommed their victims as well as if they were Dommes...
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Re: Why does losing a fight turn me on so much?
« Reply #5 on: December 31, 2012, 11:54:21 PM »
Interesting observations Jill. And as they say, there are two angles to every fight.As for me, I find that I'm excited by the winner of the fight.It's a turn on for me to see a girl victorious after an evenly matched hard fought catfight. After all, the purpose of the fight is to establish once and for all who used their wits, strengths and skills to emerge the winner.