[justcatz0829]

I am positive that this has likely been asked already.  I'm relatively new and there are 128 topics on this category alone, much less the rest of the site. So, needless to say digging though all of it, even with a search option, will be a pain in the ass.  That and I'm sure there is some new female blood since the last time this might have been asked too.  Anyways, what is it about being in a "catfight" that attracts you to it?  What conditions do you really enjoy the most?  Do you think the attraction to it is more common than most of us would think?  Lastly, can you usually tell if another woman would be interested in the subject or is it a completely obtuse guessing game?  Thanks in advance for your valued responses.

[mauler maureen]

Hmmm! I wouldn't say that I was "attracted" to catfighting. I think human nature and basic instincts took over the first time I had a catfight with another woman. I just happened to walk in on my husband and a new neighbor while she was busy blowing him in my own home. It was actually my husband that had the "attraction" to me catfighting. I was astonished when he made no attempt to break us apart as we tore off one another's clothes and began to attack eachothers most sensitive body parts right there in front of him. He merely sat on the sofa and jerked off watching us fight. When I glanced over and laid eyes on his massive erection, I was reminded of what I was fighting for. We've been married 30+ years now, and my catfighting still gets the same reaction from him, and that's what "attracts" me.

[justcatz0829]

Thanks for the response Stacy.  So you're saying that your interest is mostly generated from your competitive nature and discipline background?  Can you expand on your bikini preference a little?  Is it the idea of the image of both of your mostly exposed bodies struggling against each other, the skin contact, combination..etc?  That is very interesting that your body being exposed automatically puts you into competition.

As my profile explains, I find it nearly impossible to find people with similar interests for the simple reason that it isn't generally acceptable by social standards to just go around asking people if they are interested in wrestling someone for pleasure.  LoL.  Based on your experience with karate, would you say that it is easier to find people being a part of the competitive fighting community?

And thanks again for your response.

[justcatz0829]

@Maureen:  So for you, it was completely a matter of incidental circumstance?  Finding yourself in that position, that fight that ensued, and everything else that happened got you into it because you realized how much it turned your husband on?  And from there you just continued doing it because the response you got turned you on, not so much the altercation itself?  That is very interesting. 

[mauler maureen]

@Maureen:  So for you, it was completely a matter of incidental circumstance?  Finding yourself in that position, that fight that ensued, and everything else that happened got you into it because you realized how much it turned your husband on?  And from there you just continued doing it because the response you got turned you on, not so much the altercation itself?  That is very interesting. 

   That'a a yes. Basically, I love my husband and will do anything to please him, and that includes putting my womanhood on the line against another female.

[justcatz0829]

I have never been in a spur-of-the-moment real catfight, but I have had three arranged catfights with rules.  It all started out with a wrestling match I had a few years ago. The next time we met we decided to add some catfight tactics such as hairpulling and slaps.  That definitely added another dimension and level of competitiveness.  Yes, the husbands like it as well, but I enjoy the competitive one-on-one competition.  It is quite the rush!

Thanks for the response CFsupporter.  So you liked the added level of competitiveness?  Also, do you have an attire preference like Stacy, or not really?

[justcatz0829]

Bikini preference.  I've mostly fought in string bikinis.  I own several so ia have a choice.  Once fought in a micro keenie.  I've never had a spur of the moment fight either.  The competition comes from being in the bikini and competing for the attention of the guys in the room. And, it gives me an added rush to put my body on the line again another in physical competition. 

So, definitely controlled situations then.  What are the most aggressive rules that you've ever competed with?  If you don't mind me asking.  So you did you like the micro keenie more than full bikini's?  I ask that because I imagine that during the fight it probably failed to cover much of anything and I know some women have an issue with just going full out nude.

[justcatz0829]

 [/quote]   That'a a yes. Basically, I love my husband and will do anything to please him, and that includes putting my womanhood on the line against another female.
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Well, I'm sure you get this a lot on here Maureen, but he is a lucky man.  Especially considering that this all happened after getting caught getting a bj...LoL  A lot of women wouldn't be as forgiving, much less be inclined to indulge fantasies.  LoL.  I have expressed my interest with what's now my ex-wife (not why she's my ex now either, LoL) and other girl friends before.  The issue that each of them had was being shy about either their bodies or being involved with another woman (not me, of course, but them).  Basically, they could only envision be comfortable doing it with their best of friends which was extremely unlikely to happen.  Strangers were definitely out of the question.

[mauler maureen]

   That'a a yes. Basically, I love my husband and will do anything to please him, and that includes putting my womanhood on the line against another female.
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Well, I'm sure you get this a lot on here Maureen, but he is a lucky man.  Especially considering that this all happened after getting caught getting a bj...LoL  A lot of women wouldn't be as forgiving, much less be inclined to indulge fantasies.  LoL.  I have expressed my interest with what's now my ex-wife (not why she's my ex now either, LoL) and other girl friends before.  The issue that each of them had was being shy about either their bodies or being involved with another woman (not me, of course, but them).  Basically, they could only envision be comfortable doing it with their best of friends which was extremely unlikely to happen.  Strangers were definitely out of the question.
[/quote]    Well, maybe I am forgiving to a fault, but I have to confess, it makes me horny knowing that my husband is sexually desired by so many other women, both young and old. Lucky (his name , by the way) is an attractive and charismatic man, and women are naturally attracted to him. Is it his fault that I end up fighting for him on so many occasions? Maybe a little, but not completely.

[mauler maureen]

Fanatic, I don't relish the idea of sharing him. I tried that with Dee once and it didn't work out. We practically fought the whole time. I'll fight any other woman he wants to see me fight.

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

Hmmm... What attracts me.  Well let's see.  I fight in a bikini.  Mostly. Lol.  And to expose my body like that automatically puts me in competition with another woman.  And if I can beat her, .... And be considered sexier.  To me it's a turn on.  

Are you saying that beating another woman in a fight means you will be considered sexier than her?

If so, you must not have seen the many posts here by guys who fantasize about making love to their wife/girlfriend after watching her lose a fight.
Or all those threads dedicated to the "jobbers" - women who make careers out of being beaten up by other women on film. They seem to have at least as many fans in the catfight/wrestling industry as the tough girls who dish out the beatings.

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

Good point.  No.  I prob should have worded that differently.  If I'm considered sexier that's great.  Even though I know it's a matter of opinion.  And to win is thrilling as well.  To lose is very intrigueing too.

  You can lose the battle and still win the war.