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Watching with girlfriend/wife/significant other

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Offline wm1776

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Watching with girlfriend/wife/significant other
« on: January 12, 2014, 03:52:20 AM »
I've noticed some people have said they watch catfight videos with their girlfriends or wives.  I was wondering how they broke the news to their wives/gfs that they enjoyed watching and were aroused by catfights?  How did the wive/gf initially respond?  Did it take some time for them to get acclimated with their husband/boyfriend's fetish?  It's very  interesting to me that a person's significant other would sit down and watch these videos together.

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Offline blilly2

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Re: Watching with girlfriend/wife/significant other
« Reply #1 on: January 12, 2014, 07:05:23 AM »
Well the main thing I'd consider before breaking the news to my gf is to consider if she is a fan of competitive forms of fighting in general like boxing, wrestling, etc. If not then determine if she has ever felt in the slightest way aroused when beating another woman at anything and proving herself to be the better woman. U have to examine the nature of fighting and the greater meaning of what it embodies and find out if your lady is into things like general fight sports, intamacy of some sort with the same sex, competitive nature and things like that and present it to her based on the greater meaning of competition, sport, dominance, and then sexuality (don't start with the sexual arousal u get from catfights, make her see the deeper picture first and have her see it and love it for the same reasons u do. Don't just connect her eyes to it, connect her mind and sensual passion to it).

I know how scary it can be to present this to a spouse. My girl was indeed a wrestler in highschool, but it was just a sport to her and she didn't do it for the greater meaning of the sport she did it simply becuz it was the one sport she picked up as easy as walking and she had the perfect body for it. But at the same time she was always a total square when it came to our relationship. She was so jealous when I even said hello to another woman, and as far as sex she was so traditional and closed minded it made me sick. But one day I noticed she loved watching  boxing and wresting, and she loved watching me train my body for martial arts, so I taught her the greater meaning of fight sports from the spiritual, competetive, and maetaphysical side and explained the sensual side as a biproduct of my love for fight between two well matched opponents, and not only did I get her to be cool with watching it wit me, we both trained together and started finding other couples right in the gym I trained with to have private sessions. not only did both our fighting skills take off but so did both of our sexual apetetites and experiences.

Good luck bro, just be cool and find a way to take what she likes and connect to what u love
"the goal of martial combat is not winning a contest but destroying an opponent" (Mike Tyson)

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Offline Horny-Jew

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Re: Watching with girlfriend/wife/significant other
« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2014, 05:09:53 AM »
I would suggest the guys tell their wife/girlfriend that he gets aroused when the women rip each other clothes off, seeing catfights in mud, oil, jello, etc,...as opposed to any real competition, which I (as a man) do not like women actually hurting each other.

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Offline JT Edson

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Re: Watching with girlfriend/wife/significant other
« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2014, 11:48:17 AM »
I surprised the first time I saw my then wife, Tammy, get into a violent cat fight with one of her sorriety sisters at a reunion over an old boyfriend.  Tammy won the fight.  But we were all asked to leave.  So 3 other couples went with us to one of Tammy's friend's homes and the ladies would cat fight for the rest of the night.  Settling old grudges.  After Tammy and I split up she started cat fighting with my current girlfriend Sherry every chance they get.

I would love to hear more details about the reunion fight(s).