[AmerKeith]

I am sure what I am about to ask is like someone asking whether or not unicorns exist but I was unsure where to stary and this being the only forum I am familiar with I figured I would start here so hopefully someone can offer some advice or guidance as to the right direction I can go.

I am a male and recently had the absolute pleasure of coming into contact with a female "friend" who just so happens to share in my particular interests. As our relationship has evolved we know find ourselves at dead end and uncertain where to go...hence what brings me here. We are looking for mixed erotic fighting groups or other like minded couples who may also share in our particular interests. Mostly submission style wrestling with erotic twists and stipulations in place.

If anyone can offer any advice or guidance I would GREATLY appreciate it. Feel free to pm me or reply via this thread!

[polarbear]

hopefully this place will be a good way for you to find what you're looking for.  my suggestion would be also trying out the voice verified group on yahoo. 

[hime]

Hello Keith
I do not know if I am the right person to advise you. I am currently in the same situation. Here are my thoughts. Please be aware though, I come from a very different cultural and social upbringing from yours as I come from a much more conservative society and my suggestions may be trivial to you.
I think the key here is to discuss your fantasies beforehand, but always to let her take charge at her own pace. Be the actor in the movie and not the director, even if it does not fulfill your fantasies 100%. This will bring you closer and guarantee that she never feels demeaned. Your relationship is a lot more important than the fetishes. If you direct, she may feel objectified and will sour your relationship. Always let her choose the partners (both male and female). Don't post her photos or ask permission to do so. You can suggest her to upload photos and its up to her if she does or not.
Regarding contacting people, this site has plenty of people and a verified thread run by Clarice. There is the Voice verified Group on Yahoo. But, you have to decide your own trust protocol.
Congrats again on having a partner who shares in your interests. Once you choose partners, one way would be to go for a wrestling match only for the first time. You can always meet later if all of you enjoy it to take things further.