I want to make sure we, (my wife and I) understand the rules......
People are allowed to post a false ad on this board in hopes of catching a woman/couple off guard in order to make contact with them. Is that what you're telling me, nutmeg?
When that person calls and ask to speak to the woman/wife/person looking for competition.... They are allowed to make demands of the woman whose looking for a match, (AFTER IT'S BEEN CLEARLY STATED VIA SEVERAL EMAILS) what the couple is and isn't into? I have the text messages still on my phone and emails if you would like to dig deeper into this?
I called this particular person out as others have done before me due to the fact that he's collecting photos and then not being upfront and honest about his intentions.
We RESPECT everyone on this site whose upfront with us and we will talk with people who share our interests, (no matter if their partner is into this or not). This is something that ALL can enjoy as long as everyone is HONEST and doesn't have a shady agenda.
I understand that you can't police everyone and that's why it's important to police one another in situations such as this. We believe that if someone has a, "Twisted Agenda," it's only common courtesy to inform others there's something strange and unethical going on.
PLEASE, don't take my reply as being combative however, just sharing our experience on a particular situation where the person what eager to set up IRL encounter without providing the proof that everything was legit. If we were young and naive, (not taking proper steps) then this could've ended up being a waste of time or something far more worse.
In the future, we, (Mel and I) will just turn a blind eye a not say anything...... That seems like the logical answer.
I do have a simple solution to the CATFIGHT CONNECTION BOARD... Why doesn't the moderator of the site require those who want to post, (looking for IRL matches), "Voice Verify" before a post is allowed to be made? This could help make meeting other IRL members easier and safe and detour someone creating random post in order to obtain photos, phone numbers, etc., etc.
- BILL