Nothing really "made me" I was a dancer while my then bf/fiancé was serving our country (had to eat) any way after doing a night of oil wrestling at the club I worked at then shaving cream one of our "veteran" dancers who did the private parties and shows had a party to do her normal partner she worked with was out sick, she asked me to fill in it was good cash, we did a slow erotic wrestle gig and after she asked me if i ever used my girls to titfight , I had no real idea what it was then, she took me aside and explained it and then we met at her place to show me she was heavier up top then I was, she showed me it was a lot more than just bump and rub and that certain moves or things you can do to wear your opponent down, I was curious at first why she showed interest in me when there were plenty of girls with implants and she said for a woman who is all natural to be a full D and firm as i am was rare and i would be a threat, I lost to her nearly every time out as he showed me and my first few matches she helped me get i lost , i just didn't know the right things nor did i really take it serious, one night she arranged a tf against a red head that could have bee nay twin in stature and size and firmness i stood there facing this woman and i felt a certain unmeasurable confidence in my own figure and bust , after a VERY exhausting boob to boob match i made her give and I was elated and on cloud 9 my girl that taught me had a warm smile and from there i have made point to keep my chest ,lats,back and tummy taught and boobs as firm as i can without losing tissue to muscle and decrease size. While i have said many times here in these Q and A areas while size dos not always matter it also matters if you are matching with in your size range, this one reason I only will match a heavy firm C unto a F or FF those really larger cups may not all be firm as i am but the weight in them can ruin your day in a tf, you have t ope say fighter in any style and a tf is no different if a heavy F or H wants to "titbox" you it will hurt and could really cause internal damage like tendon tears and muscle tears, you have to make them fight your fight or may as well just hand her your bra and go home.