My new partner and I were talking of our particular kinks. As she’s into BDSM, she boasted that there’s nothing she hasn’t heard of or done.
“Catfights,” I told her. “Agonophilia, I just find fighting so erotic.”
This was a new word for her, it intrigued her. Aside from wrestling with a sub, she’d had no experience or knowledge of it all. So I sold the idea to her, using examples of sensations and practices she’s into.
I gave her a recording of a catfighting story I wrote, read by a fetish model. Her immediate response was of resentment, as she told me later. “I can read this better than that girl,” she snapped. And so she did, immeasurably better. She’s got a career in erotic recording ahead of her, we’re going to make that happen.
She already knows I’d love to see her fight and delights in playing along to it. And yet, I can’t help thinking that she never knew anything of it at all before.
Anyone else had an experience in introducing catfighting / erotic fighting to someone experienced in hard play?
