I have maybe 7 times, and have come close to trying to asking her a about it, though there sure better ways to make contact for that. it doesn't sound so exciting here in a short response but it had some charge to it IRL because you were watching the person, and at least for a short time wondering what and how it might happen. I've had one other woman tell me the same.
In the mid-1970s, when suburban muggings (or worse) of women at supposedly safe places (like grocery store parking lots) were in the news, local police departments would set up courses in local gyms to teach basic self-defense/hand-to-hand combat techniques.
The last 30 minutes of class were then set aside for putting what you had learned into practice, usually by one of the cops putting on pads and a football helmet and pretend to jump you from behind, or straight at you, and seeing how you reacted.
But, what 80% of the women REALLY wanted to do was to pair off and put what they had learned to the test against EACH OTHER.
The best 'bouts', some of which would last 10 minutes or even longer, were between women who each thought they could take each other, but became angry as they learned that they were actually equally matched.
By the end of the bout, both professional AND amateur/'street' tactics were being used by one or both women.
