[cooper4]

So, I was wondering if anyone from this site has ever had a hand in instigating a fight between two friends or girls they knew , who didn't like each other...for purely selfish reasons.

[cooper4]

Personally, I haven't had a hand in instigating a fight between two girls. 
However, one of my g/f mentioned when she was younger, two of her friends she knew didn't like each other, so whenever she got the opportunity when she spoke too one of them separately she steered the conversation toward the other girl trash-talking her...

It brewed for a couple of months til finally the two of them meet in her parents basement and danced with each other...she feels bad about it also today, but she's alot older now...

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

Before I grew up and got a conscience I did help instigate a fight between an on-off girlfriend of mine and another girl with whom she had been feuding since the two of them were at school together.  The girls were around twenty years old when this happened and I was a couple of years older.

They got into a slanging match in a pub one night, trading insults and threats, and were told by the barman to either quieten down or take it outside. I think they would probably have preferred the first option, but, egged on by myself and others, including two loud mouthed older women, they opted for the second instead.

The girl I was with, whose name was Jeanette, was bigger, but had had quite a lot to drink and ended up getting the worst of it. I must have had a bit of a conscience even then, because I was the first to jump in and break it up when the other girl got her down on the ground and started roughing her up.

Afterwards, she clung on to me like a limpet and begged me to walk her home instead of going back into the pub because her blouse had been badly torn and she was embarrassed by what had happened. She ended up spending the night at my flat instead, and the fight had a strange effect on both of us.

We had been on and off for over two years, which is a long time when you are in your early twenties, and were really just seeing each other more out of habit than anything else. But after watching her fight with another girl, then feeling her cling on to me with all the emotion the fight had stirred up in her, Jeanette, to me, seemed like the sexiest thing on two legs for months afterwards. It really did feel like I was in love with her.

As for Jeanette, she seemed to regard me as some kind of hero for rescuing her when she was in trouble and never even mentioned the role I had played in dropping her in it to begin with. Maybe it was the booze, maybe selective memory. Either way, we were very happy which each other for a while.

After a couple of months though, the catfight effect wore off, we started to get bored with one another again and soon went back to being just friends.

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

I kinda wonder about those two older woman kaf lol, they sound like they were FAR from averse to a scrap! Bet they had their share lol.

I don't know, but they REALLY wanted to see the girls fight. Just as much as any of the guys, if not more so.

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

I have it on fairly good authority that girls tend to get into the fights to be sure.........

The girl Jeanette was fighting with was with a group of other girls, all around the same age, and when I pulled her off they all piled in, attacking not just me but Jeanette also, which was why she was clinging to me so tightly. Luckily, there were a few of my mates in the pub at the time so I had a bit of backup. otherwise, boxer or not, I'd have been in deep shit!

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

I was just with Jeanette but it was a pub we both went in a lot, so we knew most of the regulars and, like I said, some of them were mates of mine. It didn't take long to stop the girls from attacking me, when my mates weighed in they backed off pretty quickly and there were no guys with them so it didn't escalate from there. I'd never seen any of them in that pub before and I never saw them in there afterwards either.

A couple of weeks after this Jeanette told me that she had bumped into the girl she fought while out shopping and they had gone for a coffee, talked and decided to end the feud they'd had going for so long, so I guess some good came as a result of me instigating that fight. I mean beside the fun I had with Jeanette afterwards!

I never told her about my catfight fetish then, btw. I was very shy about it when I was younger. I found it impossible to hide my excitement whenever we spoke about the fight she'd had though, so she knew it had turned me on to some extant, but she really had no idea how much.

[1000castaway]

I tried but it never happens

[TheWatchman504]

I almost instigated one at one of my old jobs some years ago a new lady got hired now keep in mind this job is a majority of men working there with only one woman who was working there for a while. So the new girl took a liking to me and listened to a lot of what I said. I noticed that she wasn't getting along with the lady who had been there longer so I lied to her and told her she made some negative remarks about her kids. all hell broke loose from there the new girl ran up on her and  was yelling in her face nose to nose cussing her out screming things like what you wanna do bitch what you wanna do Bitch I'm right here. It was incredibly hot and I got turned on but they didnt fight though because the girl I lied on backed down and walked off maybe for her jobs sake or maybe she was scared of how angry the other girl was and wasn't prepared for a spontaenous fight so the situation ended  and I went home with a woody. lol

[DoYouKnowWhoIAm?]

Least it ended well, what were they feuding about anyway?

Probably a good thing no guys were they by the way to make it escalate, would have made the scene worse me thinks.

What you think Jeanette would have thought if you told her how into it you were?

Sorry FF, I didn't notice these last questions of yours the other night, I was busy looking at some other threads.

Jeanette told me that the other girl had accused her of spreading lies about her older sister, saying that she was a prostitute and had had an abortion, but I don't know if that was the actual cause of the feud or something that happened because of it. She also told me they had two fights at school that were both broken up quickly and that the headmaster had warned them they would be suspended if it happened again. She said that after that they stopped talking and just ignored each other and carried on that way after leaving school.

The argument in the pub started when Jeanette and I were playing pool. She suddenly said, in a voice loud enough for the other girl to hear,  “If that bitch gives me one more dirty look I'm going to smash this cue over her fucking head.”  Like I said, she was pretty drunk at the time.

I couldn't really tell her about my fetish on the night this all happened because she was crying and very emotional afterwards. You know the way females are when they have had a drink and something upsets them.  Obviously I didn't want to say anything that might cast blame on me for helping to instigate the fight, so I just did my best to soothe and comfort her, when all I really wanted was to do was get her into bed! I know that sounds cynical but that's the way it was.

After that, the longer I went without telling her, the more difficult it became. I did have plenty of opportunities though, because Jeanette herself talked about the fight a lot. She knew that talking about it turned me on, and that got her turned on too. She never actually told me this, but it was pretty obvious. So if I had told her, maybe a a week or so after it all happened, I think she would probably have been ok about it, maybe even found it exciting herself.

[leifericsson]

I haven't, but the thought has crossed my mind. It's the kind of thing I'd do without any hesitation.We all know people that we'd like to see how they would respond to such.

[speed]

You guys are bad!! I've never done it irl but that sounds like a good idea for here!

Anybody do that here? Maybe we should start a thread for this! 

 

 

Tiff, don't think for a second that if I saw you lying on the beach that I wouldn't seek out the first hot blonde I could find and tell her that you were trashing her small tits... I just couldn't help myself. Speed

[leifericsson]

I haven't, but I would. This is something women are notorious for doing.It's always good to turn the tables and have a guy instigate the fight for a change.God knows enough men have fought because of a woman