[jim2bad]

Several husbands here have posted about wives who are aware of their taste (or whatever) for women fighting.  Who else has a wife who is not aware of his liking for female violence?  And would probably be shocked and appalled by it?  My fantasies never involve my lover, and wife of 30-some years and counting.  And I don't think I would want a wife who fights for real.  I stick to the fantasy, in a sense: real fights, but no one I actually know.  I know some people may think I'm hypocritical.  I don't agree, but I wonder: am I unusual?

[Bear]

Not unusual at all.  I was married for over 30 years before my wife "discovered" my thing for women wrestling.  At first she was taken aback by the whole thing, but after an honest discussion she seemed to understand.  Weighed against the facts that I've been a good husband, a good father and a good provider made it pale by comparison.  Notice, however, that I said "understand" which is a far cry from "embracing" or wanting to know more.  As it stands, she knows, and I know that she knows.  That's pretty much the extent of it.   

[sinclairfan]

Lots of times, even after you try and explain it to a woman, she still doesn't quite "get it".

[Sandman13]

I have told several women about my fetish and there have been different reactions. Some thought it sounded cool and kinky and got into the role-playing part. A couple of others thought it was a "violence against women" thing, which I understand even though I don't agree with it. Currently I have a friend who loves it and helps me come up with plots for the stories I write (with her as the victor over girls she doesn't like). I guess it depends on the women involved whether they will get into it or be turned off by it.

[mavrint]

In my experience, which is years long and having chatted with a good many husbands about our favourite topic of women wrestling, it is not unusual for a spouse to be unaware of a liking for female violence.  At least until she figures it out or the husband confesses, which usually happens at some point. Bear's story is one I have been told numerous times.
However what is unusual is to not involve a wife in fantasies about it.  I think you may be the first husband I have encountered whom has not included his wife in his fantasies.

[Boche]

It was probably a couple of years after my husband and I had been together that I discovered that he got turned on by watching women wrestle or catfight each other.  It intrigued me to where I suggested we purchase some of the tapes from Catfight Haven and such and watch them together.  I then started making comments about how I thought I could do competing against some of those women--which really got him going.  I then surprised him one summer while we were vacationing in Florida and a local bar was hosting a jello wrestling tournament.  I decided to enter and I actually enjoyed doing it.  And, of course, he did as well. I truly believe that more women would like it as well if they would let down there barriers and do it.  There are way too many social stigmas against participating in something like this. More people need to lighten up and enjoy what life has to offer. 

It is always so refreshing to read your comments.  Thank you

[Bear]

In my experience, which is years long and having chatted with a good many husbands about our favourite topic of women wrestling, it is not unusual for a spouse to be unaware of a liking for female violence.  At least until she figures it out or the husband confesses, which usually happens at some point. Bear's story is one I have been told numerous times.
However what is unusual is to not involve a wife in fantasies about it.  I think you may be the first husband I have encountered whom has not included his wife in his fantasies.

Well, actually I have, but I've been careful not to tell her exactly who I have her matched against.  That could open up a whole new can of worms.  What I have told her is that my ultimate fantasy would be to watch her wrestle her twin sister.  She doesn't have a twin, or even a sister for that matter, but she can comfort that I've put her there on the mat, and it's a safe scenario.  And I'm not lying.  That IS my ultimate fantasy; it's just not my only one. 

[DJP60]

my x knos as I have watched many of hers

[mauler maureen]

 I was really unaware of my husband's fondness for catfighting until I had my first catfight in front of him. Let's suffice it to say I caught him in a compromising position with another female. She and I went off on one another........pulling hair, grabbing titties and pussies. Out of the corner of my eye I saw my husband jerking off as we fought. After only 5 minutes of watching us catfight, he shot a load so big I could almost hear his cock gushing cum. Later that night, as he licked my wounds, I asked him about his arousal earlier that day. He confessed to me that it was a fantasy of his since he was a young boy and seeing his own wife in a fight was the hottest thing he'd ever seen. Since that night, over 30 years ago, I have bought into his catfighting fantasy 100%. As a matter of fact, that same woman I fought that day is still a rival of mine. We've gone at one another countless times thru the years. I'm convinced that our sex-life is the greatest because I continue to feed his catfighting desires. There's actually a story of our latest fight in the story section on this forum. The Bitch's name is Dee.   

[colt 45]

I don't think your are unusual because I can't put my wife in any fantasy roles either.  She HATES my liking for catfights and thinks I'm perverted for liking them.  She know I do but from that point on, NO GO.  That we all find and outlet of some sort is the best I can find.  Ladies like Maureen and CFS are the LOved few who get it.  Enjoy as long as you can.