The obective in freestyle is to turn your opponent for a pin and the best , short term defence is to get front down on mats and give the opponent your back, which you NEVER,EVER do in grappling.
So its natural to shove your hand betwen her/his legs to try to pull up a nd then roll the defending wrestlers body by brute force. Thats perfect for a quick "oil check" on the way just to remind her you can be nasty too.
Contrary to its squeaky clean , olympic image freestyle can be very rough stuff. One of the top US olympic team women said once " its just fight isnt it"