Just curious if you have ever mentioned their ideal alpha foe to either of them? If not, the next time they bring it up trying to humiliate you, just say "Yah... you are tough as hell. One of the two toughest women I have ever fought." Of course they will ask who the other is. Tell them about the other alpha and your fight with them. Then some time down the road invite both of them over for a party at your house. Even just seeing them meet might be fun even if they don't fight. If nothing else maybe they will let off a little on mentioning your loss? Hard to bring up your loss when they haven't faced their challenger???