I am not saying that all women are turned on in the same way seeing a boxing match or wwe as we are seeing a fvf match. If you are with a woman that is turned on the same way, then you probably don't need to explain it. I think the difference is women being turned on seeing a fight is almost sanctioned by society. I have been to a few boxing matches and you will see mom next door types cheering on fighters like it was a mad max movie. Nobody is offended or horrified by it. There may be a few knowing smiles around her, but that is about it. Not all women are turned on like that or as excited. But many are. You see kind of the same thing with a bar fight. Even if it is two women fighting you almost always hear the women cheering louder than the guys. They may not be turned on, but they are definitely excited. Again, I think it is something left over from caveman days where the strongest got the mates. Both male and female. But our society has put on the message that women don't fight and men do for a very very long time. And it is wrong for men to be turned on by women fighting, but OK for women to be turned on. Why do you think the WWE has such handsome good looking guys? Do you think that is for us? Or for their female fans? What is interesting is that the last 40 years there has been a blurring of the lines. There is a good chunk of our society that say men fighting is barbaric (anti-football, anti-hockey, anti-boxing, etc.) and anybody that likes it is a fool or dullard. At the same time another chunk is good with women fighting. In many of the youtube video's the women meet in an arranged fight with a large crowd cheering them on and straight up brawl like guys. Nobody is saying they are unlady like or telling them to stop. If anything they are yelling that pulling hair is unfair. I have seen police reports that show female violent crime is skyrocketing. And in many ways passing up the male violence. You are also seeing it in the action movies from Hollywood. Women fighting in the movies is almost common. They generally aren't fighting each other, but a single hot 120 lbs women is clearing a room full of muscle bound combat ready guys. Occasionally it is now the climax of the movie to have the show down between the two super chicks. Which is why you are seeing almost no messy wrestling or foxy boxing at the bars. It is too common now and therefore not titillating enough to bring in crowds. Maybe it is affecting the size of our group as well. As it is no longer taboo, it looses its power??? At least that is my theory.
