[catfightlover40]

Hello all,

I've searched the forum before starting this topic as I didn't want a double post regarding the subject, but I'm looking for input from others concerning if they experienced what I have (and don't wish again) or what their limitations are to avoid such pratfalls.

I've had 2 long term girlfriends, both of whom were attracted to catfights on some level, a thing I considered myself lucky for, as life would have it however, for two opposing reasons. My first girlfriend had a healthy self respect and esteem, her feeling of having a superior position toward others was based on previous experience, and not mere hubris. Now my second girlfriend on the other hand... the same fiery passion for keeping what's hers, except her fuel was jealousy, supplied by low self worth (she was practically jealous of every woman).

I'm fairly certain that I went wrong blindly accepting her whims in exchange for fantasies, but I'm interested if others had encountered this, meaning you'd have done in my place, with emphasis on if there are limitations to catfight fantasy (at the expense of other parts of our lives).

[daz]

Interesting.  Not sure if we are coming from the same diection but only one of my patners knew of my interest.   She got turned on, not by the idea of the fight but of being the inferior woman.   Her fantasy was being forced to admit the other woman was better.   The irony of course being that she was the girl who got me. 

[catfightlover40]

Interesting.  Not sure if we are coming from the same diection but only one of my patners knew of my interest.   She got turned on, not by the idea of the fight but of being the inferior woman.   Her fantasy was being forced to admit the other woman was better.   The irony of course being that she was the girl who got me.

For the purposes of sites likes these, I'm  unabashed to admit attraction to catfights is an intrinsic part of me, which is only acceptable to some women, so many of course don't know about it. My issue was that in a fantasy setting, hearing her wishing to do this or that was hot, until it spilled over into reality and started to take the form of (fortunately only verbal) threats, in a sharp contrast with my other girlfriend who always chose her battles.

I'm mainly interested in knowing if others had stuck around longer, bailed early or would have seen it as a red flag from the get go even though their fetish needs were met. Also, she wanted a relationship, so the "then just be on no strings attached" was not an option.