The web can be a great tool, but your worse nightmare, I am sure many have chatted, used personals, fetish sights what have you to arrange real meet to have a match, I use to myself, the problem is you never know what your really going to get when you show up in person, I have had everything from men dressed as women to women who want to be beat up, and a couple worse then that, your best method is start with a session Fighter, meet prospective women after arrange between yourselves that after a match and become “ friends” you pass each other’s name on to anyone you know and trust, it is called referrals and it might take a bit longer to build a list but you are guaranteed quality matches and real friends can build from it.