To be honest I think the breakup probably is their private information, JJ at that time seemed to be a mover and a shaker in the private catfight world and Mary was bold enough to basically be the first poster women...They brought private cat fighting between couples to the public view . Mary did many matches week after week. I remember one time in the course of two weeks I think she did five matches all of which were posted with complete picture sets. In the real world she was a very professional woman, seemed incredibly caring, and I believe tried to mentor many beginning individuals in this sport. Some of her matches were extremely tough and others were not . I can attest to the fact that if she realized her skills were Superior to the other person she would dumb her game down so the other couple had an enjoyable match as well.... As in most break ups I presume there were rough patches —I had talked to her after her break up and she seem to have moved on as most people do when the relationship fails. Personally I found the several times that I was in her company to be enjoyable and relaxing. She is a wonderful person and I hope that she’s doing well with all of her endeavors