Also while I’m sure you guys would love to hear over the tannoy “Catfight is aisle 6, security to catfight in aisle 6”. Honestly to be involved in such a public display would make most girls hearts sink, it would be humiliating and it would be the kind of event that would stick with you and potentially haunt you for life.
Still this is just my opinion and who knows…maybe Emma will tell me I’m completely wrong?
You hit the nail right on the head there Kate. While seeing her at the grocery store would definitely piss me off to no end, I also would be pissed off if I got evicted from said grocery store for fighting. I know it is every man's fantasy to see a public brawl between women but most women (the sensible ones) know there is a time and a place for everything. And in the middle of a grocery store, while I'm shopping no less, is not the place. More often it will be done in private with no or only a few witnesses. While fighting and wrestling make up a fair part of my life, I also know not to let it ruin the rest of it.
Well Emma,
Personally I prefer no witnesses, I have this I guess old fashioned view that a catfight should really just be a woman to woman affair. I always leave the men at home, as if you let a man watch you catfight once. It won’t be long until he’s pestering you for round 2. As for us girls, we can make even worse witnesses and we have a really bad habit in my experience of prematurely intervening and nothing annoys me more than a catfight being interrupted.
Also catfights are honestly not easy to arrange, maybe it’s my fault
But on those rare occasions I actively participate in arranging one, there is always weeks worth of arguing and name calling before the two of us have a meaningful conversation where details are finally agreed.
Xoxo
Kate
