[Olga]

I think Sasha and Kate would be perfect rivals. One has a pride that won't let her back down, the other has a stubbornness that won't let her back down. It turns out that you are hostages to your own qualities. No one will back down, simply because they won't back down. I don't know which of you two would win, but the fight would be uncompromising.

[Alix_Fights]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

First of all, don't call me a bitch.   

Second of all, any boss suggesting a fight as a means to secure a promotion would be fired from any legitimate company.  If it were two exotic dancers or sex workers, yeah, I suppose that might happen.

My boyfriend has told me that he would love to see me in a fight, but wouldn't want for me to get hurt.  It's a great topic for foreplay and works really well for us  , but not realistic as the other girl and I would get hurt, so it's a fantasy of his, separating the spectacle from the consequences.

So for me the answer is no, I would not fight for his (or any man's) entertainment, and can't imagine any circumstance that would cause me to realistically change my mind IRL.

What's wrong with you? He'll fire you and sue you. I was asking about something completely different. Would you agree to such terms? What happens to the boss depends on what he's the boss of. It's unlikely that anyone would suggest such a way to get a promotion to clerks or factory workers. I could name industries where this is entirely possible. But that's not the point.
Let me repeat, I am talking about those situations when you are offered to fight voluntarily, and not forced to do so by threats or blackmail.

What's wrong with me, what's wrong with YOU!  If you do such a thing, he now has control over you, and what's to prevent him to do similar things in the future, always proposing that for some reward that you fight another girl 'voluntarily'.  The situations which you describe (fighting for a promotion, fighting to get hired) would not get me fired or sued, but it might get him fired or demoted because he is being manipulative and serving his own needs and not the company's needs.  Maybe it's different in Russia.

You misunderstood me. I was suggesting we discuss your actions in this situation, not whether the proposal itself is legal or what the possible consequences might be.

And yes, in Russia everything is different 

You responded to Kate on this topic, and mentioned a ticket to a concert of your favorite artist or some thing that you really want to possess. or a man has something that you really want, and he is willing to give it to you if you win over another girl who also really wants to get this thing.  That is totally different from a case where the man is your boss or potential boss.  I would totally fight over Taylor Swift tickets!     There'd be no long term angle for him to get me to fight again, unless he had something special that I really wanted.

Fighting over Taylor Swift tickets

Ew….Alix! You’re so trashy and have zero taste 

Xoxo
Kate

Say that to my face, Kate, you brunette, trashy skank, and I'll send you home with your hair in a bag!

[Capguy]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn’t want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

[_Ruslana_]

How about we take this discussion in a slightly different direction and give our thoughts about when we would fight for our man?

For me there really is only one, maybe two scenarios (But scenario number two is a huge maybe).

Scenario One:

Another woman keeps propositioning your man. Your man has behaved impeccably and politely declined her advances more than once and he has been honest and kept you in the loop as to what she has been doing. The first time may of been an honest mistake, being charitable a second time might be down to our man being clumsy with his words and not spelling out he is taken. A third time? Well at this point me and her absolutely will be having a little private girl talk! And if the other woman in this scenario was known to me and I knew; she knew he was taken? Then of course there are no warnings. She has made a declaration of war and I happily accept!

Scenario Two:

Some bitch, probably at his work place is using her position to make his life a living hell. He is doing what he can while working under the confines of office politics. He approaches me and asks for my support and assistance. This is tricky, you can’t just pick a fight with your man’s boss. Maybe at a workplace event you can get an opportunity to speak with her woman to woman? Maybe a mutual agreement to discuss things further in more suitable setting can be agreed? Or perhaps the real answer here is that beyond love and support, a catfight with his boss would be useless. As honestly is his situation realistically going to improve if I kick his bitch bosses ass?

Oh one final caveat: In either scenario my man would be left at home, as personally inviting him to watch is indulgent and distasteful. Well at least for me

So have I missed anything girls?

Xoxo
Kate

In the first scenario, I would have a conflict with this bitch after her first attempt to flirt with my man. And I would have easily gone into a fight against her.
In the second scenario, I would act in such a way that my conflict against this bitch would not create problems at work for my boyfriend. If I was absolutely sure that my conflict against this bitch would not create problems for my boyfriend, then I would escalate the conflict against this bitch.

[Olga]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn’t want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

[caryn1]

i do not mind if my boyfriend has sets up or suggest i fight someone but it has to be on my terms
i am not into boxing in anyway  nor into broken bones or blood i do not mind punch just not to the face  nor or nails rt biting there either  anyplace is ok
if she has a problem then there will be no fight

[Capguy]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn’t want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

Great.  Congratulations.  How did the girl you beat respond?  You and her ever talk about it?  Did the guy who set it up cheer for either of you, or try to hit on you after?  On other thing - howdid you win?  Did she submit?  To what hold?

[Alexandra X]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn’t want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

The blonde has a great ass 

[Olga]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn’t want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

Great.  Congratulations.  How did the girl you beat respond?  You and her ever talk about it?  Did the guy who set it up cheer for either of you, or try to hit on you after?  On other thing - howdid you win?  Did she submit?  To what hold?

It was just a friendly fight. We weren't trying to kill each other  There's not much to describe. We were wrestling on the ground. The usual sweaty, close-quarters brawl. I prefer standing fights. I don't like ground fighting. But I do have some favorite techniques for the ground game. The guillotine, the triangle, several choke variations. My favorite is the armbar. I know many ways to get into this hold. In this fight, the victory condition was to force my opponent to submit five times. I submitted her at least three times using an armbar.

The men watched our struggle in silence, not encouraging anyone, so as not to spoil their relationships. They only applauded when one of us executed a successful technical move.
We have a great relationship with this girl, she just knows for sure that I am stronger than her.
But the man who provoked us is a real dog (chases after every skirt). I don't date guys like that.

[man-of-sea]

I would think it. true that the premise "A fight at the whim of a man" is true look at all the MMA and UFC franchises which are predominantly male ownership and dictates women to fight to the benefit of lining the owners pocket book and to give the mostly male crowd entertainment.     

[Alexandra X]

I would think it. true that the premise "A fight at the whim of a man" is true look at all the MMA and UFC franchises which are predominantly male ownership and dictates women to fight to the benefit of lining the owners pocket book and to give the mostly male crowd entertainment. 

You're right. This is not only UFC and MMA, but also mud wrestling, topless wrestling, foxy boxing. Everything, one way or another, serves to entertain men. At least that's how it was initially.

[Capguy]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn’t want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

Great.  Congratulations.  How did the girl you beat respond?  You and her ever talk about it?  Did the guy who set it up cheer for either of you, or try to hit on you after?  On other thing - howdid you win?  Did she submit?  To what hold?

It was just a friendly fight. We weren't trying to kill each other  There's not much to describe. We were wrestling on the ground. The usual sweaty, close-quarters brawl. I prefer standing fights. I don't like ground fighting. But I do have some favorite techniques for the ground game. The guillotine, the triangle, several choke variations. My favorite is the armbar. I know many ways to get into this hold. In this fight, the victory condition was to force my opponent to submit five times. I submitted her at least three times using an armbar.

The men watched our struggle in silence, not encouraging anyone, so as not to spoil their relationships. They only applauded when one of us executed a successful technical move.
We have a great relationship with this girl, she just knows for sure that I am stronger than her.
But the man who provoked us is a real dog (chases after every skirt). I don't date guys like that.

Sound like a great match.  I would have loved to see it.  Just a couplemore questions please.  How long were you wrestling?  You said you got 5 submissions from her.  Did she get any?  Were you ever worried she might take you in front of the guys?

[NekoKitsune]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

[Olga]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

A very practical approach   

[Alexandra X]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

A very practical approach

What about you? Would you fight over a handsome millionaire?