Discussed with your significant other?

[Anthony__]

I brought it up a few years ago and it went SUPER well She's not into actually having a match at her age but we role play it and have lots of fun together with the subject even watching videos together time to time.

[panoskl2003]

She found out in our first time of our relationship about my fetish and her first reaction was "why are you looking at other women, I can do this too" but later I discovered that it was just a punchline.
But after our marriage and as I was keep looking at the internet about fem fights, I had the chabce to get her in a tournament that took place in marathon-greece and even though she didn't like catfights, she was impressed by some wrestlers there. So I persuaded her to try for me and she did. My avatar photo says it all...
That was about 10 years ago

[Cf_Jam]

t has never been a serious or direct discussion on this topic in my case and I fear that if I bring this up, first of all she may not relate to it and be dismissive or she might just force me to get away with this unusual kink.

My partner has seen me enjoy female wrestling matches but that was taken as more of a sports love coupled with manly lust for seeing female bodies with less clothing. While she has an aura that is competitive and she does feel tension around certain women, she is not at all aggressive and a gentle lady. Also she has very minimal social engagements and hardly there is anybody I could think of that can be a competitive rival for her. Perhaps I have jokingly brought up things about her losing her patience and getting physical with other women but she never reacts much to it. Infact I would never want her to get into any fight as well knowing that when it comes to physical strength required she is amongst the weakest. But even as a fantasy discussion she never seems to be responsive or thrilled and that's why I feel if I ever seriously bring this up I might end up complicating things between us.

[F4UCORSAIR]

I brought up the idea of female fighting years ago and the idea was well received. My wife did engage me in the fetish and even in some IRL matches, but it really was my fetish not hers. 

[supermoon]

Just curious...how many of you guys have actually discussed with your wife/GF your desire to see them in an arranged match?

I'm curious about this too. I have a feeling not many people are comfortable bringing up something like that with their partners.

[chrisstevens]

My first wife had no interest in fighting but did indulge me with stories. My 2nd wife would have fought if we could have found another woman around her stats and age, and was a novice like her, but it never happened. She is 74yo now and still looks quite fit but it would be hard at that age probably for 2 women to fight. If anyone would like to chat about matures catfighting or just catfighting in general, i am on trillian, i am on as 'chrisstevens60' and i am in the uk.

[chrisstevens]