Hey guys, not sure if you guys have read my posts reguarding my lover Tina vs her sister Nancy, but to make a long story short my poor Tina got humilated in both the first fight and the rematch and she's been in a terrible mental state ever since despite getting better physically.
She's been pretty much constantly depressed since the last fight. She does what she needs to in order to get through the day, but virtually all of her free time is spent depressed/crying over her loss. No matter what I do or say she just can't seem to shake what happened to her in her last fight.
Worst part is she won't talk to me about it at all. She completely shut down mentally when I try to talk to her. I even tried a romantic get away last weekend, but it did nothing to help. She was so reserved and distant the entire weekend.
We have't even been intimate since the fight. She bearly lets let kiss her, let alone anything related to sex or sex itself.
Has anyone delt with anything like from this their significant other after they lost a fight?
I know their are quite a few ladies on this site, some that I'm sure must have lost a fight or two at least. Is this type of thing normal after a fight? How did you guys feel after a loss? Especially if it was in front of your significant other...
It almost seems like the only way she'll get her confidence back in general is if she gets a win under her belt, but I'd hate to subject her to another fight. Maybe against a pushover opponent that I know she can get an easy win off of? I don't want it to sound like like I want to throw her back into a fight because I really don't, but I've tried talking to a few friends thtat I know fight and they said they normally feel like they need to avenge themselves after a loss to get over it. Could this be the same type of deal?