I don't have a first. I have always been excited by catfights. I don't know why, but I'll give you an example.
most people see two cute models. I wonder what would happen if they got hold of each others hair. I found this on a blog a while back and could not forget about it. When I read the title of this thread I wanted to participate but...as I said I don't have an aha moment, and felt I had nothing to contribute to the discussion. But how many of you wondered which model would come out on top at the end of a long sweaty hairpulling match?
It isn't a fetish exactly, fetish infers an object, a talisman. I've read it is a paraphilia. I can't agree with the definition of paraphilia, as I said I have always found female fighting a thrill, my fascination predates sexual ideas. I've tried to understand it but cannot.