Personally, I find hairpulling to be a very sexy part of a fight or even wrestling match. There's something very exciting about two women locking into each others' hair as a means of struggling for control of the situation. It's exclusively feminine, and I love it.
Leave the martial arts, the punching, the kicking, the blood, alone. I don't enjoy watching two women fight like men. Others do, I don't. Give me an old style movie catfight or a modern, competitive wrestling match (with hairpulling) anyday!