[Horny-Jew]

Of course, catfights are a sexual fetish. I find real catfights very disturbing and am totally against them.

[not-quite-shy angie]

For me this is my secret dirty fantasy where I can do all sorts of wild stuff that I'd never dream of doing irl.  So no I don't talk about it to my rl friends.

[krispin]

Sorry my english isn't good.

I love only fantasy catfights, not real catfights.

About hiding frome others. For many years I thought it was a strange fetish and I was ashamed of it. Internet opened a world. Now I know there are a lot of people with the same fetish. But I donì't share it with nobody I know. Also with my wife. I'm not sure about her reaction. Why I should take the risk?

[daveboxfan]

We have public life as well so discreection is preferred.

[aniani]

@ krispin. >> If u become 'turn on' by catfights then, how can you get sexually satisfied without telling it to your wife?


@ Others. >> Is "Loving hair pulling catfights" a crime? Why sexual partner react so much, that some afraid even of divorce?

[cjsteph8029]

yes i do

[Luckyman]

An interesting question, and the answer for me is it's mainly a secret I keep to myself. My wife knew about my fetish before we got married (it's why I refer to myself as "Luckyman.")  One day she asked me what sexual fantasies I had and what turned me on.  She asked me this because her mother suggested it, believe it or not.  (I have the greatest mother-in-law in the world).  She asked to see my secret stash of porn and I showed her two VCR tapes, one of Danni Ashe and a black woman boxing in slow motion, and a typical bloody JR Rolen tape of women boxing.  She said that although it wasn't her thing she could live with it.  The three things she said she couldn't stand were pedophiles, rapists, and cross-dressers.  The thought of someone trying on her clothes really disgusted her for some reason.  While we were still attending the university twice she invited girlfriends over to wrestle while I "secretly" watched from another room.  What I thought would really turn me on did not.  For one, it was obvious the matches were scripted and that the other girl knew I was there.  The only thing I found sexy was the girl who won the match over my wife-to-be and sort of strutted around, showing off like she was offering herself to me.  I didn't like other girls on campus knowing about my fetish and I told my wife-to-be to stop.  That was the extent of my IRL involvement with catfighting until a few months ago.  About a year ago my wife started taking kick-boxing lessons at our gym and really liked it.  The instructor there would hold live matches between members who agreed.  But as the fighters almost always wore sweats or jumpsuits and used headgear, there was no sexual element in it for me.  I enjoyed watching my wife fight, but my catfighting fetish was satisfied by purchasing videos or downloading clips from the Internet.  Until about 4 months ago the only time we've had a discussion about my wife participating in my fetish was when we vacation in the Caribbean.  Away from people we know, and with the ability to participate in various forms of female combat, i.e., mud-wrestling, foxy-boxing, etc., I thought it would be great.  The reason my wife elected not to was the fact that in almost all these events you'll find someone with a camera.  As we are both professional people the thought of having a video of my wife surface on the Internet was not something we wanted to happen.

So my cf secret was just that until about 4 months ago when my wife came home and announced that she wanted to fight this girl named Monique.  (Details in the "basement boxing" thread).  Having never had a couple come over for the wives to fight, I found this forum and asked basically, "what were the rules".

A few of you on this forum are aware of what happened next.  I will say that the real event was anything but sexy, but I wished I had filmed it because if I watched it again it would be very erotic.  Remembering me removing my wife’s bra in front of her opponent’s husband and waiting for the round to begin where her opponent could pummel her bare tits is as sexy as the first time I saw my wife’s amazing nipples.  And although that fight led to the possibility of her doing more fighting like that in the future, the fact that “other people” know about it causes me worry. 

[DJP60]

i dont hide it my X knows and she got me interested

[BigDevil]

I dont hide it nearly as much as i used too. When i was a kid it was such a taboo subject to talk about let along admit to loving. When i came online and found out that a lot of other people are into it plus the fact that women's combative sports is much more accepted these days I find myself admitting it much more freely.

[DavidUK]

First and foremost, my girlfriend knows and is comfortable with it. It's not the defining aspect of our relationship and neither should it be, but it's something we can tap into to enhance our sex life.

I think the motto is 'do no harm.' I've grown to view it as being more than titillation and a full expression of womanhood. At least, that's how I sold it to her and it worked. Any mention of her actually getting involved has revolved around the lines of "yeah, you could easily take Megan Fox, etc." All good humoured, but it gets her mental process working overtime. If she gets involved it's a bonus, but I'm sure as hell not going to pressure her to do anything she doesn't want.

As for others, a few close friends know. At least, as far back when I was younger and told them. They're still my close friends today, but the subject never comes up and neither do I raise it. Maybe they suspect I'm still interested or maybe they think it's a phase I was going through. In the same respect, they've blurted out inner desires in their youth and I certainly don't think the worst of them or even hold them to it.

The biggest challenge I've experienced is of direct family knowing, that's something else entirely. My mum found my copy of the 'Battling Beauties' video and a short story I wrote about a catfight when I was in my late teens. Not exactly a comfortable situation at the time and maybe once again, dismissed as a phase I was going through. But now, it's water under a bridge.

At the end of the day, only you know how strong your desires are. They might seem pretty potent but hell, there are stranger things afoot in this world than watching two beautiful semi-naked women working up a sweat and throwing each other around. In fact, that sounds pretty healthy to me.

[bedcatfighter]

I discuss it wiyh noone they dont have to know about what gets me going also when at work and two women walk down the hall or on the street I wonder who would win in a catfight while my co workers have other ideas.  what it comes down to is what people dont know about you wont hurt th

[cfight]

The only person who knows of my fetish, believe it or not, is my wife. I've thought and fantasize women fighting since I was young. I also have a nylon fetish, seeing a woman wearing a dress or skirt and pantyhose, thinking of her getting into a fight.

She knows both of these fetishes, but we don't talk about it much. None of my friends know this of me and I wouldn't want them to know.

[leifericsson]

From most, but not my wife. We've talked about both spontaneous and planned fights  and all that goes with it.

[colt 45]

I have told a few girl friends over the years, one thought it hilarious, the other understood and saw no harm and played along.  My wife found out after we married and destroyed a lot of my stuff.  She thinks it is oerverted and still does.  I have told noone else.  Sometimes it it very hard to not have anyone to share with and even who understands.  I'm not even sure I understnad anymore but I can't really change it. 
those of you with spouses that understand and still love you or even participate in your fantasy, you are VERY lucky.  Trat them right and hano on to them, they are few and far between.

[Morb_SJ]

I don't talk to people about it, but also don't see any need for that. It's my private life, like many other things.

Mostly, this.

Some of my exgirlfriends know, and just one of my friends. Surprisingly, none of my exs has made it public, and I say "surprisingly" because some were really mad when we broke up. My friend is cool, he doesn't talks about it publicly, but privately he sometimes joke about it. He's not into it, but finds it funny that a guy like me enjoys this kind of stuff.

I wouldn't mind exposing my fetish if I meet somebody enough open-minded, but just in that case, and if the subject comes out. Personally, I don't think that most people would understand.