I am new to this chat site and need help to overcome my ignorance. Is the site for chat only, or mainly, or can it be used to see real fights? I am having trouble sorting fact from fiction while enjoying the fiction in the stories - a male fantasy land?? - but wonder how many of the good looking ladies who state that "I am looking for a fight" (nhb variety perhaps) actually find one. If so are they all private or are there exceptions so that catfight enthusiasts like me, can actually see the results? I have been collecting catfight videos for 20 years (plus boxing and wrestling videos, mainly from DWW) but have not seen any as agressive as some of the stories suggest. Do any such nhb videos exist either on your site, or commercially? I tell myself that an enthusiastic amateur fight will have more going for it than a choreographed pro fight. My biggest hope is to find a mature ladies, real life (i.e. inbuilt anger) nhb fight that originates over a confrontation (MumvMum for example) and is resolved with an agreement to an organised fight "tomorrow" and which would have a witness to report, and if agreed by the participants, to photograph. What is a cyber fight, by the way? HELP!