I normally never chime in on the comment board. In fact the only time I've been here is a few months back when one of the men on this site asked if he could pair me up with some other gal in an imaginary fight poll. I agreed to it and never bothered to see how it came out. Anyway, I've had only one arranged fight and I always insist that no intentional scratching be allowed. Incidental scratches from grabbing will occur and thats fine. Thats why when discussing rules, I am upfront about preferring a fistfight. In a fistfight there is usually the chance of a bloody nose or lip and bruises but they heal much quicker than deep scratches and there is a far less chance of permanant scarring. I've my share of spontaneous fights and I make it clear when we step outside by raising my fists, that I'm not fooling around. I have never charged another woman grabbing for her hair to start a fight. I have had to pull hair in some fights when the other gal did manage to get a grip on mine, but If I did grab her hair, I would do it for control for as long as it would take me to punch her face hard until she gave up or just dropped to the ground.