[JanaFights]

Have I ever compared myself to her?
Absolutely....
Here and every other woman who I find mildly cute in any way lol
That’s just being female ;-)
Did she do it because of me?
I doubt it....
Oh she used to complain about hers being too small and make polite comments about mine, but I just think she hated how her clothes fit...
And you’re right...
A titfight (in my opinion) doesn’t have to be physical....
It can be psychological....
In my group of girlfriends I’m two things...
I’m the short one, and I’m the friend with the boobs...
I’m not pornstar huge or anything but I’m definitely the busty friend...
Yes they love to point that out to me, and yes I enjoy being the friend with the big boobs...
I also if I’m being completely honest love the attention (both positive and negative) and dress at times to garner that attention....
While I’m unapologetic it has caused problems and hurt feelings at times....
My teenage daughters constantly criticize me for showing too much cleavage or wearing tops that they view as too tight at times, and I recently learned that my youngest daughter complained about how I was dressed at cookout to a mutual friend calling me an attention whore which seriously hurt my feelings...
But the reverse is also true...
I’ve known a now ex friend had deep feelings of insecurity about how small and inferior I made her feel about her own breasts (especially as I was breastfeeding) and I liked it...
It actually turned me on and made me feel more feminine and sexy...

Even superior to her in a way.

I have noticed a change in my interest to compare with others. I am now a grown adult and, as I am aging, my boobs lost a bit of firmness, though they did not start to hang or get lose overall.
Now, I do simply not have as much desire to put my boobs against others, or at least its not challenging to me any more. I love the feeling as before, but the "want to be superior" aspect is almost not there any more. Maybe because I have grown muscles that comparing is more intense and diverse - but mostly because for my ego, I do not need it any more, being professionally successful. Not that I have not been successful before, but it definitely is not boosting my ego any more to be superior, physically. Its just fun now.
Has anybody of you experienced similar feeling?

[snw]

Have I ever compared myself to her?
Absolutely....
Here and every other woman who I find mildly cute in any way lol
That’s just being female ;-)
Did she do it because of me?
I doubt it....
Oh she used to complain about hers being too small and make polite comments about mine, but I just think she hated how her clothes fit...
And you’re right...
A titfight (in my opinion) doesn’t have to be physical....
It can be psychological....
In my group of girlfriends I’m two things...
I’m the short one, and I’m the friend with the boobs...
I’m not pornstar huge or anything but I’m definitely the busty friend...
Yes they love to point that out to me, and yes I enjoy being the friend with the big boobs...
I also if I’m being completely honest love the attention (both positive and negative) and dress at times to garner that attention....
While I’m unapologetic it has caused problems and hurt feelings at times....
My teenage daughters constantly criticize me for showing too much cleavage or wearing tops that they view as too tight at times, and I recently learned that my youngest daughter complained about how I was dressed at cookout to a mutual friend calling me an attention whore which seriously hurt my feelings...
But the reverse is also true...
I’ve known a now ex friend had deep feelings of insecurity about how small and inferior I made her feel about her own breasts (especially as I was breastfeeding) and I liked it...
It actually turned me on and made me feel more feminine and sexy...

Even superior to her in a way.

Love your honesty and this is exactly the way I have imagined many women are both the smaller and much better equipped. Has it ever caused issues between say another couple catching their spouse checking you out instead of them a bit too much or being a bit flirty? I know some girls get angry when they catch their guy checking out another woman. Angry at both but mainly their guy since confrontation with the source of the insecurity is too risky. Probably wouldn’t help to already be upstaged in assets and chance having your ass handed to you as well. Be hard to recover from that happening in front of your man. Which is hot to think about unless you’re the one losing. Other girls though I’m sure become timid around their bustier friends. Even sort of submissive in a way. Which is hot to think of as well. I’m sure it’s quite intimidating to some women and especially at a younger age to see the confidence and attention being emitted to the girl who has the goods and  doesn’t waste them. Like you alluded to you don’t have to be huge up top just well enough and proud to display what you’ve been given. Kinda of a waste not too in my opinion and you can’t help how those around you feel or react to it. I think it’s awesome you don’t let those with a different opinion affect you too much. It’s one thing to dress trashy and another to wear the same clothes as most other girls and just happen to wear a bit better. A bikini on a 36B and a 36D+ is the same top one just looks quiet a bit sexier in it in my opinion that is. Again love your honesty and confidence.

[Julie34DD]

Thank you for the compliment...
I may have already mentioned this (if so I apologize) but in my circle of friends I’m basically the short blonde with big boobs lol
They aren’t enormous, but they are definitely the drink bringers when we go out lol
They draw attention....
They have since I was a girl...
From males and females...
Both positive and negative...
I’ve learned to enjoy both and from both :-)
I guess in a way (and as pathetic as it might sound) my breasts have become my identity over the years...
I’ve used them to “get” things that I wanted...
I wear the things I wear to garner that attention...
I’ve spent a lifetime pretending not to notice as other people notice if you get what I’m saying lol
If I lean over to look at something in a low cut top maybe I just leaned over, or maybe I leaned over to make you look, but if you look, I now you looked even if you don’t think I did...
If I overhear another mom at my daughters school making a catty comment about how I’m dressed or how I’m “trying too hard” I take it as a small victory because to me, she’s the one feeling threatened somehow...
Two my daughters friends I’m the hot mom, and yes I like that....
My daughters not so much sometimes lol
Is this physical titfighting?
No.
But as most of the women in here would agree...
We tend to fight in a lot of subtle ways ;-)