Is it real?

[Woody9770]

Hi all,

I'm pretty new to this so just wanted to ask a (possibly stupid) question.
I see on quite a few profiles that some women have competed in real life cat fights, tit fights and sexfights etc. My question is, how would a sexfight or a tit fight work in real life? Do they actually exist? I can see how they would work in the fictional world, but I'm confused as to how anyone would go about this in real life. For example, the idea is to make the opponent orgasm? How would this work unless the opponent allowed it? Surely a fighter could just disengage if they found themselves about to orgasm? Please excuse me if I'm just being naive, but it's something I've often wondered about.

[Txblonde]

It's not unusual for some erotic feelings to occur during an irl match just because of the nature of the competition..,however I would think that a true sexfight is more imagination than real.... Just my opinion as I have never competed in such a match...

[Woody9770]

It's not unusual for some erotic feelings to occur during an irl match just because of the nature of the competition..,however I would think that a true sexfight is more imagination than real.... Just my opinion as I have never competed in such a match...

Yeah, pretty much what I thought to be honest. Thanks.

[caryn1]

There are times when a sex fight can happen between lesbians being jealous or bisexual women for the same reason

[Woody9770]

There are times when a sex fight can happen between lesbians being jealous or bisexual women for the same reason

Yes, I get that things can sometimes spontaneously happen (during an intense catfight or wrestling match for example), but I was thinking more about an arranged, intentional sexfight.  Just not sure how this could work in real life. To be honest I suspect that they don't actually take place outside of fiction.

[locked]

I corresponded with , met and visited a guy who ran a sexfight site for many years. Really nice guy.  At the time it was the most raw and explicit one out there and the sex fights seemed real enough and most of the women were not 'classy' women by any stretch of the imagination. Though these sex fights were arranged and done for profit, the women really went about it hard and competitively ; some were friends doing it for fun and money while others had a mean streak and contempt and were dead serious about beating the other woman sexually besides getting paid.

If you saw their videos you can tell who were dead fucking serious and not 'nice girls' in any stretch of the imagination. I talked with this guy a full afternoon and dinner and he admitted that these girls that would agree to do this shit with another girl just were 'not right', LOL.  Remember though, this was done and arranged for $$$ ....  this wasn't done because two girls decided to actually fight this way.  Like the other poster said, that kind of crap of two women meeting to sex fight with the winner gets the guy is bullshit.

The place I'm talking about is long gone I believe, but all these years later you have Rain's Sexy Wrestling who's wrestling / sex fighting site is even more explicit sexually as the one I'm mentioning from all those years ago ...  YET... all the women in his camp seem to be as sweet as can be, not like the hard-asses from the place I talked about. 

AND .... don't ask for identification of that other place , won't hear it from me.    But if you've been around this stuff long enough, you probably know who it was.

[Woody9770]

I corresponded with , met and visited a guy who ran a sexfight site for many years. Really nice guy.  At the time it was the most raw and explicit one out there and the sex fights seemed real enough and most of the women were not 'classy' women by any stretch of the imagination. Though these sex fights were arranged and done for profit, the women really went about it hard and competitively ; some were friends doing it for fun and money while others had a mean streak and contempt and were dead serious about beating the other woman sexually besides getting paid.

If you saw their videos you can tell who were dead fucking serious and not 'nice girls' in any stretch of the imagination. I talked with this guy a full afternoon and dinner and he admitted that these girls that would agree to do this shit with another girl just were 'not right', LOL.  Remember though, this was done and arranged for $$$ ....  this wasn't done because two girls decided to actually fight this way.  Like the other poster said, that kind of crap of two women meeting to sex fight with the winner gets the guy is bullshit.

The place I'm talking about is long gone I believe, but all these years later you have Rain's Sexy Wrestling who's wrestling / sex fighting site is even more explicit sexually as the one I'm mentioning from all those years ago ...  YET... all the women in his camp seem to be as sweet as can be, not like the hard-asses from the place I talked about. 

AND .... don't ask for identification of that other place , won't hear it from me.    But if you've been around this stuff long enough, you probably know who it was.

Yes, I see what you're saying, but it's still kind of 'arranged' though isn't it? It's still a performance at the end of the day (albeit a convincing one no doubt). What I don't get is how one would win such a fight if it existed in real life. How would the winner be decided if it were a real competition? It's not like a wrestling match where one fighter would be convincingly pinned or submitted. This is why I feel that a sexfight is more glamour/pornography than actual competition.

[locked]

I corresponded with , met and visited a guy who ran a sexfight site for many years. Really nice guy.  At the time it was the most raw and explicit one out there and the sex fights seemed real enough and most of the women were not 'classy' women by any stretch of the imagination. Though these sex fights were arranged and done for profit, the women really went about it hard and competitively ; some were friends doing it for fun and money while others had a mean streak and contempt and were dead serious about beating the other woman sexually besides getting paid.

If you saw their videos you can tell who were dead fucking serious and not 'nice girls' in any stretch of the imagination. I talked with this guy a full afternoon and dinner and he admitted that these girls that would agree to do this shit with another girl just were 'not right', LOL.  Remember though, this was done and arranged for $$$ ....  this wasn't done because two girls decided to actually fight this way.  Like the other poster said, that kind of crap of two women meeting to sex fight with the winner gets the guy is bullshit.

The place I'm talking about is long gone I believe, but all these years later you have Rain's Sexy Wrestling who's wrestling / sex fighting site is even more explicit sexually as the one I'm mentioning from all those years ago ...  YET... all the women in his camp seem to be as sweet as can be, not like the hard-asses from the place I talked about. 

AND .... don't ask for identification of that other place , won't hear it from me.    But if you've been around this stuff long enough, you probably know who it was.

Yes, I see what you're saying, but it's still kind of 'arranged' though isn't it? It's still a performance at the end of the day (albeit a convincing one no doubt). What I don't get is how one would win such a fight if it existed in real life. How would the winner be decided if it were a real competition? It's not like a wrestling match where one fighter would be convincingly pinned or submitted. This is why I feel that a sexfight is more glamour/pornography than actual competition.

I corresponded with , met and visited a guy who ran a sexfight site for many years. Really nice guy.  At the time it was the most raw and explicit one out there and the sex fights seemed real enough and most of the women were not 'classy' women by any stretch of the imagination. Though these sex fights were arranged and done for profit, the women really went about it hard and competitively ; some were friends doing it for fun and money while others had a mean streak and contempt and were dead serious about beating the other woman sexually besides getting paid.

If you saw their videos you can tell who were dead fucking serious and not 'nice girls' in any stretch of the imagination. I talked with this guy a full afternoon and dinner and he admitted that these girls that would agree to do this shit with another girl just were 'not right', LOL.  Remember though, this was done and arranged for $$$ ....  this wasn't done because two girls decided to actually fight this way.  Like the other poster said, that kind of crap of two women meeting to sex fight with the winner gets the guy is bullshit.

The place I'm talking about is long gone I believe, but all these years later you have Rain's Sexy Wrestling who's wrestling / sex fighting site is even more explicit sexually as the one I'm mentioning from all those years ago ...  YET... all the women in his camp seem to be as sweet as can be, not like the hard-asses from the place I talked about. 

AND .... don't ask for identification of that other place , won't hear it from me.    But if you've been around this stuff long enough, you probably know who it was.

Yes, I see what you're saying, but it's still kind of 'arranged' though isn't it? It's still a performance at the end of the day (albeit a convincing one no doubt). What I don't get is how one would win such a fight if it existed in real life. How would the winner be decided if it were a real competition? It's not like a wrestling match where one fighter would be convincingly pinned or submitted. This is why I feel that a sexfight is more glamour/pornography than actual competition.

Yeah, of course it's all arranged.  And fas as who won in that old site, one girl just gave up from how I saw it.

I seriously doubt any two girls ever challenged each other to a sexfight without a producer behind it .... other than in our minds.

[Woody9770]

I corresponded with , met and visited a guy who ran a sexfight site for many years. Really nice guy.  At the time it was the most raw and explicit one out there and the sex fights seemed real enough and most of the women were not 'classy' women by any stretch of the imagination. Though these sex fights were arranged and done for profit, the women really went about it hard and competitively ; some were friends doing it for fun and money while others had a mean streak and contempt and were dead serious about beating the other woman sexually besides getting paid.

If you saw their videos you can tell who were dead fucking serious and not 'nice girls' in any stretch of the imagination. I talked with this guy a full afternoon and dinner and he admitted that these girls that would agree to do this shit with another girl just were 'not right', LOL.  Remember though, this was done and arranged for $$$ ....  this wasn't done because two girls decided to actually fight this way.  Like the other poster said, that kind of crap of two women meeting to sex fight with the winner gets the guy is bullshit.

The place I'm talking about is long gone I believe, but all these years later you have Rain's Sexy Wrestling who's wrestling / sex fighting site is even more explicit sexually as the one I'm mentioning from all those years ago ...  YET... all the women in his camp seem to be as sweet as can be, not like the hard-asses from the place I talked about. 

AND .... don't ask for identification of that other place , won't hear it from me.    But if you've been around this stuff long enough, you probably know who it was.

Yes, I see what you're saying, but it's still kind of 'arranged' though isn't it? It's still a performance at the end of the day (albeit a convincing one no doubt). What I don't get is how one would win such a fight if it existed in real life. How would the winner be decided if it were a real competition? It's not like a wrestling match where one fighter would be convincingly pinned or submitted. This is why I feel that a sexfight is more glamour/pornography than actual competition.

I corresponded with , met and visited a guy who ran a sexfight site for many years. Really nice guy.  At the time it was the most raw and explicit one out there and the sex fights seemed real enough and most of the women were not 'classy' women by any stretch of the imagination. Though these sex fights were arranged and done for profit, the women really went about it hard and competitively ; some were friends doing it for fun and money while others had a mean streak and contempt and were dead serious about beating the other woman sexually besides getting paid.

If you saw their videos you can tell who were dead fucking serious and not 'nice girls' in any stretch of the imagination. I talked with this guy a full afternoon and dinner and he admitted that these girls that would agree to do this shit with another girl just were 'not right', LOL.  Remember though, this was done and arranged for $$$ ....  this wasn't done because two girls decided to actually fight this way.  Like the other poster said, that kind of crap of two women meeting to sex fight with the winner gets the guy is bullshit.

The place I'm talking about is long gone I believe, but all these years later you have Rain's Sexy Wrestling who's wrestling / sex fighting site is even more explicit sexually as the one I'm mentioning from all those years ago ...  YET... all the women in his camp seem to be as sweet as can be, not like the hard-asses from the place I talked about. 

AND .... don't ask for identification of that other place , won't hear it from me.    But if you've been around this stuff long enough, you probably know who it was.

Yes, I see what you're saying, but it's still kind of 'arranged' though isn't it? It's still a performance at the end of the day (albeit a convincing one no doubt). What I don't get is how one would win such a fight if it existed in real life. How would the winner be decided if it were a real competition? It's not like a wrestling match where one fighter would be convincingly pinned or submitted. This is why I feel that a sexfight is more glamour/pornography than actual competition.

Yeah, of course it's all arranged.  And fas as who won in that old site, one girl just gave up from how I saw it.

I seriously doubt any two girls ever challenged each other to a sexfight without a producer behind it .... other than in our minds.

Yes, pretty much what I thought. I'm assuming that the winner is determined before the match starts and they just play it out until it's time to end it. As in the Mr Rains videos you mentioned, it's pretty clear that the participants are just 2 adult models going through the motions for the camera. There's no illusion of any reality in those videos. I only asked the question because you see many profiles on here of people who claim to have had, or be available for real life catfights and sexfights and wondered how that could possibly work. Thanks for your input everyone.

[_Ruslana_]

Hi all,

 My question is, how would a sexfight or a tit fight work in real life?

Only in sex "fights." I agree with the previous commenter that sex fights aren't fights by any definition of the term; they're simply a form of sexual "practice." In a real fight, many of the breast-based techniques typical of sex fights are useless. For example, it's nearly impossible to choke an opponent with breasts in a fight. Techniques such as breast scratching and breast punching are effective, but these tactics aren't typically used in sex fights.

[Woody9770]

Hi all,

 My question is, how would a sexfight or a tit fight work in real life?

Only in sex "fights." I agree with the previous commenter that sex fights aren't fights by any definition of the term; they're simply a form of sexual "practice." In a real fight, many of the breast-based techniques typical of sex fights are useless. For example, it's nearly impossible to choke an opponent with breasts in a fight. Techniques such as breast scratching and breast punching are effective, but these tactics aren't typically used in sex fights.

Yes, I would imagine that most sex fighting techniques would be totally useless in a real fight. But then again I don't think a real fight would really involve any nudity or sexual element at all to be honest (maybe in an arranged catfight, but not in a real fight).

[_Ruslana_]

Yes, I would imagine that most sex fighting techniques would be totally useless in a real fight. But then again I don't think a real fight would really involve any nudity or sexual element at all to be honest (maybe in an arranged catfight, but not in a real fight).

Yes, you're right. But in a real fight, clothes sometimes get torn, but it's not done as a sexual act. In a real fight, there are sometimes kicks and punches to breasts, and that's also not a sexual act, but a way to hurt the opponent.
I think there's much less in common between "sex fights" and fighting than people usually think.

[Woody9770]

Yes, I would imagine that most sex fighting techniques would be totally useless in a real fight. But then again I don't think a real fight would really involve any nudity or sexual element at all to be honest (maybe in an arranged catfight, but not in a real fight).

Yes, you're right. But in a real fight, clothes sometimes get torn, but it's not done as a sexual act. In a real fight, there are sometimes kicks and punches to breasts, and that's also not a sexual act, but a way to hurt the opponent.
I think there's much less in common between "sex fights" and fighting than people usually think.

Agreed. I think that the term 'fight' is applied rather loosely in the case of sexfights.

[Woody9770]