Rule breaker

[Txblonde]

If you were a spectator at a loved one's irl arranged rules match and her opponent started occasionally breaking a rule here or there during the match, would you step in and cancel the match or would you leave it up to your loved one? Would it make a difference what rule was being violated? Would you react differently depending on who your loved one was, wife/daughter/mother?

[neofiyte]

If the rules were set and my gf looked to me to stop it I would.

Its no longer mutual combat if one does something outside what was agreed upon.

[caryn1]

I go with the last comment

[Boche]

I go along with Neo's comemnt and Caryn's.

[xanderale99]

If both fighters were open to it, you could try having them wear remote control vibrators.  That way if either girl violates a rule, you could give her a little pulse as a warning.  For repeated violations, you give her a longer or more intense pulse. 

[lumberjack66]

I think to a certain extent it would depend how the rule was broken and which rule.  For example, if the ladies agree there is no hair pulling and in the heat of battle one yanks the others hair a moment, it is a verbal warning and drive on.  She keeps pulling and it is time to stop it.  If however one starts to strangle the other, or eye gouge, are try to break an arm or something... that's it.  Fight is over.  Fights are sexy.  Hospital Room visits are not.  And that goes both ways.  If my loved one were breaking the rules or her foe when it crosses that safety line it is over. 

[GrapplingMom]

I'd agree with the general consensus that unless one's loved one is actively looking for help, that it should let be. Now if things get too crazy, turning from wrestling to a beating, then I think stepping in is necessary. But I do think some rule breaking is to be expected in a competition like this. Passions run hot and you can't always control them.

[panoskl2003]

I have been present in a situation like that concerning my wife. The rules of the match were submission wrestling no armbars no chokes. And definitely not catfighting. The rules were agreed by our women.
But at a certain point of their battle it was my wife who broke the rules pulling her opponent's hair as she was under her trying to defend herself.
Me and the other guy watching, stepped in and stopped them. I was pretty sure that it was a matter of seconds until her opponent do the same to my wife as she had the advantage of riding her at that time.
But anyway the rules were set and we did that to have fun not to see them get injured. And don't forget they were totally strangers not friends.

[Horny-Jew]

I wouldn't care. My only rule is no one gets hurt.

[FLStud4U]

I have been present in a situation like that concerning my wife. The rules of the match were submission wrestling no armbars no chokes. And definitely not catfighting. The rules were agreed by our women.
But at a certain point of their battle it was my wife who broke the rules pulling her opponent's hair as she was under her trying to defend herself.
Me and the other guy watching, stepped in and stopped them. I was pretty sure that it was a matter of seconds until her opponent do the same to my wife as she had the advantage of riding her at that time.
But anyway the rules were set and we did that to have fun not to see them get injured. And don't forget they were totally strangers not friends.

Did they resume wrestling after?  Or was that the end of the match?

[DS79]

I have been present in a situation like that concerning my wife. The rules of the match were submission wrestling no armbars no chokes. And definitely not catfighting. The rules were agreed by our women.
But at a certain point of their battle it was my wife who broke the rules pulling her opponent's hair as she was under her trying to defend herself.
Me and the other guy watching, stepped in and stopped them. I was pretty sure that it was a matter of seconds until her opponent do the same to my wife as she had the advantage of riding her at that time.
But anyway the rules were set and we did that to have fun not to see them get injured. And don't forget they were totally strangers not friends.

same here...when one of my wife's opponents pulled her hair during a wrestling match, things got out of hand, and my wife attacked her opponent in the same way. We separated them and couldn't continue the match. Both women were enraged, accusing each other of breaking the rules and hurling insults. Continuing the match would likely have led to a serious fight. Later, they apologized over the phone, citing adrenaline and hormones as the cause of the escalation.

[hghunt999]

I have been present in a situation like that concerning my wife. The rules of the match were submission wrestling no armbars no chokes. And definitely not catfighting. The rules were agreed by our women.
But at a certain point of their battle it was my wife who broke the rules pulling her opponent's hair as she was under her trying to defend herself.
Me and the other guy watching, stepped in and stopped them. I was pretty sure that it was a matter of seconds until her opponent do the same to my wife as she had the advantage of riding her at that time.
But anyway the rules were set and we did that to have fun not to see them get injured. And don't forget they were totally strangers not friends.

same here...when one of my wife's opponents pulled her hair during a wrestling match, things got out of hand, and my wife attacked her opponent in the same way. We separated them and couldn't continue the match. Both women were enraged, accusing each other of breaking the rules and hurling insults. Continuing the match would likely have led to a serious fight. Later, they apologized over the phone, citing adrenaline and hormones as the cause of the escalation.

That last phrase "citing adrenaline and hormones as the cause of the escalation" would be a welcome event by many catfight fans, including myself! Not saying what you did was wrong though.

[Txblonde]

I think it would depend on the severity of the rule being broken as well as the participants themselves...my husband has never interfered with any of my matches even when some rules were being violated...he's always left it up to me to either respond in kind or to withdraw from the match if I felt it was necessary...

[Txblonde]