I have watched my wife losing in a wrestling match and I have watched her win also. She was sexy either way. It's not the loss or the win that turns me on. It is her emotions, her reactions and of course the wrestling holds that she, or her opponent, uses to get submissions. It is the whole picture of the battle. I don't want her to get hurt. I don't fantasize anything like that. But being inside scissor holds moaning trying to escape,,, yes that is really sexy indeed.