This question probably wouldnt have occured to me if I hadnt recently lost my wife, Several years ago a mutual work colleague suggested to my wife that they have a wrestling match for my entertainment. The winner would get me for the night/weekend and the loser would be the winners slave. She then proceeded to tell her what she would do to her. She made my wife feel really small and pathetic as there was no way she would have won.
The strange part wasnt that I was turned on but we then had the best sex we ever had because she was really turned on.
After this She would regularly tell me stories about catfights or wrestling where she would get destroyed. It was awesome but Thinking back her fave parts were the beginning when her opponent would mentally break her before the fight started and the end where she would be forced to say the other woman was better, hotter, superior. And then shed be punished. Her fantasies always involved me being fucked by the other woman.
Ok she was obviously naturally submissive but I never got why she liked the idea of being mentally dominated.
We did discuss the idea of doing this in real life a few times but despite the fact it would have been exceptionally hot i was never that keen on the idea that I would have to sleep with another woman, but for my wife that was a huge part of her fantasy.
So what emotions or mental aspect of this fetish appeals to others here?