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Mental Domination.

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Offline daz

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Mental Domination.
« on: October 25, 2016, 11:54:36 PM »
This question probably wouldnt have occured to me if I hadnt recently lost my wife,    Several years ago a mutual work colleague suggested to my wife that they have a wrestling match for my entertainment.  The winner would get me for the night/weekend and the loser would be the winners slave.  She then proceeded to tell her what she would do to her.   She made my wife feel really small and pathetic as there was no way she would have won.
The strange part wasnt that I was turned on but we then had the best sex we ever had because she was really turned on.   
After this She would regularly tell me stories about catfights or wrestling where she would get destroyed.   It was awesome but Thinking back her fave parts were the beginning when her opponent would mentally break her before the fight started and the end where she would be forced to say the other woman was better, hotter, superior.  And then shed be punished.  Her fantasies always involved me being fucked by the other woman.
Ok she was obviously naturally submissive but I never got why she liked the idea of being mentally dominated.
We did discuss the idea of doing this in real life a few times but despite the fact it would have been exceptionally hot i was never that keen on the idea that I would have to sleep with another woman, but for my wife that was a huge part of her fantasy.
So what emotions or mental aspect of this fetish appeals to others here?

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Offline dfoulup

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Re: Mental Domination.
« Reply #1 on: October 27, 2016, 06:03:03 PM »
First of all I'm sorry for your loss.  Clearly you loved your wife; I'm sure being without her is hard for you.

Regarding her fantasy of being some other woman's property and you having to service the other woman; well I just find it odd.  But, fantasies are often odd.  You said you had great sex after talking about her fantasy.  It was great that she shared that with you and very brave as well.  I must admit that thinking of another woman beating my wife then demanding sex doesn't do much for me either.  Two strangers and I get to fuck the winner; that works. 

I'm looking forward to hearing other people's takes on this.  Best wishes.

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Re: Mental Domination.
« Reply #2 on: October 27, 2016, 11:43:06 PM »
Thanks.   

It was odd  that 2 people could like the same thing but for very different reasons.

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Re: Mental Domination.
« Reply #3 on: November 02, 2016, 06:53:18 PM »
I think being submissive and fantasising over, or liking, being mentally dominated are one thing -?
Being submissive is all about enjoying the humiliation. And a woman fantasising over having her man taken by a bigger, stronger one who manages to turn him on and have sex with him is just the ultimate humiliation. To me, there is nothing strange about that.
Every excess is fine as long as you don't overdo it.

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Re: Mental Domination.
« Reply #4 on: November 03, 2016, 12:36:06 AM »
I realy want  a females point of view on this, well a dominant woman and  a submissive womans point of view anyway.