[JT Edson]

Is it wrong to be turned on by a possessive, jealous woman when she talks about her competition? I know what I think most of the men on here will say, but I would be interested in how ALL the members of the FCF think about this.

I had a female ...acquaintance recently express a little displeasure that another acquaintance was paying a little too much attention to me. She knows that catfight's turn me on and I think this might have a little to do with it. I was pretty aroused by the whole situation and have been fantasizing about the ladies going at it since then, but I felt a little guilty about it the other day and wanted input since I have been thinking about it so much lately.

JT Edson

[shesfinished]

Is it wrong to be turned on by a possessive, jealous woman when she talks about her competition? I know what I think most of the men on here will say, but I would be interested in how ALL the members of the FCF think about this.

I had a female ...acquaintance recently express a little displeasure that another acquaintance was paying a little too much attention to me. She knows that catfight's turn me on and I think this might have a little to do with it. I was pretty aroused by the whole situation and have been fantasizing about the ladies going at it since then, but I felt a little guilty about it the other day and wanted input since I have been thinking about it so much lately.

JT Edson

I do not think it is wrong, JT. It is a dilema though. It is kinda like having two ladies catfight over you, but genuinely like both of them at the same time. Don't know how I would handle the outcome. My thoughts.

[JT Edson]

Is it wrong to be turned on by a possessive, jealous woman when she talks about her competition? I know what I think most of the men on here will say, but I would be interested in how ALL the members of the FCF think about this.

I had a female ...acquaintance recently express a little displeasure that another acquaintance was paying a little too much attention to me. She knows that catfight's turn me on and I think this might have a little to do with it. I was pretty aroused by the whole situation and have been fantasizing about the ladies going at it since then, but I felt a little guilty about it the other day and wanted input since I have been thinking about it so much lately.

JT Edson

I do not think it is wrong, JT. It is a dilema though. It is kinda like having two ladies catfight over you, but genuinely like both of them at the same time. Don't know how I would handle the outcome. My thoughts.

Thank you both for sharing your thoughts on this. It is appreciated.

[Bear]

You're a regular contributor here, and you think this is wrong?  What have you been drinking?

[JT Edson]

You're a regular contributor here, and you think this is wrong?  What have you been drinking?

I don't necessarily think it is wrong or right, but I did feel some guilt over it at the time for some reason and I just want to know other's opinions. I've been thinking about it alot lately because the possibility of these two going at it is very real, not just my fantasy.

[Gent]

i dont think its wrong, its only if you reacted in a bad/selfish manor. for example goading them into a fight.

[Bear]

You're a regular contributor here, and you think this is wrong?  What have you been drinking?

I don't necessarily think it is wrong or right, but I did feel some guilt over it at the time for some reason and I just want to know other's opinions. I've been thinking about it alot lately because the possibility of these two going at it is very real, not just my fantasy.

I don't think that there's anything wrong about fantasizing about it.  However, if you somehow contributed to hit occurring, then I can see where you might feel some guilt. 

[pingpong]

i dont think its wrong, its only if you reacted in a bad/selfish manor. for example goading them into a fight.

It's a good fantasy to want to see them catfight, however egging them on would be so wrong. In my past, I had an ex GF that hated my current GF and wanted to fight her. I was excited, but disregarded it. Best to leave it up to the girls without getting involved.

[JT Edson]

Thank you all. I do fantasize about women catfighting a lot (and yes, I usually fantasize about them catfighting over me.) The reason this one is different to me is the similarity to two other situations in my past. A couple of times in my younger days, there were young ladies willing to catfight tooth and nail over me (some of you are familiar with these). I stopped those from happening. (For better or worse, I enjoy the fantasy but don't want to see someone seriously hurt on my account.)

I guess because I am older (a bit. lol.) it really turned me on to think two ladies would still catfight tooth and nail over me really gave my ego incredible boost. I didn't do anything to encourage them to fight, but I haven't done anything to discourage it from happening either. I started feeling guilty about it. You guys are kind of my "therapists" or Jiminy Cricket in this case. lol.

Thank You for all your opinions and input. As usual, it is appreciated,

JT Edson

JT Edson

[sinclairfan]

Only very loosely related, but here goes:

In the mid-1970s, there was a CBS Radio Mystery Theatre (it takes fantastic writing and even better [voice-]acting to tell a mystery story on radio, but they did it every weeknight) about a single male business executive, his single female secretary who had a MAJOR crush on him, and his fiancee with a drinking problem trying to sober up before the wedding so that they could live happily ever after.

One day, the executive came home, and the fiancee had hung herself.

The cops investigated if there had been a break-in, if the fiancee maybe had money problems from her drinking, if the executive had threatened to break the engagement.  But one particularly perceptive detective noticed the secretary's intense crush, and cracked the case.

Earlier in the day, the tipsy fiancee had called into work, desperately missing the executive.  The secretary refused to put him thru, lying and saying he was busy in a meeting.  She then hung up, saying "Please, please don't hang yourself by your bathrobe belt."

Well, the subliminal suggestion had done the trick.  That's exactly what the fiancee had proceeded to do.  The detective told the secretary she couldn't go to jail on such flimsy evidence, but he warned her that if she ever "made a move" on the executive and attempted to marry him, he would tell the executive what had happened.

Very sexy.  But would have been even sexier (and less deadly) if the fiancee and secretary had just fought over him.

[lumberjack66]

I don't think it is wrong at all to be turned on by it.  I don't even think it would be wrong to encourage them to fight over you.  As long as you are forcing nobody to do it, they both want you, they both know this is a turn on for you, etc.  Now arranging for one of them to ambush the other or if one of them is unaware of your interests or unwilling to fight or letting it go "too far"  (somebody badly hurt), that is definitely wrong.  Also be aware if they fight this could go directions you have no control of.

[presenterfan]

The life of a catfight fan is embellished with memories of sometimes small events, not necessarily a fight. 
A friend of mine had booked tickets for a small provincial theatre over the phone.  On arrival in a side alcove, the pre booked tickets were handed out but a female employee.   My friend , in her mid 50s, looked at the tickets and protested they further back than the ones she bought.  By coincidence the lady handing the tickets out had taken the call for the booking.  This was confirmed beyond doubt when both agreed a technical fault had ended the call.  They both disputed what had been said and the argument got heated and very quickly both ladies were repeatedly asking each other the same question, 'Are you calling me a liar?'   At that point I suggested no matter who was right, we should use the ticket.  There were other people about who would notice any escalation.   After I thought I should have gone back to the employee and apologised for my friends reaction, hoping to canvas some comment.  I should have told my friend I was shocked but proud of her for the way she argued. Hindsight is wonderful.  My abiding memory 30 years plus later is of two middle aged women, adrenalin coarsing  through their bodies,  not so pert breasts thrust towards each other, both asking if they were been called a liar.  I suppose I should have backed my friend but as they glared at each other, neither giving an inch, both ladies were magnificent.
I think it's normal to wonder what might have happened or been arranged.

[snw]

In a perfect type scenario if they were to somehow be thrust into a wrestling match or some sort of spontaneous competition that neither would be seriously hurt but seeing them find out who wins would definitely be a win win except for the losing girls feelings that is.

[jondo53]

When I saw two pretty girls fighting yes it turned me on while at the same time I felt guilty at being excited by the fight, as it was real. Neither got badly hurt, though one told me later she started crying during the fight not because she was hurt but humiliated that with a short skirt on all of the onlookers saw her panties. Was I turned on to hear her say that? Yes! But again a feeling of guilt. Thing is the excitement is a gut reaction, involuntary. I think if I saw a cat fight in which one of them got really hurt I'd intervene to try and stop it, but I can't help my instinctive feelings.

[shesfinished]

When I saw two pretty girls fighting yes it turned me on while at the same time I felt guilty at being excited by the fight, as it was real. Neither got badly hurt, though one told me later she started crying during the fight not because she was hurt but humiliated that with a short skirt on all of the onlookers saw her panties. Was I turned on to hear her say that? Yes! But again a feeling of guilt. Thing is the excitement is a gut reaction, involuntary. I think if I saw a cat fight in which one of them got really hurt I'd intervene to try and stop it, but I can't help my instinctive feelings.

A reason I not a fan of street/bar fights between ladies. Let them settle in an arranged catfight where safely in ensured. Less guilt IMO.