The other day I finally decided to tell my new girlfriend about the catfight fetish of mine. I was expecting a not so positive response from her because that's what I received in all the previous relationships. To my surprise, she actually found that quite interesting and unique. Now I am in a uncharted territory. I don't exactly know what to talk about lol. I have told her about this one woman I'd like her fight but not much after that. What are some of the catfight related things you discuss about with your partner?
Firstly, congratulations!!! That sounds awesome. I wish I'd been a fraction as lucky. Secondly, I know this will not be the answer you want and I expect it to be unpopular but it's just my two cents worth.
Have you asked yourself EXACTLY what it is you want re the specifics? Would you seriously want your new girlfriend to fight for real? Would you want to see her win? Or lose? Are you willing in either case to risk possibly having her hurt in (I assume) a chaotic catfight?
Might you, as some sort of compromise (for now at least), be content with an scripted performance in a controlled situation? This might give her the confidence to try it out initially. Then see how it goes from there. Basically let her set the pace, rules, everything.
All I'm suggesting is baby steps. If it goes well and she's happy to then maybe you could push things a bit. I wouldn't myself because a convincing act was all I ever wanted. Never gonna happen now though
